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"Hi what the view of Fab members toward older member, do they stand as much chance of getting meets as the younger members is it less or is it take your chance like everyone else, any abvise will be appreciated. " I don't think your age will be your main problem OP  | |||
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"OP people can be successful on fab no matter what their age. What may be a problem for you is the fact most of your pictures are widely available on internet porn sites. Did you upload your pictures on the porn sites yourself or did you "borrow" them? I particularly like the Indian man's willy - it stands out very well considering all the other willys are Caucasian "Ha ha ha, we noticed the same thing  always helps when Willy’s match  | |||
"OP people can be successful on fab no matter what their age. What may be a problem for you is the fact most of your pictures are widely available on internet porn Did you upload your pictures on the porn sites yourself or did you "borrow" them? I particularly like the Indian man's willy - it stands out very well considering all the other willys are Caucasian
Ha ha ha, we noticed the same thing always helps when Willy’s match "Lol why would you do that ? | |||
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"OP people can be successful on fab no matter what their age. What may be a problem for you is the fact most of your pictures are widely available on internet porn sites. Did you upload your pictures on the porn sites yourself or did you "borrow" them? Willy busted love it top work the Willie detective I particularly like the Indian man's willy - it stands out very well considering all the other willys are Caucasian " | |||
"Doing ok here.x" That’s because you’re smokin’ hot I’m not but am doing OK | |||
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"Doing ok here.x" I must say also why u do that? However I am 53 and have never met any1 on hear (all u couples and ladies want younger flesh as I am outside your age) Be good to meet a gen couple or female. Come on guys give the seasoned vets a chance.... | |||
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"Is it me or do they ALL look like different men on the OPs pics "Ithought the same | |||
"It seems more OK for a man to be older, than a woman? Older women are non-starters!" Im an older woman and ive been on fab five years and get on very well | |||
"Doing ok here.x I must say also why u do that? However I am 53 and have never met any1 on hear (all u couples and ladies want younger flesh as I am outside your age) Be good to meet a gen couple or female. Come on guys give the seasoned vets a chance...." Yet again I have to say age isn't the issue. There are plenty of people who do meet older, you are within my age preferences. I wouldn't message you though because I don't see anything of interest when I look at you. Perhaps it is time to consider what you are doing wrong because plenty of guys your age do very well on fab. | |||
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"Yes older members to get meets " We certainly still get meets even though we're ancient and antique. | |||
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"Doing ok here.x I must say also why u do that? However I am 53 and have never met any1 on hear (all u couples and ladies want younger flesh as I am outside your age) Be good to meet a gen couple or female. Come on guys give the seasoned vets a chance...." Sorry mate, but a 35 year old with that profile would struggle. | |||
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"We are in a mid 50's and still have not problems in getting meets on any of the sites we are on .. we seem to get a lot of interest from younger guys, but we only meet guys over 40 mostly" #no | |||
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"Define old? We feel like teenagers lol "Your only as old as you feel and act | |||
"Define old? We feel like teenagers lol
Your only as old as you feel and act "As young as the person/s you feel also ha ha  | |||
"I sometimes wonder that at 53 I’m too old for this site" You aren't, I'm 50. | |||
"Define old? We feel like teenagers lol
Your only as old as you feel and act
As young as the person/s you feel also ha ha "Ha ha that's very true x | |||
"OP people can be successful on fab no matter what their age. What may be a problem for you is the fact most of your pictures are widely available on internet porn sites. Did you upload your pictures on the porn sites yourself or did you "borrow" them? I particularly like the Indian man's willy - it stands out very well considering all the other willys are Caucasian
Ha ha ha, we noticed the same thing always helps when Willy’s match " | |||
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"For some reason I dont get any meets from women or couples. I too think it's because of my age (59). I know Im not the best looking bloke so if people go on looks, it just shows how shallow they are. Or maybe its my profile. " There has to be physical attraction for me to want to sleep with someone, I'm not on here to date. That said, I do have to make a bit of a connection to take it further but call me shallow, I cannot get physical with someone I'm not attracted to and I doubt very much I'm alone on that one. | |||
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"There’s someone for everyone on here. " | |||
"For some reason I dont get any meets from women or couples. I too think it's because of my age (59). I know Im not the best looking bloke so if people go on looks, it just shows how shallow they are. Or maybe its my profile. " So what if they are shallow? Are people not allowed to want to have sex with someone they are attracted to? Wouldn’t you want to have sex with someone you fancy? If so, that must also make you shallow too then. | |||
"For some reason I dont get any meets from women or couples. I too think it's because of my age (59). I know Im not the best looking bloke so if people go on looks, it just shows how shallow they are. Or maybe its my profile. There has to be physical attraction for me to want to sleep with someone, I'm not on here to date. That said, I do have to make a bit of a connection to take it further but call me shallow, I cannot get physical with someone I'm not attracted to and I doubt very much I'm alone on that one."
