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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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 hello all
I have been on fab before and have recently come back on.can I ask for all your advice please 
I am alwase polite and genuine with my messages and post no cock pics but am finding that I get 0 responses to any searching I do.views but no responses.
Am not sure what I am doing wrong to get that response(or lack of it)
Am articulate and intelligent but nothing.
would appreciate your help and advice.
Ian x  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I just don't get it at all.this site is ment for people to connect for intimate times but when you try there is no response.how do people meet?or chat?lol.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Another fab straight profile? X "
Yes. You say you are straight but you are looking to meet TV/TS as well... That is not straight. You should change it to curious or bi. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" hello all
I have been on fab before and have recently come back on.can I ask for all your advice please
I am alwase polite and genuine with my messages and post no cock pics but am finding that I get 0 responses to any searching I do.views but no responses.
Am not sure what I am doing wrong to get that response(or lack of it)
Am articulate and intelligent but nothing.
would appreciate your help and advice.
Ian x "
not sure really you like pegging that coupled with your pics are maybe making you appear bi do some other pics maybe dressed, good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If someone says in their message or profile that they are intelligent, smart etc.. I don't bother reading anymore and delete. My IQ is high but I don't brag about it. Some can notice it or find out. |
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I find that patience and perseverance are key. This place isn’t find a shag in an hour for single guys.
I don’t know what the Male to female ratio is on here but the fine ladies of Fab certainly have loads of us guys to pick from so you’re going to have to stand out. |
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This year I've met 2 people from fab that I've come into contact with through the site alone. Others I've met from here I've met at clubs or parties, but first contact has been at the location I met them.
Get out and about! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"3rd fab thread I've seen asking for advice this morning..
Time for a bacon butty me thinks! "
Think the way the forums fill up with these threads you might need a few butties and a few cuppas to get through them all |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank you.so it's the profile that is not doing me any favors.I was just trying to say a little about myself.did not mean to come across as bragging  thats great though I'll overhall my profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The other thing I'd look at on your profile at thinking of changing if the wording "mature" and then in your looking for your after 18-99.some people won't class 18 year old are mature so may pass on that |
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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago
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OP..there are numerous threads in the forums about this same subject. You would do well to read them, and take notice.
I would also look at your expectations of Fab, what you have to offer that's different to the thousands of other men, and how ypur profile reflects you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If someone says in their message or profile that they are intelligent, smart etc.. I don't bother reading anymore and delete. My IQ is high but I don't brag about it. Some can notice it or find out. "
I'm intelligent and smart etc....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If someone says in their message or profile that they are intelligent, smart etc.. I don't bother reading anymore and delete. My IQ is high but I don't brag about it. Some can notice it or find out.
I'm intelligent and smart etc.... "
I know  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just be patient not every woman wants to have sex with you, no matter what you think about yourself.
You would be much more successful going to a club on a mixed night. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ok you need to read your profile text, it's all short sentences and hard to read, check the grammar ECT.
I would definitely say you were bi-curious more than straight, so mention that. And change your profile pic to something a little provocative. Show that you have imagination as well as confidence. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If someone says in their message or profile that they are intelligent, smart etc.. I don't bother reading anymore and delete. My IQ is high but I don't brag about it. Some can notice it or find out.
I'm intelligent and smart etc....
I know "
I knows you knows  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok you need to read your profile text, it's all short sentences and hard to read, check the grammar ECT.
I would definitely say you were bi-curious more than straight, so mention that. And change your profile pic to something a little provocative. Show that you have imagination as well as confidence. "
Electro convulsive therapy? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If someone says in their message or profile that they are intelligent, smart etc.. I don't bother reading anymore and delete. My IQ is high but I don't brag about it. Some can notice it or find out.
I'm intelligent and smart etc....
I know
I knows you knows "
where is the heart emoji, my smart fab friend  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If someone says in their message or profile that they are intelligent, smart etc.. I don't bother reading anymore and delete. My IQ is high but I don't brag about it. Some can notice it or find out.
I'm intelligent and smart etc....
I know
I knows you knows
where is the heart emoji, my smart fab friend "
Why are you so needy?! Urgh..... 3 |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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" hello all
I have been on fab before and have recently come back on.can I ask for all your advice please
I am alwase polite and genuine with my messages and post no cock pics but am finding that I get 0 responses to any searching I do.views but no responses.
Am not sure what I am doing wrong to get that response(or lack of it)
Am articulate and intelligent but nothing.
would appreciate your help and advice.
Ian x "
I had this conversation with you last night, you've seen for yourself what we have to put up with. I already answered this for you during our chat. |
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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago
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"Another fab straight profile? X
Yes. You say you are straight but you are looking to meet TV/TS as well... That is not straight. You should change it to curious or bi."
Don’t be ridiculous. I have bisexual as a “label” but I’m not looking to meet woman.
