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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I thought we are taught not to speak to strangers ,so my way of approaching a lady here to initiate a conversation at least is to send a invite. And most womem think that's rude of me anyone else finding the same here |
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"I thought we are taught not to speak to strangers ,so my way of approaching a lady here to initiate a conversation at least is to send a invite. And most womem think that's rude of me anyone else finding the same here "
We delete friend requests from people who haven't messaged us. |
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Accepting a friends request from an unknown person gives them a peek into the more private pic stash, so you can understand why someone might want a message or two to establish attraction and mutual interest before giving access. |
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The only people I accept friend requests from are those I've actually met in person or have made arrangements to meet.
I loathe unsolicited friend requests, they are usually just people who want a nosy at my friends only pictures. I'm not here to provide wank fodder for anyone.
I state on my profile I will block people who send unsolicited friend requests and I always do! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have pics in our friends only that we don't want the world to see. I wouldn't just add a random invite because it would be pointless putting them as friends only. If we haven't met or had enough conversation to plan a meet we would delete the request. |
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"We have pics in our friends only that we don't want the world to see. I wouldn't just add a random invite because it would be pointless putting them as friends only. If we haven't met or had enough conversation to plan a meet we would delete the request. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We only accept friend requests from people we have met or people we have chatted to and intend on meeting.
Our private pictures are not for everyone to see for a reason.
We tend to just ignore them if they have not even had the decency to message us first. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I thought we are taught not to speak to strangers ,so my way of approaching a lady here to initiate a conversation at least is to send a invite. And most womem think that's rude of me anyone else finding the same here "
It is rude.
Why should we show every tom dick n harry our photos.
If uve got nothing were interested in on ur profile we sure as hell wont let you see our photos.
You men with cocks dont make us fall to your feet just because you have a cock you know.
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By *ngelina4uWoman
over a year ago
Camberley/Middleton |
"I thought we are taught not to speak to strangers ,so my way of approaching a lady here to initiate a conversation at least is to send a invite. And most womem think that's rude of me anyone else finding the same here "
I just think another picture collector and ignore them. It is a lazy thing to do though sending an individual message is better. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OK great advice from all will try the chat approach again then. But most don't get read even ive noticed. that's why I thought send a request lol "
Most people will look at your profile before reading the message, its dull and boring then thet wont reply to your message.
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
Sending a friend request to strangers is not good form. Ladies tend to look at your profile as well as reading your message , so maybe check your profile is interesting and tell people about why they should meet you prior to reading your message and deciding to reply.
Looks like you might need to rethink your approach . |
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"I thought we are taught not to speak to strangers ,so my way of approaching a lady here to initiate a conversation at least is to send a invite. And most womem think that's rude of me anyone else finding the same here
We delete friend requests from people who haven't messaged us. "
So do I |
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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago
Dorset |
We don't delete people's friend requests if they are sent without any contact first, leaving them unanswered stops them sending again and again, plus in a year's time when the have a friends only album worth checking out we can accept out of the blue.
If a profile that we like, and with enough pics in the friends album sends us a request we have been know to just accept.  |
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By * and BCouple
over a year ago
Durham |
If someone walked into a pub, came over to us and said 'I want to be your friend is that ok' as an opening line we would think weirdo. If someone came over and struck up a nice conversation they just might become a friend. Simple. |
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"If someone walked into a pub, came over to us and said 'I want to be your friend is that ok' as an opening line we would think weirdo. If someone came over and struck up a nice conversation they just might become a friend. Simple."
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Its an instant block from me! "I find it v creepy and strange when i recieve a friends request! Not 1 word exchange and men think ur gonna accept them yeah have a good look at my personal pics why not!! A wee hi goes a long way obv i cant talk for everyone and many will not respond to a hi but believe me its better than sending out a friends request x |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"The only people I accept friend requests from are those I've actually met in person or have made arrangements to meet.
I loathe unsolicited friend requests, they are usually just people who want a nosy at my friends only pictures. I'm not here to provide wank fodder for anyone.
I state on my profile I will block people who send unsolicited friend requests and I always do!"
Totally agree with this, although I don't block, I just don't delete the friends requests then they can't add again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I thought we are taught not to speak to strangers ,so my way of approaching a lady here to initiate a conversation at least is to send a invite. And most womem think that's rude of me anyone else finding the same here "
Our profile is clear,friend invites will not be accepted unless we have met,no exceptions.
Does that stop people sending friend invites?
Does it coco ! 
Now I find that extremely rude. |
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