In my opinion those who call us shallow for wanting to have sex with someone we are attracted to are the ones happy to sleep with anything with a pulse and think we should too.
Each to their own but if I don’t want to rip a mans clothes off, I’m not going to fuck him. | |||
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"That's the way it seems at times. Yes there does have to be some attraction but having looked a number of profiles, some women and cpls seem to want an adonis. Not 'ordinary' people like you n me and can be soul distroying and make consider leaving the site." Why is it soul destroying? There is someone for everyone on here. Most men I think like slim women, that doesn’t stop me being confident and getting what I want. Because I don’t worry about those who aren’t into me, they are entitled to be into who they want. Looking at your profile there is nothing that would catch my eye, you need to stand out from the crowd and right now you don’t. | |||
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"It seems more OK for a man to be older, than a woman? Older women are non-starters!" Disagree totally Older ladies do well We live all ages xxx | |||
"For some reason I dont get any meets from women or couples. I too think it's because of my age (59). I know Im not the best looking bloke so if people go on looks, it just shows how shallow they are. Or maybe its my profile. There has to be physical attraction for me to want to sleep with someone, I'm not on here to date. That said, I do have to make a bit of a connection to take it further but call me shallow, I cannot get physical with someone I'm not attracted to and I doubt very much I'm alone on that one.
In my opinion those who call us shallow for wanting to have sex with someone we are attracted to are the ones happy to sleep with anything with a pulse and think we should too.
Each to their own but if I don’t want to rip a mans clothes off, I’m not going to fuck him. " | |||
"Don't get many meets tbh . I'm 53 in sept and dunno what's wrong. Is the site full of time wasters or is it me. I'm a decent bloke tbh but struggle to meet genuine ladies on here. Probably give it a month then I'm off here." Well you have 4 verifications so you have met people, but it seems they are all last year. I get that it can be hard for men, but keep at it! Good things don’t come easy! | |||
"Don't get many meets tbh . I'm 53 in sept and dunno what's wrong. Is the site full of time wasters or is it me. I'm a decent bloke tbh but struggle to meet genuine ladies on here. Probably give it a month then I'm off here. Well you have 4 verifications so you have met people, but it seems they are all last year. I get that it can be hard for men, but keep at it! Good things don’t come easy! "thanks but I'm losing my faith tbh. Much better off up Cannock chase dogging ! Ain't no fun in January though ! Lol | |||
"So how women in here would consider meeting me after reading my profile?" Your profile isn't one to really read, it's more geared towards "glancing at". As another profile that was on here starting a thread recently, it says nothing about you whatsoever as a person. | |||
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"There’s someone for everyone on here. " Maybe if you're a woman. Odds are against it if you're not as good looking male as the rest. | |||
"That's the way it seems at times. Yes there does have to be some attraction but having looked a number of profiles, some women and cpls seem to want an adonis. Not 'ordinary' people like you n me and can be soul distroying and make consider leaving the site." Soul destroying would suggest that you place value on whether strangers on a web site want to know you. Are they shallow? Probably but if there's a lot of genuine, fun guys messaging them, how do they spare the time to take forward every conversation. You have many aspects that make up you, your online profile here is just one piece. If it's a big piece then maybe reduce it my going to clubs. Alternatively separate your needs into friendship and sex and satisfy them separately. | |||
"That's the way it seems at times. Yes there does have to be some attraction but having looked a number of profiles, some women and cpls seem to want an adonis. Not 'ordinary' people like you n me and can be soul distroying and make consider leaving the site." Sorry, but I disagree with you completely. I seem to, by general conscensous from others I've chatted to, do exceptionally well on here. I am what I consider an "ordinary" man. I'm 40, have a daughter and a mortgage, (though at least I've paid the majority off ha!) I drive a Seat. I have few attributes I was born with that set me apart from other men. Physically I'm slightly taller, but I was a painfully skinny kid growing up, in fact till my mid 20s. Granted I'm in pretty good shape for my age, but that is due to my job being one of the most physically challenging a man can do. My first week doing it killed me, despite being in decent nick already, but I persevered, reasoning that my body would learn to take it, and it did. Prior to doing that I worked out 6 hours a week in my home gym and topped that up with cardio. Now I have no need to, but the option is there even for those