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"First of all good username. Second thus site is a bit of bitch. You get rejected a ton of times and personally I find it can knock you a bit. Don't bother asking why they don't respond you just get the "I have so many message.. Get over it response" Other people will say write more on your profile. Total bollocks tbh it makes no difference. Just be patience and your luck might be in. Can't really say much more than that. It's a looks game ultimately. Anyway who says otherwise is talking out their ass. " Cheers mate just as I suspected lol. What a load of balls hey. And thanks mate maybe that's what's not working for me lol. | |||
"First of all good username. Second thus site is a bit of bitch. You get rejected a ton of times and personally I find it can knock you a bit. Don't bother asking why they don't respond you just get the "I have so many message.. Get over it response" Other people will say write more on your profile. Total bollocks tbh it makes no difference. Just be patience and your luck might be in. Can't really say much more than that. It's a looks game ultimately. Anyway who says otherwise is talking out their ass. Cheers mate just as I suspected lol. What a load of balls hey. And thanks mate maybe that's what's not working for me lol. " I haven't been on this site long, but already realized you got to develope a thick skin for it. | |||
"Hi guys seems on here and on POF, my messages usually get ignored! Lol. I have no idea what to write to get myself a reply? I don't want to work too hard but also I don't expect it to be easy? I've pretty much given up messaging single women... Any words of advice? Thankyou X" When you send a message most people read your profile before opening it. If your profile is shit your message is not getting read. Also, there is no magic formula for writing messages. You could write what you think is a great message. Some people will think it is great, some people will think it is just ok and some people will think it is shit. | |||
"Hi guys seems on here and on POF, my messages usually get ignored! Lol. I have no idea what to write to get myself a reply? I don't want to work too hard but also I don't expect it to be easy? I've pretty much given up messaging single women... Any words of advice? Thankyou X When you send a message most people read your profile before opening it. If your profile is shit your message is not getting read. Also, there is no magic formula for writing messages. You could write what you think is a great message. Some people will think it is great, some people will think it is just ok and some people will think it is shit. " Cheers guys seems it's just as I feared! Thankyou for your replies. Why can't life be... that girls hot... fancy a shag... boom see ya later. | |||