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What’s wrong, please help

By *mMrbrightside OP Man over a year ago

wakefield

I know us guys are plentiful on here but I’m trying everything I can but not getting anywhere. Thought I’d got a good profile with some decent pics and I’m even verified.

I’m literally getting maybe 2 views a day and a bad joiner with missing fingers can count my emails.

Any help would be greatly appreciated

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I know us guys are plentiful on here but I’m trying everything I can but not getting anywhere. Thought I’d got a good profile with some decent pics and I’m even verified.

I’m literally getting maybe 2 views a day and a bad joiner with missing fingers can count my emails.

Any help would be greatly appreciated

Read that first paragraph again, but slowly

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Do you mail people? Women and couples pretty much never go looking.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You basically answered your own question. Your pics and profile look fine to me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Me too!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You basically answered your own question. Your pics and profile look fine to me. "

Yours look even better Dotty

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nothing wrong with your profile op looks good to me shame we are too far apart.. !-

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You basically answered your own question. Your pics and profile look fine to me.

Yours look even better Dotty

Ditto

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Nice write up and pics OP, you've already attended a social, so perhaps get yourself to a few more and some clubs to network. Good luck. X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

To be fair tho,you lady's don't make it easy for us to start a convocation ??

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"To be fair tho,you lady's don't make it easy for us to start a convocation ??"

Why is that?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's hard to start a message without sounding like every other man,you get one or two word replies which make it difficult

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By *ed wineMan over a year ago

Where the streets have no name

OP, nothing wrong. It's just the eternal issue of masculine testosterone and the consequent disproportion of gender looking for sex.

Your messages are just one among dozens in a women's inbox...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

To be honest I do get replies and speak to women.i would just rather not get a message back if there's no conversation

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By *adame1981Woman over a year ago

Leicester

Profile looks good OP

If you were nearer I'd definitely invite you for a brew

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hi from my perspective your profile looks fine. I’m having similar issues, tbh I think messages get lost in the torrent that females get!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I suppose it depends on what they are looking for. Personally I like to chat and get to know a bit about a person. I have to say when I am messaged, I usually respond to someone who peeks my interest and ho doesn't come out with an ordinary opening sentence. Your profile is fine. Im sure you'll get somewhere. Try a few cheeky status updates too, something that will arouse an interest x

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By *ablo minibar123Woman over a year ago

If I'm only giving or one or two word answers then it's because I'm not that interested in the conversation and only replying out of politeness, if I actually wanted to chat to someone then I'd put in more effort.

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By *oungman2121Man over a year ago

London

Yeah i have been on here for 4 months or so but really active for about two. I know its hard for us single guys but keep looking. Be yourself, be polite and everything will be alright.

nothing wrong with your profile btw

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