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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just wondering as im new to this side of life, whats the best way to get my foot on the ladder?
Im a single liverpool lad living in chester temporarily im 23 and 6 ft 1
Any advice will be appriciated  |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Best place to start would be a well written and enticing profile and pics - once you have that done you have various options:
Look for people that take your interest and with whom you think you'd be a good match based on their profile text etc and send them a message that is polite and respectful, provides them a little information about you and why you think you'd be a good match for them - maybe invite them to take a look at your profile and go from there.
Get along to clubs and organised socials which are a great way to meet people and get yourself known.
Get involved in the forums and chat rooms which are another good way to get yourself known and get to know others.
Set your expectations low and stay positive and treat the site as an addition to your life rather than your whole life and you won't go far wrong - but remember there are no guarantees  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Best place to start would be a well written and enticing profile and pics - once you have that done you have various options:
Look for people that take your interest and with whom you think you'd be a good match based on their profile text etc and send them a message that is polite and respectful, provides them a little information about you and why you think you'd be a good match for them - maybe invite them to take a look at your profile and go from there.
Get along to clubs and organised socials which are a great way to meet people and get yourself known.
Get involved in the forums and chat rooms which are another good way to get yourself known and get to know others.
Set your expectations low and stay positive and treat the site as an addition to your life rather than your whole life and you won't go far wrong - but remember there are no guarantees "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive been on here on and off a while now, ive messaged people always polite etc.
Some answer , some dont.
I think its just a case of patience....sooner or later my luck might be in, there must be some need for a old dude somewhere  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The fact that you expect people to immediately go off site and onto to social media is very off putting. No way would I have random people on mine. The site gives you all the tools you need. "
Appart from video sharing |
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