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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi
Just thought id post here and say hello.
Its my first time in the forums, seems like a good place to meet people and get talking.
Anyway I'm thinking of going to my first club before the end of this year.
Obviously nervous but everything ive read seems really laid back, relaxed and friendly.
What was it like for your first visit to a club?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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First time I went, I was with my husband and we thought we'd go watch, get a feel for the place and maybe play in the couples area together until we were comfortable.
Didn't happen.
Our first ever swinging experience and we ticked off threesomes, Foursomes, orgy and girl on girl. As it turns out we were at ease straight away and just naturally fell straight into it 
Go with no expectations other than to socialise and make contacts. If anything progresses from that then bonus, but don't set yourself up for disappointment. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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That's great advice thanks.
I was thinking of going and just treating it like I'm going out for a drink and a laugh with new people and as you say, if anything happens then that's just a bonus.
Sounds like your first experience was a very good one! Were you hooked after that? |
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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago
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My first visit was amazing. Now the best thing to do, if you don't know anyone is to have this chat with the club owners. They should do their utmost to put you at ease and warmly invite you in. This is what I did and I was given a wonderful hostess who mentored me through the night. I was Billy-no-mates at that time.
So start of in the spa, great to relax and the bubbles really hide the nerves! Then get used to being naked in front of others. Visit as many corners of the club, smile for Pete's sake and let them know, that they are putting on a great show...and with any luck you might get an invite. Worked for me and that's saying something.
For me making friends in a pub is impossible, but in a Naturist camp and a Swingers' club in the buff it's weird but it's so easy. Naturism for breakfast and lunch, swinging for supper and the early hours, all in the same day. What a day that was,
HOOKED! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for the reply
You’ve really helped my the nerves with your advice.
Sounds like a really friendly place to be.
Does anyone have have any suggestions for clubs in the northwest that you have been to and enjoyed? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Welcome to the forums 
Can't answer your question about clubs as I have never been ... Too chicken "
Thanks for the welcome.
I know the feeling, by the way!
But from the comments I’ve had, it really does sound like a relaxed and friendly place to be.
I do see myself going along when I get the chance.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Hiya!
We decided on a social night at the Annex, very last minute so that we didnt get too scared and chicken out!
So glad we did! Met some awesome people and had some light fun. Amazing first experience so id recommend a social anytime |
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"Hiya!
We decided on a social night at the Annex, very last minute so that we didnt get too scared and chicken out!
So glad we did! Met some awesome people and had some light fun. Amazing first experience so id recommend a social anytime"
Thanks for the reply, all sounds good and positive. |
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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago
Peterborough |
Jaydees in St Neots is just the ticket. They let you book a play room for the night. Really useful for long drives in the morning. My hostess cum mentor LIsa, comes highly recommended. A relaxed guest, becomes an attractive guest and gets to join in, hopefully.
You could put a clarion call for a forum user to be your Buddy (not a playmate!) of either sex to be your tour guide for your first night. Maybe meet up in their carpark or MaccyD's before hand and dissolve those nerves! You know the score... A Happy meal before a happy ending?
So one of two things could happen you back out and regret it, or you bite the bullet (or any other body part) and end up trying to suppress a dirty smile and glint in your eyes, all week long!
Two words you will need to remember...
DO IT!
Good luck and happy foraging |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That's great advice thanks.
I was thinking of going and just treating it like I'm going out for a drink and a laugh with new people and as you say, if anything happens then that's just a bonus.
Sounds like your first experience was a very good one! Were you hooked after that?"
We were. We through ourselves into swinging and was at chams at least once a month and occasional solo meets in between.
Nowadays we've found a regular couple so clubs and solo meets have taken a bit of a back seat. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Jaydees in St Neots is just the ticket. They let you book a play room for the night. Really useful for long drives in the morning. My hostess cum mentor LIsa, comes highly recommended. A relaxed guest, becomes an attractive guest and gets to join in, hopefully.
You could put a clarion call for a forum user to be your Buddy (not a playmate!) of either sex to be your tour guide for your first night. Maybe meet up in their carpark or MaccyD's before hand and dissolve those nerves! You know the score... A Happy meal before a happy ending?
So one of two things could happen you back out and regret it, or you bite the bullet (or any other body part) and end up trying to suppress a dirty smile and glint in your eyes, all week long!
Two words you will need to remember...
DO IT!
Good luck and happy foraging "
Brilliant! Excellent advice.
Think it would be good going along with someone else as a bit of a tour guide and learn the ropes but I reckon from reading these posts that I could do it on my own as well.
Like you said, bottle it and regret it or have a great time. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"That's great advice thanks.
I was thinking of going and just treating it like I'm going out for a drink and a laugh with new people and as you say, if anything happens then that's just a bonus.
Sounds like your first experience was a very good one! Were you hooked after that?
We were. We through ourselves into swinging and was at chams at least once a month and occasional solo meets in between.
Nowadays we've found a regular couple so clubs and solo meets have taken a bit of a back seat. "
Sounds awesome and really looking forward to the experience, (which will happen) 
Sounds like you both found fulfilment. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi
Just thought id post here and say hello.
Its my first time in the forums, seems like a good place to meet people and get talking.
Anyway I'm thinking of going to my first club before the end of this year.
Obviously nervous but everything ive read seems really laid back, relaxed and friendly.
What was it like for your first visit to a club??"
I went on my own to eurekas in Kent I had a good laugh got thrown out at 3am ha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Hi
Just thought id post here and say hello.
Its my first time in the forums, seems like a good place to meet people and get talking.
Anyway I'm thinking of going to my first club before the end of this year.
Obviously nervous but everything ive read seems really laid back, relaxed and friendly.
What was it like for your first visit to a club??I went on my own to eurekas in Kent I had a good laugh got thrown out at 3am ha"
Haha, i reckon I would need to be asked to leave at closing time as well |
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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago
Peterborough |
"Hi
Just thought id post here and say hello.
Its my first time in the forums, seems like a good place to meet people and get talking.
Anyway I'm thinking of going to my first club before the end of this year.
Obviously nervous but everything ive read seems really laid back, relaxed and friendly.
What was it like for your first visit to a club??I went on my own to eurekas in Kent I had a good laugh got thrown out at 3am ha
Haha, i reckon I would need to be asked to leave at closing time as well "
I'm with you on that one. |
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