Swinging can be tough for guys under 30, let alone 20 (at least on Fab, which tends to skew older). I think some clubs (at least on some nights) are 21+.
But the same advice I'd give anyone else. Send messages (personalised based on reading profiles), be polite, don't take rejection personally (women are outnumbered here and we get swamped). On your profile here, sell yourself. What kind of person are you? What are you looking for? What do you think you have to offer? How might you be different? Be positive in your public interactions (profile, status, forum posts). Be patient. |
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over a year ago
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"hi young guy here looking to get involved in swinging, anyone got any advice? 
Yes come here and let me look after you  "
Id love to  but i cant message you as im outside your age range x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"hi young guy here looking to get involved in swinging, anyone got any advice?
Yes come here and let me look after you
Id love to but i cant message you as im outside your age range x"
is that a smiths reference as your location aha ?  x |
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My advice is go and try chatting up 19 year old female students. You'll learn more emotionally and about women from experiencing the real world - of how to talk, flirt , succeed and learn how to deal with rejection.
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