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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi, I thought I'd better introduce myself now that I've got myself photo verified and can now post in the forums.
Feel free to drop by my profile, I'm still working on it, and know it needs some work to stand out so any constructive comments will be appreciated. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Great that it's your turn and you're doing your own thing with your wife's consent. Your position and desire is set out clearly and it reads well.
But why then introduce another dimension that has nothing to do with 'your turn'? It is very puzzling and makes no sense against the first half of your profile text.
Set-up an additional couples or single fem profile if you want wife chit-chat. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi, I thought I'd better introduce myself now that I've got myself photo verified and can now post in the forums.
Feel free to drop by my profile, I'm still working on it, and know it needs some work to stand out so any constructive comments will be appreciated."
Straight away i looked at your profile and came away without reading any of it.
Theres too much way to much you need to cut it down in my opinion |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Nice one! Thanks for your comments
Profile v1.3 may have to be created 
This is not all about sex for me. I'd like to make friends first and if the benefits come later then that's a bonus. If all I end up with is a friendship, that's cool but if we find each other sexually attractive I'm open to seeing how far things will go. Baby steps, no expectations
I don't think I went into too much detail, trust me, there is a lot more. I looked at others profiles and they all seem quite 'worst
I'm trying to paint a picture of me and my 'Adult' life so far.
Thanks for the advice though, I will have a go at cutting it down in v1.3
Sorry I confused with the last paragraph, I reckon I should just delete it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok. Let's try the new profile...I've made as many changes as weeks I've been here lol.
At least I'm trying, I will get there, one day.
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When we read a profile the most important thing is it has to add up. Your first draft got muddled by introducing your wife as an option further down the line which as you say you have now rectified.
But now it reads if you are looking for love which doesn't sit right with, as you say, your wife encouraging you to set up a profile here. Puzzling again.
And too much superfluous stuff. The bit about others having a lot of verification's comes across as a bit highfalutin, at best, for someone new to the site.
How do you know you are 'genuine' and not a 'time-waster' when it appears you haven't had any meets yet. We believe it is for others to use those words about you not for you to trumpet them unsubstantiated.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Oh. Well that's discouraging.
Clearly right though as I get lots of ppl looking but nothing else.
I've spent loads of time looking at other profiles on here but I'm still clearly not getting it right.
I thought it was an honest, genuine profile. I'm looking for a friend first and if it turns into something else then I'm open to it. I'm not talking about love, this is a swingers site.
I'm really struggling to convey this.
#loosingthewilltolive |
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