 |
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
So I’ve just gone through a really bad break up I’ve no family no one to talk to and I feel alone sorry to do it on here anyone offer a little support |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *lceeWoman
over a year ago
Leeds |
"So I’ve just gone through a really bad break up I’ve no family no one to talk to and I feel alone sorry to do it on here anyone offer a little support "
Awwww...this feeling sucks. It’s like scores of tiny thorns wrapped around your heart and squeezing. I’m sorry you’re going through this. It does get better eventually, I promise *hugs* |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
I’ve had no sleep in the past 2-3 days I thought maybe been on here and maybe having a meet might help but I don’t no I just find chatting to people helps |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I’ve had no sleep in the past 2-3 days I thought maybe been on here and maybe having a meet might help but I don’t no I just find chatting to people helps "
Don’t do something you will regret the day after |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
Ya course she did she knew everything about me and still does but when I created this we was on a break anyway only been 6 weeks or something but she new |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Go for a run tomorrow
Swim and a sauna
Go shopping
Go for a drink with one of your mates or someone in your work
Go out the house and get some fresh air
Read a book
Seriously don't sit and feel sorry for yourself. Not a dig btw x |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"Go for a run tomorrow
Swim and a sauna
Go shopping
Go for a drink with one of your mates or someone in your work
Go out the house and get some fresh air
Read a book
Seriously don't sit and feel sorry for yourself. Not a dig btw x"
thanks |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Go for a run tomorrow
Swim and a sauna
Go shopping
Go for a drink with one of your mates or someone in your work
Go out the house and get some fresh air
Read a book
Seriously don't sit and feel sorry for yourself. Not a dig btw x thanks"
So what you got planned for tomorrow x |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"Go for a run tomorrow
Swim and a sauna
Go shopping
Go for a drink with one of your mates or someone in your work
Go out the house and get some fresh air
Read a book
Seriously don't sit and feel sorry for yourself. Not a dig btw x thanks
So what you got planned for tomorrow x"
I’m at work tomorrow night prob just go for a drive during the day |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Go for a run tomorrow
Swim and a sauna
Go shopping
Go for a drink with one of your mates or someone in your work
Go out the house and get some fresh air
Read a book
Seriously don't sit and feel sorry for yourself. Not a dig btw x thanks
So what you got planned for tomorrow x
I’m at work tomorrow night prob just go for a drive during the day "
That's boring. Go and talk to folk. Even go in the travel agents and talk shite to them. Look at some brochures. Keep your mind occupied. You'll end up just driving listening to sad songs otherwise x |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"Go for a run tomorrow
Swim and a sauna
Go shopping
Go for a drink with one of your mates or someone in your work
Go out the house and get some fresh air
Read a book
Seriously don't sit and feel sorry for yourself. Not a dig btw x thanks
So what you got planned for tomorrow x
I’m at work tomorrow night prob just go for a drive during the day
That's boring. Go and talk to folk. Even go in the travel agents and talk shite to them. Look at some brochures. Keep your mind occupied. You'll end up just driving listening to sad songs otherwise x"
Good point lol |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Go for a run tomorrow
Swim and a sauna
Go shopping
Go for a drink with one of your mates or someone in your work
Go out the house and get some fresh air
Read a book
Seriously don't sit and feel sorry for yourself. Not a dig btw x thanks
So what you got planned for tomorrow x
I’m at work tomorrow night prob just go for a drive during the day
That's boring. Go and talk to folk. Even go in the travel agents and talk shite to them. Look at some brochures. Keep your mind occupied. You'll end up just driving listening to sad songs otherwise x
Good point lol "
It is lol
Seriously tho your 28. Go out and enjoy your life and stop crying over what you can't change. She's gone..think of her fondly and move on. Go online the now and book tickets for the football or something x |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Just been through loosing my girlfriend aswell but life goes on. As much as it hurts and as much as you will keep having her image pop into your head throughout the day
you just got to get on with your life.Dont let grass grow under your feetxxx |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I’ve got sleeping tablets but there not helping any way going to bed "
and donr rely on the sleeping tablets to much they are not good,as someone posted earlier go for a run or a brisk walk ease you're body and mind xxnite nite
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I’ve got sleeping tablets but there not helping any way going to bed "
I've barely slept in about 8 weeks. This week is the first week I've slept a little better. I lost my dad than 5 days later or so my soul mate and best friend due to actions not of my doing. So I walked away.
I keep myself busy. Thankfully I am moving house so busy is all I have right now... when I'm not busy I try not to think about all the good times as that makes me miss him more. I try not to think of the bad things as that makes me cross and hurt more. So I try to just think to the future.
