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By *am_brown OP Man
over a year ago
birmingham |
I have started cross dressing and want to go out to gay clubs dressed as a girl however I do not wish to participate in a gay lifestyle. Can you cross dress and still be attracted to ladies, will ladies still be attracted to me if I am cross dressed? Can someone please advise? Do any fellow cross dressers have any experience in the matter?
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"I have started cross dressing and want to go out to gay clubs dressed as a girl however I do not wish to participate in a gay lifestyle. Can you cross dress and still be attracted to ladies, will ladies still be attracted to me if I am cross dressed? Can someone please advise? Do any fellow cross dressers have any experience in the matter?
Sam x"
Sometimes i put my pants on when really angry and still fancy women, so yeah if your getting dressed cross it will be fine. |
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By *am_brown OP Man
over a year ago
birmingham |
"I have started cross dressing and want to go out to gay clubs dressed as a girl however I do not wish to participate in a gay lifestyle. Can you cross dress and still be attracted to ladies, will ladies still be attracted to me if I am cross dressed? Can someone please advise? Do any fellow cross dressers have any experience in the matter?
Sam x
Sometimes i put my pants on when really angry and still fancy women, so yeah if your getting dressed cross it will be fine."
Lol fair enough |
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West Midlands it a common assumption crossdressing assumes you are gay or bi and while some of us are one or the other many girls love women. There are some clubs which are specifically for crossdressers so that might be a better place to start than gay clubs. There can be hostility lack of acceptance from gay and trans people towards CD's so be aware of that. To answer if women find CD attractive then I would say some women accept and like it (usually with a crossdressing partner) but many find it a turn off and are not attracted to us. Hope this helps xx |
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By *am_brown OP Man
over a year ago
birmingham |
"West Midlands it a common assumption crossdressing assumes you are gay or bi and while some of us are one or the other many girls love women. There are some clubs which are specifically for crossdressers so that might be a better place to start than gay clubs. There can be hostility lack of acceptance from gay and trans people towards CD's so be aware of that. To answer if women find CD attractive then I would say some women accept and like it (usually with a crossdressing partner) but many find it a turn off and are not attracted to us. Hope this helps xx"
that's a fair comment, can you advise of any clubs? I think I know of two or three but more the merrier x x
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By *am_brown OP Man
over a year ago
birmingham |
"I think quite a few women like cross dressers. Many of us enjoy a hard cock sticking out from under a suspender belt.
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Thank you, I really appreciate you saying that. I've ordered stockings, holdups and a lovely black babydoll number. I'm not sure about the sizes, is there a rule for when ordering women's clothes? X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have started cross dressing and want to go out to gay clubs dressed as a girl however I do not wish to participate in a gay lifestyle. Can you cross dress and still be attracted to ladies, will ladies still be attracted to me if I am cross dressed? Can someone please advise? Do any fellow cross dressers have any experience in the matter?
Sam x"
It's quite a turn on a guy in lingerie, in my experience they always have a better collection than me. It's when their legs look better in stockings than mine I get a bit jel |
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"I think quite a few women like cross dressers. Many of us enjoy a hard cock sticking out from under a suspender belt.
Thank you, I really appreciate you saying that. I've ordered stockings, holdups and a lovely black babydoll number. I'm not sure about the sizes, is there a rule for when ordering women's clothes? X "
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Have a look at shops online there's usually a size guide measure yourself accordingly will give you your size though different shops can vary |
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"Gotta say I'd run for the hills if a bloke i met dressed as a women.i like my men manly."
If you met me day to day you wouldn't have any idea of lilly and would consider me manly. What we do in our spare time has no reflection on our so called 'masculinity' |
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Yes of course you can go out to any bar or club don't have t8 be gay places. I dress up and go out to meet girls as I'm not into men myself I get to chat to them all the time. On here it's not easy finding women to meet up with but you can only ask
Have fun dressing I do |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have started cross dressing and want to go out to gay clubs dressed as a girl however I do not wish to participate in a gay lifestyle. Can you cross dress and still be attracted to ladies, will ladies still be attracted to me if I am cross dressed? Can someone please advise? Do any fellow cross dressers have any experience in the matter?
Sam x"
Some ladies will like it some wont
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By (user no longer on site)
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"West Midlands it a common assumption crossdressing assumes you are gay or bi and while some of us are one or the other many girls love women. There are some clubs which are specifically for crossdressers so that might be a better place to start than gay clubs. There can be hostility lack of acceptance from gay and trans people towards CD's so be aware of that. To answer if women find CD attractive then I would say some women accept and like it (usually with a crossdressing partner) but many find it a turn off and are not attracted to us. Hope this helps xx"
I know a few straight men into it |
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"Gotta say I'd run for the hills if a bloke i met dressed as a women.i like my men manly."
I don’t see the two as related. For me in fact, the incongruity between a hard, athletic masculine body with hair and women’s lingerie can be a hell of a turn on. |
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"Gotta say I'd run for the hills if a bloke i met dressed as a women.i like my men manly.
I don’t see the two as related. For me in fact, the incongruity between a hard, athletic masculine body with hair and women’s lingerie can be a hell of a turn on. "
Doesn't look like she had a response for what I replied to her anyway lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Gotta say I'd run for the hills if a bloke i met dressed as a women.i like my men manly.
I don’t see the two as related. For me in fact, the incongruity between a hard, athletic masculine body with hair and women’s lingerie can be a hell of a turn on.
Doesn't look like she had a response for what I replied to her anyway lol"
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I've found that I've made lots of female friends when I've been out dressed all very nice to me and they treat me as just another woman. Of course they know I'm not but it's great they except me for who I am x
Imo I think that's all you can ever want. For me the sex is bonus as you don't expect it even on this site it's very rare unless you go to club
I'm happy just going out socially myself as great fun chatting up women all night
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Love to dress in a little lingerie and my attraction to women is undiminished - their indifference to me remains the same however 
There are no rules, just be yourself and enjoy |
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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago
Bristol East |
"I have started cross dressing and want to go out to gay clubs dressed as a girl however I do not wish to participate in a gay lifestyle. Can you cross dress and still be attracted to ladies, will ladies still be attracted to me if I am cross dressed? Can someone please advise? Do any fellow cross dressers have any experience in the matter?
Sam x"
The impression I get is that most cross-dressing men are heterosexual. There is a subset among women who are attracted to cross-dressing men. A minority.
Your clothes do not determine your sexuality. That comes from within.
Good luck with whatever you do.
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By *am_brown OP Man
over a year ago
birmingham |
"I have started cross dressing and want to go out to gay clubs dressed as a girl however I do not wish to participate in a gay lifestyle. Can you cross dress and still be attracted to ladies, will ladies still be attracted to me if I am cross dressed? Can someone please advise? Do any fellow cross dressers have any experience in the matter?
Sam x
Some ladies will like it some wont
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Do you know any venues that are OK with it? X |
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"Gotta say I'd run for the hills if a bloke i met dressed as a women.i like my men manly.
If you met me day to day you wouldn't have any idea of lilly and would consider me manly. What we do in our spare time has no reflection on our so called 'masculinity'"
Preach sister!!  |
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can you recommend any good clubs to go? X
