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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is it so hard to arrange a meet to get verifications when women won't meet without them "
just move onto someone who doesn't require that..... Simples
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If people don’t want to meet you or messsge you then look at your profile and see if it needs changing.
People can’t expect to get a different outcome if they do the same things |
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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago
the right frame of mind -London |
"I don't think having no verification's is the issue"
Yes -just remember to tone down the subtlety in your profile and always send 1 word unintelligible messages crammed with cock shots -that will sort out your lady drought for sure  |
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"Do people look at verifications though"
Absolutely I do. I want to know, at a minimum, if other people think this person is decent, friendly and respectful in person. Reduces the risk that I'm meeting someone disrespectful or even dangerous.
OP, think about how you might look from a woman's perspective. Profile, messages, anything else in public. |
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I certainly don't have sex as some sort of masochistic endurance test. I "can take" many things, but I'll keep my grit for the gym or the dentist, thanks.
Also, apart from that you like oral and think you're exceptional at it (many guys do), your profile says nothing about you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do people look at verifications though"
Most women read profiles very carefully - few men do, they generally just message women showing as online near them - hence the huge number of deleted messages. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your profile needs a lot of work.
I would delete any message from a profile like that to be honest.
Get yourself to a club or social event, best way to get verifications. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just look at some of the guys who are prominent in the forums, check their profile out and compare it to yours 
Those who are successful usually have spent time and put effort into their profile
Or/and have the body of an Adonis  |
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"Just look at some of the guys who are prominent in the forums, check their profile out and compare it to yours
Those who are successful usually have spent time and put effort into their profile
Or/and have the body of an Adonis "
Or look at the profiles of the guys who've verified the women here. Some of the guys I've met have great profiles. |
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"How would verifications help? He's clearly a man. He's not a woman pretending to be a man is he? You can be stood up by someone with verifications just as easily as without. "
verifications helps a LOT!!
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"How would verifications help? He's clearly a man. He's not a woman pretending to be a man is he? You can be stood up by someone with verifications just as easily as without. "
'Tis true, and I have been. But, it's a buyer's market and you need to set out your stall well. I've met people without verifications so that they can get one but they still have to persuade me it's worth me giving up my time.
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"How would verifications help? He's clearly a man. He's not a woman pretending to be a man is he? You can be stood up by someone with verifications just as easily as without. "
They show what other people think the person is like. Are they polite, respectful, friendly, non-pushy, etc? Particularly when there are more than just a few verifications saying the same thing.
My biggest concern is never being stood up. My biggest concern is always my safety. Verifications are one way of taking care of myself. |
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"How would verifications help? He's clearly a man. He's not a woman pretending to be a man is he? You can be stood up by someone with verifications just as easily as without.
They show what other people think the person is like. Are they polite, respectful, friendly, non-pushy, etc? Particularly when there are more than just a few verifications saying the same thing.
My biggest concern is never being stood up. My biggest concern is always my safety. Verifications are one way of taking care of myself. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like to read profiles and verifications. Profiles as they give a small window into the persons personality, verifications to back up what the profile said.
I think its an important part. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Person I have been messed around by the most is well verified and the most reliable I have met were a few unverified ones. It doesn’t always guarantee reliability. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I guess women like verifications so they can make sure that they like the other women the guy has met, plus they know who to ward off if they decide he's "all mine"..."
Do people do that?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I guess women like verifications so they can make sure that they like the other women the guy has met, plus they know who to ward off if they decide he's "all mine"...
Do people do that? "
Men do that. Ive had horrible messages today as one of my meets is on the hot pics 1st page. Its shocking |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do people look at verifications though
Yes
We do for lots of reasons "
If there's only a couple of veri's then we check who gave the verification also, noticed a few that seem to be fake accounts or men verifiyiing other men which will put us off straight away |
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"I've had messages telling me that I'm tainted by association because of some of the people I've met.
Not the judgemental type of people you'd want to meet then. Their loss, not yours. "
Oh quite. A whiff of that sort of nonsense and onto my block list they go. |
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Tut tut tut...
Another guy on fab who thinks that having verifications will get him sex!
You have to sell yourself and this is done by having a profile that attracts!
Yours is DULL!
Have a read of a few singles and take notes! |
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