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First meet

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Hey I’ve been on here a laal bit. I’m just looking for advice on how to do a first meet. I’m like super nervous but maybe there’s some tricks or advice. Everyone’s had to have a first meet soooo yeah. Please help I don’t really wanna be shy anymore.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Don't put any pressure on yourself to do anything but meet the person to begin with. Have an escape plan if you feel the meet isn't going well. Maybe consider having a phone buddy who can call you at a pre-arranged time to see if things are going ok, and you're safe.

Be yourself, relax, be gorgeous.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Meet in public palace and have a drink.x

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By *orruptedWoman over a year ago

Battersea, London

Take it at your own pace, be sure, build a level of trust. Then coffee or drink to see how it goes

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Do a social first and follow your gut feeling, the slightest doubt, just don’t do it.

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By *ullpa72Man over a year ago

Isle of Arran

As a guy I would say we get just as nervous over a first meet! So I would agree with all that's been said ,just be yourself and try to relax ,both of you!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Always arrange to meet in a public place. They may seem amazing online, but you could meet them and find out they dont shower.

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Don't put any pressure on yourself to do anything but meet the person to begin with. Have an escape plan if you feel the meet isn't going well. Maybe consider having a phone buddy who can call you at a pre-arranged time to see if things are going ok, and you're safe.

Be yourself, relax, be gorgeous."

Absolutely this. Meet, chat, don't be pressured into anything, see if you like this person/ think they're trustworthy.

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