You can not change how others behave. You can not change how things go but you can plan for thr future. Doesn't have to be big things.
I've recently made big changes to my life. Joined a totally new gym and making new friends there. Been out lots with friends and luckily for me I'm away on my first ever solo holiday in a few weeks.
Sometimes just going for a walk helps me. I also wrote myself a letter as if my issues were a friends. I advised what I would tell a friend in my situation... And remind myself why I walked away from the love of my life.
Yes some times I find myself in tears or feeling the total loss. But it's normal after you lose someone special. I keep taking one day at a time. And only looking forward.
Thankfully on my bad days I have amazing friends who pick me up and remind me who I am.
Good luck op |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"So I’ve just gone through a really bad break up I’ve no family no one to talk to and I feel alone sorry to do it on here anyone offer a little support "
Hi op. My Ex decided to end our 11 year marriage this week a year ago..tbh it's still very raw and you'll go through the symptoms of anger, regret, happiness, sadness and everything else. I'd love to tell you a quick fix but unfortunately there isn't one. Find a close friend that you can confide in, cry I'd you have too..but the pain will ease a little bit..times a great healer. Good luck.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I’ve got sleeping tablets but there not helping any way going to bed I've barely slept in about 8 weeks. This week is the first week I've slept a little better. I lost my dad than 5 days later or so my soul mate and best friend due to actions not of my doing. So I walked away.
I keep myself busy. Thankfully I am moving house so busy is all I have right now... when I'm not busy I try not to think about all the good times as that makes me miss him more. I try not to think of the bad things as that makes me cross and hurt more. So I try to just think to the future.
You can not change how others behave. You can not change how things go but you can plan for thr future. Doesn't have to be big things.
I've recently made big changes to my life. Joined a totally new gym and making new friends there. Been out lots with friends and luckily for me I'm away on my first ever solo holiday in a few weeks.
Sometimes just going for a walk helps me. I also wrote myself a letter as if my issues were a friends. I advised what I would tell a friend in my situation... And remind myself why I walked away from the love of my life.
Yes some times I find myself in tears or feeling the total loss. But it's normal after you lose someone special. I keep taking one day at a time. And only looking forward.
Thankfully on my bad days I have amazing friends who pick me up and remind me who I am.
Good luck op"
Good advice. Love the idea of writing yourself a letter. Might try that later |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"
Good advice. Love the idea of writing yourself a letter. Might try that later "
It helps some because let's be honest we wouldn't let others suffer the way we often do ourselves. We are often our own worst enemy.
Another good idea is to write a letter to the other party. Saying all you wish you could say or in hindsight should have said. Then burn it. It's good for mentally closing the door between what was and what we though there was.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"
Good advice. Love the idea of writing yourself a letter. Might try that later
It helps some because let's be honest we wouldn't let others suffer the way we often do ourselves. We are often our own worst enemy.
Another good idea is to write a letter to the other party. Saying all you wish you could say or in hindsight should have said. Then burn it. It's good for mentally closing the door between what was and what we though there was.
"
Am not suffering the heartbreak that you or the Op are, but I thought it good advice for life |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"
Good advice. Love the idea of writing yourself a letter. Might try that later
It helps some because let's be honest we wouldn't let others suffer the way we often do ourselves. We are often our own worst enemy.
Another good idea is to write a letter to the other party. Saying all you wish you could say or in hindsight should have said. Then burn it. It's good for mentally closing the door between what was and what we though there was.
Am not suffering the heartbreak that you or the Op are, but I thought it good advice for life "
I am a former relationship therapist.... you would think I'd be better at them really  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"
Good advice. Love the idea of writing yourself a letter. Might try that later
It helps some because let's be honest we wouldn't let others suffer the way we often do ourselves. We are often our own worst enemy.
Another good idea is to write a letter to the other party. Saying all you wish you could say or in hindsight should have said. Then burn it. It's good for mentally closing the door between what was and what we though there was.
Am not suffering the heartbreak that you or the Op are, but I thought it good advice for life
I am a former relationship therapist.... you would think I'd be better at them really "
You don't have any vacancies do you?  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Been through the same just a few weeks ago, sounds heartless I know but life goes on. Yes you will miss her but unless you really think that you can get her back you’ll have to just forget about her. I don’t have a clue what sort of social life you have to say go out with your mates, personally I lost touch with most of mine or they were joint friends so I have nobody to go out with at the moment. As you’re in Hull though there’s a social meet tomorrow night at HU9 from 7.30 - 11, it’s free entry and you take your own drink. That’s where I’m going to generally chat shit to likeminded strangers who have no opinions of me whatsoever. Not going to pretend that I’m not looking forward to initially walking in but hopefully it’ll be a good distraction. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