who sit behind a desk 50 hours a week. This "big dick to succeed" rubbish that I've also heard on here is also a myth. I'm girthier than average, but not much different in the length department. The only thing that perhaps sets me aside from most men that I was actually lucky enough to be born with is my IQ. And this trait is not normally one considered to be the preserve of an "adonis", far from it. Everything else that may be deemed to stand me an advantage with women, my ability to write, my ability to converse with them, even to little things like my technique with a camera and how to spot a good pic is down to my putting effort in and learning it? I understand women and their fundamental mental differences from men enormously, but that is down to my being fascinated both by them and by the human mind and it's many intricacies and foibles so I've taken years studying them and their physical qualities and responses too. So I'll be damned in a decade and a half's time that I'm going to suddenly declare "That's it, I'm 50-something, may as well declare myself a sex-free zone!" Why the hell would I? Everything is achieveable if you pay attention and put in the right effort, including a plentiful, rich and rewarding sex life, complete with many friendships. | |||
.. put the time and effort in . | |||
"Your only as old as you feel .. .. put the time and effort in . "And that is literally all that is needed. You get out what you put in and that’s it. If your p  e doesn’t reflect you as a person and has nothing on it, and you don’t have a few tasteful photos (doesn’t have to be face) you aren’t going to get that much success.
I really don’t think you need to do a lot on here to get a meet other than “sell” yourself on your profile and make sure your pictures are clear and accurate! | |||
"Your only as old as you feel .. .. put the time and effort in .
And that is literally all that is needed.
You get out what you put in and that’s it.
If your pe doesn’t reflect you as a person and has nothing on it, and you don’t have a few tasteful photos (doesn’t have to be face) you aren’t going to get that much success.
I really don’t think you need to do a lot on here to get a meet other than “sell” yourself on your profile and make sure your pictures are clear and accurate!"I have to agree with chanelle, age is irrelevant on here, there are people here looking for all ages, young for older, older for younger, as long as you are happy there will always be someone out there for you, but as Chanelle says, you need to sell yourself on your profile page or you will get no where (note to self, sort my profile page out ASAP lol)  | |||
" I really don’t think you need to do a lot on here to get a meet " Simply not true for a man. Just look at the number of men to women - how many messages would you say you do not take forward each week? | |||
" I really don’t think you need to do a lot on here to get a meet Simply not true for a man. Just look at the number of men to women - how many messages would you say you do not take forward each week?" That just makes it harder, doesn’t make it impossible. You’ve been on here three months and have a verification from a female for a meet three months ago... so clearly you were successful then. I do not think you need to do a lot at all, plenty men have success on here both older and younger. If it’s as hard and as bad as you make out, why are you still here? What’s keeping you here? | |||
" If it’s as hard and as bad as you make out, why are you still here? What’s keeping you here?" Truthfully, I see it as a challenge, a learning experience, an exploration and I'm still here because I've not given it enough time to change, modify, develop. In everything you're either a natural or you learn. I'm still learning. | |||
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" Any profile of any age will get the same result if they have no photos. Put some photos on your profile and then you will be able to answer your own question. " The OP did have photos on his profile when he first posted this, but took them down when it was pointed out that they weren’t his pictures - at least 3 different cocks from memory | |||
" Any profile of any age will get the same result if they have no photos. Put some photos on your profile and then you will be able to answer your own question. The OP did have photos on his profile when he first posted this, but took them down when it was pointed out that they weren’t his pictures - at least 3 different cocks from memory " own goal!! Why the fuck do people do that??! | |||
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" Any profile of any age will get the same result if they have no photos. Put some photos on your profile and then you will be able to answer your own question. " Love perving over sexy pics | |||
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"It seems more OK for a man to be older, than a woman? Older women are non-starters!" Errrrrm what? ??? I'm a non starter? Lol - ok, that's a revelation to me and my in box  | |||
"It seems more OK for a man to be older, than a woman? Older women are non-starters!"  | |||
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"It seems more OK for a man to be older, than a woman? Older women are non-starters!" Not this one | |||
