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Any tips on new profile?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi all, just looking for some extra tips on what to make a profile standout on here. If anyone helps, thank you in advance.  "
Being brutally honest, it sounds like yet another young lad fantasising after watching too much porn.
Good luck though! |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
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"Hi all, just looking for some extra tips on what to make a profile standout on here. If anyone helps, thank you in advance.
Being brutally honest, it sounds like yet another young lad fantasising after watching too much porn.
Good luck though!"
Agreed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi all, just looking for some extra tips on what to make a profile standout on here. If anyone helps, thank you in advance. "
The only meet at your place of work is certainly 'stand'out' but possibly not the kind you are after. |
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By *ay_Lx OP Man
over a year ago
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Who would've thought it would've been this hard to get a bit of advice  Hostile comments must mean that you're not experienced enough to give criticism I guess. I'll still be here though so don't worry about that  |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
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"Who would've thought it would've been this hard to get a bit of advice Hostile comments must mean that you're not experienced enough to give criticism I guess. I'll still be here though so don't worry about that "
I don't think any comment was 'hostile', maybe you're a little too sensitive? |
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By *ay_Lx OP Man
over a year ago
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I think if I was 'sensitive' I would've been hostile back but as you can see I was not. I asked for advice but little to none advice has been given, I've just received spam comments that is a bit embarrassing |
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"Who would've thought it would've been this hard to get a bit of advice Hostile comments must mean that you're not experienced enough to give criticism I guess. I'll still be here though so don't worry about that "
Which comments were hostile?
You have asked for profile advise and been given some good tips so which bit is hostile? |
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By *ay_Lx OP Man
over a year ago
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I followed Sally's advice and I'll take in Slender's as well and I thank them for that however comments such as 'yet another young lad fantasising after watching too much porn' is just unneeded and ageist. I don't see an age limit on this website that is above my age so why should I be seen as that? Wanting to meet me at work is a personal opinion so saying that people would not want to is invalid as I have had people say they wouldn't mind that. If the community doesn't support all ages then it must not be a very welcoming and mature place to be. |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
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"I think if I was 'sensitive' I would've been hostile back but as you can see I was not. I asked for advice but little to none advice has been given, I've just received spam comments that is a bit embarrassing"
Almost every comment was advice which is exactly what you asked for. |
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By *ay_Lx OP Man
over a year ago
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I know I'll have to work on my write up about me because I know that it is lacking a lot, that's the kind of things I wanted to here and about the pictures do you mind expanding on 'better' as to me that could mean anything. Thank you |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"x_eeleyx None of your comments had been anywhere near advice and just seem like spam now"
Because I disagreed with you my comments are spam? You're going to struggle round here with your attitude. |
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"I know I'll have to work on my write up about me because I know that it is lacking a lot, that's the kind of things I wanted to here and about the pictures do you mind expanding on 'better' as to me that could mean anything. Thank you"
Leave your profile as it is if it reflects you. That will attract those who will meet you. |
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By *ay_Lx OP Man
over a year ago
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I don't think my profile really reflects me at all and I know I need to change it that's why I was looking for help. One thing I can't change is being young though lol. But please let me know what I should change about my pictures though as it will help me out |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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however comments such as 'yet another young lad fantasising after watching too much porn' is just unneeded"
Agreed. That isn't advice
Can the people who don't want to give advice and just attack people instead please avoid the threads rather than do this |
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"I don't think my profile really reflects me at all and I know I need to change it that's why I was looking for help. One thing I can't change is being young though lol. But please let me know what I should change about my pictures though as it will help me out"
Look at your profile from a womans perspective and think this.
1) Would they find the text enough to understand me
2) Why would a woman want to come to your work place on her own...yes some will.. but think safety.
3) Smart phones take excellent pictures, a picture in a suit, a picture of your ass.
Make your profile stand out, but your age will go against you on here so please do not take offence when people mention age.
Your are younger than the children, I would say of 50% of the people on here. |
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"I don't think my profile really reflects me at all and I know I need to change it that's why I was looking for help. One thing I can't change is being young though lol. But please let me know what I should change about my pictures though as it will help me out"
One of the biggest problem with any forum is the way people react to comments.
The comments you like, act upon.
The ones you don't like, ignore.
Then move on and carry on joining in the site.
All forums are like this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Best to do mate is be honest and make sure you treat ladies with the respecr they deserve and approach them in calm mannor i don't get many replies but all you can do is try and if you they don't reply don't hassle best of luck dude  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A picture in bed looks unattractive, cock pictures need to go, have a smiling picture in the daylight will show you off better, ass pictures as suggested earlier would be more enticing, jazz up your intro make it jump out and definitely not meet at work not acceptable for work and comes across sleazy... Otherwise good luck |
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Ok OP I’m only 2 years older than you I would suggest looking at other guys profiles and see what they are doing right and see if you can incorporate that into your profile but don’t copy verbatim and also I have seen some great advice on this thread if you don’t take it that’s fine but listen and don’t just outright ignore it. It took me a little while to find my feet on here I would suggest posting on other threads to get yourself noticed or maybe go to a social event or a swingers club. |
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Also quite a few women won’t want to meet you at your work because it’s a line they won’t cross and I understand why they don’t want you to lose your job because you had sex at work and management caught you. Why not suggest for example you live in the countryside a outdoor meet if you can’t accommodate it’s just a suggestion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been asked to visit people at work in the past, with role playing in mind.
There are people on Fab that are daring enough to be turned on by the idea. I think you would struggle with meeting TV/TS in the same scenario, as they like the time to dress up in their own environment. Maybe consider travelling too.
Best of luck
Its quite difficult if you're under 25 on here x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi all, just looking for some extra tips on what to make a profile standout on here. If anyone helps, thank you in advance. "
your age plays a big part and 55 really? Oh and you only meet at your work late at night you need to work on profile a bit me thinks |
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By *niper oneMan
over a year ago
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"Hi all, just looking for some extra tips on what to make a profile standout on here. If anyone helps, thank you in advance. "
e/mate i wouldnt bother this site is shite youll have more look on pof and its easier to many dreamee couples and women on here.quote] |
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