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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi im new to this i have tried to talk even to get noticed but everyone blanks me...
Im a nice humble funny guy someone help me understand why they not intrested
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I think I'm one of the people that blanked you (I know I have read your profile before, either as a message, wink, or friend request)
For me, your location was the main issue - you live a fair way from me. But there was also nothing in your profile that grabbed me.
I get a lot of messages, so I can't remember you specific one. |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
Hillside desolate |
You can't accommodate so that will put some off.
You have a very tight age range of who you're looking for, and it's probably the most in demand demographic on fab. Not suggesting you change it if that's what you want but will somewhat explain your lack of success. |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
Think it's your profile and lack of photos that let you down. You miss words out which makes it difficult to read. Try reading it out loud and see what I mean.
Some ladies like gym fit guys, but it intimidates others if they are not fit themselves.
The age range you are looking for is narrow.
It also depends what type of messages you send. Why not send a message to me pretending I was a lady you were interested in. I can then give you some feedback .
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"Think it's your profile and lack of photos that let you down. You miss words out which makes it difficult to read. Try reading it out loud and see what I mean.
Some ladies like gym fit guys, but it intimidates others if they are not fit themselves.
The age range you are looking for is narrow.
It also depends what type of messages you send. Why not send a message to me pretending I was a lady you were interested in. I can then give you some feedback .
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I’d agree with Lizzy. Your profile doesn’t really tell us anything about you other than you’re a mechanic & like the gym. One slightly fuzzy photo & barely any write up & I wouldn’t be likely to reply either.
Women often equate lack of effort in a profile to a lack of effort in a meet. For the age range you’re looking for, you’re in around a 10:1 ratio of men to women, so you need to really stand out ... and currently it’s pretty forgettable  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It reads as someone who has English as a second language and going from your profile that is entirely possible. Maybe actually put that, ir your profile ( and probably your messages ) sound 'odd'. Most people judge in a few seconds whether they would meet you. The little explanation might help ? |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
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"It reads as someone who has English as a second language and going from your profile that is entirely possible. Maybe actually put that, ir your profile ( and probably your messages ) sound 'odd'. Most people judge in a few seconds whether they would meet you. The little explanation might help ?"
Well done for taking this on board . Love the comment about Africa.
I would remove the idea people have to add a word in the title.
Try to add some new photos .
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"It reads as someone who has English as a second language and going from your profile that is entirely possible. Maybe actually put that, ir your profile ( and probably your messages ) sound 'odd'. Most people judge in a few seconds whether they would meet you. The little explanation might help ?
Well done for taking this on board . Love the comment about Africa.
I would remove the idea people have to add a word in the title.
Try to add some new photos .
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This!!
Your write up is great (although remove the bit about ‘book’ in the title!)
Now I’m interested in who you are - but I’d love to see a few more photos. Shirt off or open, maybe in your overalls? In a towel, in the bath, just some nice boxer shorts etc ...
So, what’s your favourite dessert?!  |
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