"Doing ok here.x I must say also why u do that? However I am 53 and have never met any1 on hear (all u couples and ladies want younger flesh as I am outside your age) Be good to meet a gen couple or female. Come on guys give the seasoned vets a chance...." It might not be an age thing that is stopping you getting a meet | |||
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"Lol you can take a look at me I’m the same through all my pics ??" Yep, you certainly are. The overwhelming majority anyway. | |||
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"It seems more OK for a man to be older, than a woman? Older women are non-starters! Im an older woman and ive been on fab five years and get on very well" Well, it's hardly a surprise you do so well, is it? A lovely person, gorgeous and sexy! And you chat to an old guy like me! | |||
"OP people can be successful on fab no matter what their age. What may be a problem for you is the fact most of your pictures are widely available on internet porn sites. Did you upload your pictures on the porn sites yourself or did you "borrow" them? I particularly like the Indian man's willy - it stands out very well considering all the other willys are Caucasian "You posts make lots of sense! Not just this one but others, I went to pm you that but was blocked cos I was too old
Age doesnt mean a thing, its attitude all the way.
The oldest member of our club is Dungeon man Bob and he is definitely the most popular man with every age group | |||
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"OP people can be successful on fab no matter what their age. What may be a problem for you is the fact most of your pictures are widely available on internet porn sites. Did you upload your pictures on the porn sites yourself or did you "borrow" them? I particularly like the Indian man's willy - it stands out very well considering all the other willys are Caucasian "Proper busted that guy... | |||
"Hi what the view of Fab members toward older member, do they stand as much chance of getting meets as the younger members is it less or is it take your chance like everyone else, any abvise will be appreciated. " damn I was going to give you great advice to | |||
"OP people can be successful on fab no matter what their age. What may be a problem for you is the fact most of your pictures are widely available on internet porn sites. Did you upload your pictures on the porn sites yourself or did you "borrow" them? I particularly like the Indian man's willy - it stands out very well considering all the other willys are Caucasian "Got to love a fake profile | |||
"OP people can be successful on fab no matter what their age. What may be a problem for you is the fact most of your pictures are widely available on internet porn sites. Did you upload your pictures on the porn sites yourself or did you "borrow" them? I particularly like the Indian man's willy - it stands out very well considering all the other willys are Caucasian
Proper busted that guy... "Stealing photos is actually a crime He be back lol using different name lol there many like this Sad | |||
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"OP people can be successful on fab no matter what their age. What may be a problem for you is the fact most of your pictures are widely available on internet porn sites. Did you upload your pictures on the porn sites yourself or did you "borrow" them? I particularly like the Indian man's willy - it stands out very well considering all the other willys are Caucasian
Proper busted that guy...
Stealing photos is actually a crime
He be back lol using different name lol there many like this
Sad"is it punishable by death? | |||
"Well I prefer the older man so send them all my way, I’ll keep them company. "I think someone is going to be VERY busy, lol x | |||
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"We had a meet on the weekend so not past it yet" Too darn right! Neither of us worry too much about how old our play partners are (younger or or older) as long as there's an attraction -age difference can sometimes add to the dynamic! But hey there are plenty of fifty something's on here who are saucy / sassy / sexy to play with. We hope we'll still feel the same when we get to our 60's, 70's and who knows 80's. | |||
"Yes older members to get meets " Geordie may I message you as an older gent then x | |||
"I genuinely have always found women if their 40s and 50s more attractive, something about their experience and confidence, It is harder for me now I'm older on here, because so many set their age limit lower, but that's up to them, I always smile when these same people complain about reliability, then exclud over 40's or 50's, the most reliable of them all!" I’ve had the most issues with guys in that age range, so in my experience they aren’t the most reliable at all. Age doesn’t determine reliability. | |||
"It seems more OK for a man to be older, than a woman? Older women are non-starters! Im an older woman and ive been on fab five years and get on very well" Same here.... I get meets ok | |||
"Well I prefer the older man so send them all my way, I’ll keep them company. "Here I am! | |||
