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"Hey, I am straight, well i think i am.. i dont find men attractive but like looking at pictures of their tools. Would love to finally get hold of one.. Quite nervous about giving oral.. if you'd like to chat about it and maybe give advice.. id appreicate it. x" Dude... Read your post again very slowly, and hopefully the answer will come to you. Then change your profile. | |||
"Hey, I am straight, well i think i am.. i dont find men attractive but like looking at pictures of their tools. Would love to finally get hold of one.. Quite nervous about giving oral.. if you'd like to chat about it and maybe give advice.. id appreicate it. x Dude... Read your post again very slowly, and hopefully the answer will come to you. Then change your profile." Change it too what?? Bi ,Bi curious,gay??? A straight guy that fancies sucking cock well trying anyway is still a straight guy he just likes to try new things If you like Italian food does that make you Italian?? Of course it dont Class yourself as bi when you feel you really are not just for one aspect of a complicated sexuality that can take someone years to discover Labels are shit they really are There are too many variables to label any sexuality 100% | |||
"Hey, I am straight, well i think i am.. i dont find men attractive but like looking at pictures of their tools. Would love to finally get hold of one.. Quite nervous about giving oral.. if you'd like to chat about it and maybe give advice.. id appreicate it. x Dude... Read your post again very slowly, and hopefully the answer will come to you. Then change your profile. Change it too what?? Bi ,Bi curious,gay??? A straight guy that fancies sucking cock well trying anyway is still a straight guy he just likes to try new things If you like Italian food does that make you Italian?? Of course it dont Class yourself as bi when you feel you really are not just for one aspect of a complicated sexuality that can take someone years to discover Labels are shit they really are There are too many variables to label any sexuality 100%" I would have to disagree with you there my soapy friend. I can swear on my children's lives that I, as a straight woman have NEVER had any desire to suck another woman's pussy. I've never had any fantasy about doing anything with another woman. If I had a fantasy about it, and started a thread asking for advice with a view of turning fantasy into reality then I'd be hi-curious. Even the OP is unsure of his sexuality. I'm with Rude Dude on this one. I know the "bi-playfuls" will be out in force stating I'm narrow minded blah blah, but one persons narrow minded is another's denial. I really don't understand why people use food analogies when referring to sexuality no more than when the BNP state I'm not British because I'm black as being born in a stable doesn't make you a horse.  | |||
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"Hey, I am straight, well i think i am.. i dont find men attractive but like looking at pictures of their tools. Would love to finally get hold of one.. Quite nervous about giving oral.. if you'd like to chat about it and maybe give advice.. id appreicate it. x Dude... Read your post again very slowly, and hopefully the answer will come to you. Then change your profile. Change it too what?? Bi ,Bi curious,gay??? A straight guy that fancies sucking cock well trying anyway is still a straight guy he just likes to try new things If you like Italian food does that make you Italian?? Of course it dont Class yourself as bi when you feel you really are not just for one aspect of a complicated sexuality that can take someone years to discover Labels are shit they really are There are too many variables to label any sexuality 100% I would have to disagree with you there my soapy friend. I can swear on my children's lives that I, as a straight woman have NEVER had any desire to suck another woman's pussy. I've never had any fantasy about doing anything with another woman. If I had a fantasy about it, and started a thread asking for advice with a view of turning fantasy into reality then I'd be hi-curious. Even the OP is unsure of his sexuality. I'm with Rude Dude on this one. I know the "bi-playfuls" will be out in force stating I'm narrow minded blah blah, but one persons narrow minded is another's denial. I really don't understand why people use food analogies when referring to sexuality no more than when the BNP state I'm not British because I'm black as being born in a stable doesn't make you a horse. "Yup we have had similar conversations before sassy lol and i know we disagree on this However having followed my sexuallity for many years as you know and had lots of conversations with many many bi straight and gay men and also knowing what i have been through with my sexuality from a very young age This is my take on it And like you i can only really speak for myself If you have no desire to chew on a pussy and experiment then thats just you lol Dont mean anyone else feels differently and like i say in my eyes that dont necessarily deserve a label until they have decided the path is for them xx  | |||
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"oh yeah here we go again, "I love sucking cock but that makes me 100% straight" conversation again, lol "but he doesn't know yet if he loves sucking cock - thats the point! he wants supportive, non judgemental advice. he may well be bi-curious. he might even be orally bi or even full on no holes barred, i want to meet men one on one bi. but just now hes not even sure if once gets his hands on another mans cock he'll want to even stroke it let alone more! give the guy a break! imho i'd suggest that you perhaps chat with an understanding couple with a bi male or with singles who are bi friendly but who would be comfortable and happy for you to take things slowly and be prepared for any reaction. you definitely need to chat lots, online and in person, before any clothes come off, to establish ground rules and to make sure that everyone is confident and comfortable whatever the out come. definitely make sure you're dealing with people who are comfortable with their own boundaries and who are secure in their sexuality and also their ability to go with the flow so to speak. above all, never do anything you're not completely happy with - the swingers mantra!! 
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"FFS,,, this thread is not about questioning they OP's sexuality... he has explained himself well.....and the situation he refers too, is one where he is curious and willing to try sucking cock,,,,, I totally understand where he’s coming from…..I'm fully bisexual, but I'm not attracted to bloke's at all , other than for sex... Surely once the OP has tried sucking cock,,, He may or may not wish to replicate this activity,,,, so until then there’s really no need to label himself, other than what he is right now... OP....... my advice is as follows 1. Make sure the cock you wish to suck is clean and of a size and shape which appeals too you,,,,, 2. Make sure the guy whose cock your going to suck, is not nervous about having his cock sucked by another guy.... Apart from that, I think its important to let the bloke know its your first time,,,, establish what type of bj he enjoys,,,, and tell him if your willing to recieve completion… OP, I wish you well and hope you both enjoy it,,,,,, "Aye soxy well put
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"Male half here, I love females, everything about them from look to ther boodies, but I have to say I am partial to sucking a cock, I find nothing about a man attractive, and in clothes I wouldn't get turned on at all! But sometimes I just love sucking a nice cock, I don't class myself as bisexual because I don't find men attractive at all, so I would say I'm straight" Oh well I guess that must make me Staight too !!!! ffs,,,,, and there I was tryig so hard to be a "real" bisexual,, flipp'in hech,,,, perhaps I should burn my dictionary..... tuh, I just don't know which way to turn now.....!! ..... ffs apart from having sex with men and women! ,,,, whats the feck does a bloke have to do, to call himself bi ?.... struth !!!!  | |||
