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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Hi all, looking for an honest assessment on my profile and where I may be going wrong.

I've been on and off here for years but by no means a hardened swinger (not had more than 12 meets in last 6 years). Cautious about putting pics public due to my job but always attach a face pic to my messages.

I'm polite with all my messages but I just seem to be overlooked and not replied to time and time again - understand the number of single guys is always going to make it difficult to compete but still disheartening all the same.

Thanks in advance

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

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By *oobs1Woman over a year ago

Sussex

It’s simple/basic and to the point. I don’t see anything wrong as such but perhaps a little more basic media that may draw someone in to being interested in you x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

nothing wrong with your profile just need a avatar photo plus you been verified which is a plus you have loads of friend on your profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thanks for your honesty, I do appreciate the reply.

I would prefer not to put a face pic on due to my job and I don't want to put a body/cock pic up as the vast majority of ladies don't want unwelcome pics in their inbox.

Get that I can't please everyone but would be nice to please someone haha x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"nothing wrong with your profile just need a avatar photo plus you been verified which is a plus you have loads of friend on your profile

Nice one

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Anyone else care to give some guidance?

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Anyone else care to give some guidance?

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your avatar could be improved - after all, lots of us have jobs and you couldn’t tell who I was by mine. Are you 33 or 36? It’s says both on your profile which makes me think either be honest or put more effort into spotting details.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

why not put a torso pic on or a nice shirt on with open neck it wouldn't identify u but I find a blurred face pic just looks weird rather not have a pic than a blurred one. there are ways to crop a photo so you get interest but doesn't give away your identity

hope that helps

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The current pic you have up is off putting to us. You'd be better off having nothing at all in our view.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

But can that work against you sometimes, I sincerly want to know

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"why not put a torso pic on or a nice shirt on with open neck it wouldn't identify u but I find a blurred face pic just looks weird rather not have a pic than a blurred one. there are ways to crop a photo so you get interest but doesn't give away your identity

hope that helps "

Pointers taken.

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