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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm returning to the swingers scene after quite a long break and I would like some input about what would be the best way of getting back into the swing of things (pun intended) without making rookie mistakes?
I am bisexual and would like to explore this further. I'm experienced with bisexual women and transgendered women
Plus CD/TV.
I have not been to club's for quite a while.
I'm extremely attracted to the feminine regardless of gender identity.
What would be the best nights for me to attend for the above requirements?
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
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Quite a confusing profile. Very much focused on who you want to meet, rather than what you can offer and helping people decide if they would like to meet you.
Your profile should apoeal to people and get them interested in you.
There are lots of negative parts to it. Also what's a had case ?
If you mean head case....then maybe it's a bit rude. You want verified sensible, certain types of female and they have to put a certain phrase if they contact you. Think you may be optimistic if you expect people to contact you.
You need to put the effort in. |
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Perhaps i dont have a right to coment, as i have yet to fill in my/our profile.
But when i do it will also contain elements of what we have to offer, and not solely consist of just what we actively seek.. 
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Quite a confusing profile. Very much focused on who you want to meet, rather than what you can offer and helping people decide if they would like to meet you.
Your profile should apoeal to people and get them interested in you.
There are lots of negative parts to it. Also what's a had case ?
If you mean head case....then maybe it's a bit rude. You want verified sensible, certain types of female and they have to put a certain phrase if they contact you. Think you may be optimistic if you expect people to contact you.
You need to put the effort in. "
Thanks for your input I do feel that you need to put a grade on the end of that. I was getting Vietnam flashbacks when I was reading your feedback.
But I'm a big boy I can take criticism.
So less focus on who I want to meet, and more focus on what I can offer, got it thanks.
I was just wondering where do I need to turn up for my paddling?
I'm sorry Miss. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Good luck with that a decent profile apart from the update dates (its makes it a bit confusing) I am sure you will find lots of bi guys for fun.  "
Thanks for your feedback, I'll move the updates to the bottom of the profile. thank you |
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The profile is detailed enough but needs the spell checker to be run and possibly also read through to eliminate spelling mistakes it will not pick up on (e.g. sense instead of scene).
Otherwise, one controversial word of advice. Take it or leave it.
Some women will not meet a man who likes TVs. Usually, they are the same ones who will not meet a man who is bisexual. You have ticked "bisexual" and "TV" when completing the basic part of your profile, which is what no one can miss. Bigotry or not bigotry, you are not here to make moral judgments and appear grumpier than you really are in the process. Those who want to block you will do so whether you ask them to or not.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"The profile is detailed enough but needs the spell checker to be run and possibly also read through to eliminate spelling mistakes it will not pick up on (e.g. sense instead of scene).
Otherwise, one controversial word of advice. Take it or leave it.
Some women will not meet a man who likes TVs. Usually, they are the same ones who will not meet a man who is bisexual. You have ticked "bisexual" and "TV" when completing the basic part of your profile, which is what no one can miss. Bigotry or not bigotry, you are not here to make moral judgments and appear grumpier than you really are in the process. Those who want to block you will do so whether you ask them to or not.
Good luck."
For someone who is saying I'm not here to make moral judgements, you seem to be making "moral judgements" but I did ask for this so, I'll take out all reference of "bigoity"
I'm openly bisexual and never going back in that Narnia closet.
I do understand where you're coming from and get the grammar Nazis to rebuild my profile. I would never describe myself as grumpy more upbeat.
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Thanks for the feedback.?? |
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"The profile is detailed enough but needs the spell checker to be run and possibly also read through to eliminate spelling mistakes it will not pick up on (e.g. sense instead of scene).
Otherwise, one controversial word of advice. Take it or leave it.
Some women will not meet a man who likes TVs. Usually, they are the same ones who will not meet a man who is bisexual. You have ticked "bisexual" and "TV" when completing the basic part of your profile, which is what no one can miss. Bigotry or not bigotry, you are not here to make moral judgments and appear grumpier than you really are in the process. Those who want to block you will do so whether you ask them to or not.
Good luck.
For someone who is saying I'm not here to make moral judgements, you seem to be making "moral judgements" but I did ask for this so, I'll take out all reference of "bigoity"
I'm openly bisexual and never going back in that Narnia closet.
I do understand where you're coming from and get the grammar Nazis to rebuild my profile. I would never describe myself as grumpy more upbeat.
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Thanks for the feedback.??"
I am not making a moral judgment. I was just telling you that it was redundant to tell people what you think of those of them who are not interested in bisexual people as they would normally not go past the word "bisexual" at the top of your profile.
Neither was I referring to your grammar - only your spelling. Microsoft Word would have sorted that out easily.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The profile is detailed enough but needs the spell checker to be run and possibly also read through to eliminate spelling mistakes it will not pick up on (e.g. sense instead of scene).
Otherwise, one controversial word of advice. Take it or leave it.
Some women will not meet a man who likes TVs. Usually, they are the same ones who will not meet a man who is bisexual. You have ticked "bisexual" and "TV" when completing the basic part of your profile, which is what no one can miss. Bigotry or not bigotry, you are not here to make moral judgments and appear grumpier than you really are in the process. Those who want to block you will do so whether you ask them to or not.
Good luck.
For someone who is saying I'm not here to make moral judgements, you seem to be making "moral judgements" but I did ask for this so, I'll take out all reference of "bigoity"
I'm openly bisexual and never going back in that Narnia closet.
I do understand where you're coming from and get the grammar Nazis to rebuild my profile. I would never describe myself as grumpy more upbeat.
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Thanks for the feedback.??
I am not making a moral judgment. I was just telling you that it was redundant to tell people what you think of those of them who are not interested in bisexual people as they would normally not go past the word "bisexual" at the top of your profile.
Neither was I referring to your grammar - only your spelling. Microsoft Word would have sorted that out easily.
Good luck."
I understand. Thanks for the feedback.
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