V x
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yes thank you for your advice last night.I thought it would be good to post as well hear as have not made a thread before and was intrested in everyone's thoughts.x x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If someone says in their message or profile that they are intelligent, smart etc.. I don't bother reading anymore and delete. My IQ is high but I don't brag about it. Some can notice it or find out.
I'm intelligent and smart etc.... "
pic or its not true |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Guys first post
He's hardly received a warm welcome
OP - it's tough on here for blokes mate
That's the long and short of it
Be your best
Look at how you present yourself
You're always gonna get frank and sometimes unwanted responses to forum posts
Rather than sending messages to the ones you don't like though, just rise above it
It doesn't look good
If you are miffed with something someone said, use the report button at the side of their post
Admin or a Forum Moderator will take it from there  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You have been here for over 2 years, have only 1 forum thread that you have contributed to.
Generally the only advice I can give is have a better profile, be honest about your sexuality, and don't expect replies from strangers.
Get out to socials or clubs, meet people, get involved with the forum, let your personality slip out a little.
That way you will know the people who don't respond to your messages |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If someone says in their message or profile that they are intelligent, smart etc.. I don't bother reading anymore and delete. My IQ is high but I don't brag about it. Some can notice it or find out.
I'm intelligent and smart etc.... pic or its not true"
Tis true, tis true! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If someone says in their message or profile that they are intelligent, smart etc.. I don't bother reading anymore and delete. My IQ is high but I don't brag about it. Some can notice it or find out.
I'm intelligent and smart etc.... pic or its not true
Tis true, tis true! "
oh no it isn't |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If someone says in their message or profile that they are intelligent, smart etc.. I don't bother reading anymore and delete. My IQ is high but I don't brag about it. Some can notice it or find out.
I'm intelligent and smart etc.... pic or its not true
Tis true, tis true! oh no it isn't "
Oh yes it.... Oh, wait..... he's behind... hang on, am I on the wrong thread?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If someone says in their message or profile that they are intelligent, smart etc.. I don't bother reading anymore and delete. My IQ is high but I don't brag about it. Some can notice it or find out.
I'm intelligent and smart etc.... pic or its not true
Tis true, tis true! oh no it isn't
Oh yes it.... Oh, wait..... he's behind... hang on, am I on the wrong thread?! "
nooooo it's Xmas |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If someone says in their message or profile that they are intelligent, smart etc.. I don't bother reading anymore and delete. My IQ is high but I don't brag about it. Some can notice it or find out.
I'm intelligent and smart etc.... pic or its not true
Tis true, tis true! oh no it isn't
Oh yes it.... Oh, wait..... he's behind... hang on, am I on the wrong thread?! "
starts early on fab let's see all your Xmas avatars guys |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thank you.I did not mean to offend anyone or start any drama of any kind.thanks for your kind words and advice mate.x "
the drama doesn't need you my friend, you're just incidental to it
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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If you can't be civil or need to be nasty on threads like this then please avoid the threads altogether.
Can people please realise that the person asking for advice doesn't have to take it.He may think your advice is not for him.
To the OP, welcome to the forum, don't be put off by the replies I removed. Stick around and join in while waiting for your meet, it may get you noticed more |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks mate.I was on hear for a short while then had a break for a time and now have come back.Never posted in this as had to build up the courage to openly ask for help am taking on board all the advice though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks mate.I was on hear for a short while then had a break for a time and now have come back.Never posted in this as had to build up the courage to openly ask for help am taking on board all the advice though"
Some of it was good advice pics especially, take varied pics good light and smile |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I got to say I was about to run for the hills!! ok thank you.some really great advice I got hear from all you lovely peeps.Am going to wipe my profile then start again.have a lovely weekend everyone.x x x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If someone says in their message or profile that they are intelligent, smart etc.. I don't bother reading anymore and delete. My IQ is high but I don't brag about it. Some can notice it or find out.
I'm intelligent and smart etc.... pic or its not true
Tis true, tis true! oh no it isn't
Oh yes it.... Oh, wait..... he's behind... hang on, am I on the wrong thread?! nooooo it's Xmas "
No it's not! It's November!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If someone says in their message or profile that they are intelligent, smart etc.. I don't bother reading anymore and delete. My IQ is high but I don't brag about it. Some can notice it or find out.
I'm intelligent and smart etc.... pic or its not true
Tis true, tis true! oh no it isn't
Oh yes it.... Oh, wait..... he's behind... hang on, am I on the wrong thread?! nooooo it's Xmas
No it's not! It's November!!"
I've seen quite a few Xmas trees up and people sitting eating Xmas dinners with their Xmas hats on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you can't be civil or need to be nasty on threads like this then please avoid the threads altogether.
Can people please realise that the person asking for advice doesn't have to take it.He may think your advice is not for him.
To the OP, welcome to the forum, don't be put off by the replies I removed. Stick around and join in while waiting for your meet, it may get you noticed more "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find that patience and perseverance are key. This place isn’t find a shag in an hour for single guys.
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It may not be for you but it has been for the majority of guys we have met over the years. |
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