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By *ype26 OP Man
over a year ago
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Hey guys. I'm looking to get some verifications. As I'm sure nearly every lady on here is aware, you get hundreds of messages the moment your online so it's hard to get any conversations going, let alone leading to any verifications! So if anyone can give me hand and potentially message me to see how it goes, would be greatly appreciated! Thanks in advance! |
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By *ype26 OP Man
over a year ago
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No no no I'm not asking for fake verifications. More advice on the best way to meet them potentially get verifications. How can you really verify someone without meeting? So a couple of people have messaged me with little tips about my profile that might help get to that stage |
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over a year ago
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This is a swinging site not a social site. We only verify and get verified by people we had full swap sex with (with one exception but we didnt ask for the skype veri)
Whats the point to say on here “we had a coffee and had a good chat about English weather. They possess a good knowledge if tve forthcoming forecast” |
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"This is a swinging site not a social site. We only verify and get verified by people we had full swap sex with (with one exception but we didnt ask for the skype veri)
Whats the point to say on here “we had a coffee and had a good chat about English weather. They possess a good knowledge if tve forthcoming forecast”"
Several points - some people don’t feel comfortable going to a strangers house without knowing what they look like, some people want to see if there’s a connection before sex, it’s still a fave to face meeting even if it is just coffee and weather. There’s more subtley to a social than avoiding one - some people prefer a little finnesse. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No no no I'm not asking for fake verifications. More advice on the best way to meet them potentially get verifications. How can you really verify someone without meeting? So a couple of people have messaged me with little tips about my profile that might help get to that stage"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is a swinging site not a social site. We only verify and get verified by people we had full swap sex with (with one exception but we didnt ask for the skype veri)
Whats the point to say on here “we had a coffee and had a good chat about English weather. They possess a good knowledge if tve forthcoming forecast”
Several points - some people don’t feel comfortable going to a strangers house without knowing what they look like, some people want to see if there’s a connection before sex, it’s still a fave to face meeting even if it is just coffee and weather. There’s more subtley to a social than avoiding one - some people prefer a little finnesse. "
Tottaly agree with you, we always do a social first (however we do all end up naked an hour later...lol) its just that we find it odd to read veris about socials because our main priority is to read what they’re like in bed... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is a swinging site not a social site. We only verify and get verified by people we had full swap sex with (with one exception but we didnt ask for the skype veri)
Whats the point to say on here “we had a coffee and had a good chat about English weather. They possess a good knowledge if tve forthcoming forecast”"
Verifications in my opinion are to show people you are real and turned up, anything other than that is like a score card, id rather find out for myself how good/bad someone is |
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People have slightly different approaches to how they want to use this site. There is a social side to it if you want there to be and I don't see anything wrong with verifying someone on the basis of a social meet. You can tell quite a lot, most importantly that they're genuine and not a timewaster. Top tip for getting as a far as a meet up is paying attention to what's been written in the profile and including this in a message. Sounds obvious but so many people don't do this. |
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"This is a swinging site not a social site. We only verify and get verified by people we had full swap sex with (with one exception but we didnt ask for the skype veri)
Whats the point to say on here “we had a coffee and had a good chat about English weather. They possess a good knowledge if tve forthcoming forecast”
Verifications in my opinion are to show people you are real and turned up, anything other than that is like a score card, id rather find out for myself how good/bad someone is "
Yes, totally agree. Verifications are to prove that you are who it says you are on your profile and not a fake. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is a swinging site not a social site. We only verify and get verified by people we had full swap sex with (with one exception but we didnt ask for the skype veri)
Whats the point to say on here “we had a coffee and had a good chat about English weather. They possess a good knowledge if tve forthcoming forecast”
Verifications in my opinion are to show people you are real and turned up, anything other than that is like a score card, id rather find out for myself how good/bad someone is
Yes, totally agree. Verifications are to prove that you are who it says you are on your profile and not a fake."
For us, if a couple has only social verifications, no matter how genuine they are we wont approach them. We got our vanilla friends and very happy with our social life but this is something else here where the priority is sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is a swinging site not a social site. We only verify and get verified by people we had full swap sex with (with one exception but we didnt ask for the skype veri)
Whats the point to say on here “we had a coffee and had a good chat about English weather. They possess a good knowledge if tve forthcoming forecast”
Verifications in my opinion are to show people you are real and turned up, anything other than that is like a score card, id rather find out for myself how good/bad someone is
Yes, totally agree. Verifications are to prove that you are who it says you are on your profile and not a fake.
For us, if a couple has only social verifications, no matter how genuine they are we wont approach them. We got our vanilla friends and very happy with our social life but this is something else here where the priority is sex."
Each to their own |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had two meets with the same couple since i rejoined and they wont veri,aint sure how and i've asked them to,which means my profile shows no verifications which is a pain. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've had two meets with the same couple since i rejoined and they wont veri,aint sure how and i've asked them to,which means my profile shows no verifications which is a pain."
Are they a verified couple themselves? |
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"I've had two meets with the same couple since i rejoined and they wont veri,aint sure how and i've asked them to,which means my profile shows no verifications which is a pain.
Are they a verified couple themselves?"
Yes, thing is they veried me on my old profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've had two meets with the same couple since i rejoined and they wont veri,aint sure how and i've asked them to,which means my profile shows no verifications which is a pain.
Are they a verified couple themselves?
Yes, thing is they veried me on my old profile."
Sorry cant help only they can decide if they want to verify you? Have you asked them why? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey guys. I'm looking to get some verifications. As I'm sure nearly every lady on here is aware, you get hundreds of messages the moment your online so it's hard to get any conversations going, let alone leading to any verifications! So if anyone can give me hand and potentially message me to see how it goes, would be greatly appreciated! Thanks in advance! "
Verifications can be misleading as we all have our different tastes and sexual preferences. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I look at a verification and I rarely do, it would only be to see if they have physically met someone before I messaged. Far too many only seem to want to cam, which to me is a waste of time. If I find a profile with only cam verifications I avoid it. |
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