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I'm little confused about what you're trying to say!!
Are gay men and bi men who find other men attractive not ordinary blocks? Do you mean by ordinary block that they're machos not camp? Please elaborate more |
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"My preference is for men who are just ordinary blokes but who also happen to find other men attractive - are you out there guys? If so, drop me a message."
You seem to be implying that most bi or gay men are camo queen's and thats not true at all. Even if you met me during the day you wouldn't remotely assume I was a transvestite or bi, manly tradesman by day, glamorous transvestite by night |
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By *hoot45 OP Man
over a year ago
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"My preference is for men who are just ordinary blokes but who also happen to find other men attractive - are you out there guys? If so, drop me a message.
You seem to be implying that most bi or gay men are camo queen's and thats not true at all. Even if you met me during the day you wouldn't remotely assume I was a transvestite or bi, manly tradesman by day, glamorous transvestite by night "
I don’t want transformations - I just want a guy who is an ordinary bloke. I have nothing against anyone who is camp - it’s just not for me - it’s my personal preference. Why is there a need to argue against personal preference? Some people prefer tall people or short or stocky or slim or blond hair or blue eyes. Telling me that I shouldn’t have preferences is not going to change anything. |
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"Normal married bi bloke here
Well that’s good to know - they do exist then? Are you sure it’s ok to like them? Lol "
I'm not sure how but you seem to have completely misunderstood what I said. At no point did I say anything about your preferences not being okay. What I said was that your original post seems to imply that the majority of gay or bi blokes are camp Queens and not 'normal' as you put it. I was just stating that that is not true, so stop being defensive and making snide remarks when that is not what I said at all |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm not sure how but you seem to have completely misunderstood what I said. At no point did I say anything about your preferences not being okay. What I said was that your original post seems to imply that the majority of gay or bi blokes are camp Queens and not 'normal' as you put it. I was just stating that that is not true, so stop being defensive and making snide remarks when that is not what I said at all"
Yeah, that's what i thought.
Didn't seem to read your comment at all.
You never suggested he should be interested in transformations.
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By *hoot45 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Normal married bi bloke here
Well that’s good to know - they do exist then? Are you sure it’s ok to like them? Lol
I'm not sure how but you seem to have completely misunderstood what I said. At no point did I say anything about your preferences not being okay. What I said was that your original post seems to imply that the majority of gay or bi blokes are camp Queens and not 'normal' as you put it. I was just stating that that is not true, so stop being defensive and making snide remarks when that is not what I said at all"
I didn’t say anything about majority and I specifically said that I have nothing against any type of behaviour - all I said was what I prefer - if you don’t like what I prefer then that’s tough - it’s what I prefer. I don’t like celery and no matter what you say I’m never going to like it! Don’t lecture me on what I prefer! |
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"Normal married bi bloke here
Well that’s good to know - they do exist then? Are you sure it’s ok to like them? Lol
I'm not sure how but you seem to have completely misunderstood what I said. At no point did I say anything about your preferences not being okay. What I said was that your original post seems to imply that the majority of gay or bi blokes are camp Queens and not 'normal' as you put it. I was just stating that that is not true, so stop being defensive and making snide remarks when that is not what I said at all
I didn’t say anything about majority and I specifically said that I have nothing against any type of behaviour - all I said was what I prefer - if you don’t like what I prefer then that’s tough - it’s what I prefer. I don’t like celery and no matter what you say I’m never going to like it! Don’t lecture me on what I prefer! "
Again, literally not once have I commented on what you prefer, I think you're reading what you want to read and not the actual words Infront of you |
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By *hoot45 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Normal married bi bloke here
Well that’s good to know - they do exist then? Are you sure it’s ok to like them? Lol
I'm not sure how but you seem to have completely misunderstood what I said. At no point did I say anything about your preferences not being okay. What I said was that your original post seems to imply that the majority of gay or bi blokes are camp Queens and not 'normal' as you put it. I was just stating that that is not true, so stop being defensive and making snide remarks when that is not what I said at all
I didn’t say anything about majority and I specifically said that I have nothing against any type of behaviour - all I said was what I prefer - if you don’t like what I prefer then that’s tough - it’s what I prefer. I don’t like celery and no matter what you say I’m never going to like it! Don’t lecture me on what I prefer!
Again, literally not once have I commented on what you prefer, I think you're reading what you want to read and not the actual words Infront of you"
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By *hoot45 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Normal married bi bloke here
Well that’s good to know - they do exist then? Are you sure it’s ok to like them? Lol
I'm not sure how but you seem to have completely misunderstood what I said. At no point did I say anything about your preferences not being okay. What I said was that your original post seems to imply that the majority of gay or bi blokes are camp Queens and not 'normal' as you put it. I was just stating that that is not true, so stop being defensive and making snide remarks when that is not what I said at all
I didn’t say anything about majority and I specifically said that I have nothing against any type of behaviour - all I said was what I prefer - if you don’t like what I prefer then that’s tough - it’s what I prefer. I don’t like celery and no matter what you say I’m never going to like it! Don’t lecture me on what I prefer!
Again, literally not once have I commented on what you prefer, I think you're reading what you want to read and not the actual words Infront of you"
You said that I ‘implied that the majority of gay and bi men were camp Queens’ - I implied nothing of the sort and I repeat I accept all types of behaviour but some are just not for me - now can we please draw a line under this? |
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I very rarely look at guys and think mmmm the way I do with women......which is erm quite regularly.....but when I do it almost catches me by surprise. So much by surprise I almost don't know what to do with myself which in a way is quite comical. |
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"Men don't attract me with looks but I do enjoy sucking and wanking guys"
Yer same here, I enjoy playing both sides, but still happy in a long term relationship with a woman. |
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By *hoot45 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Men don't attract me with looks but I do enjoy sucking and wanking guys
Yer same here, I enjoy playing both sides, but still happy in a long term relationship with a woman."
I think most men who have the option are more comfortable with being in a relationship with a woman, although I have spoken to a gay guy who is married to a bisexual man - interesting dynamic there |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Men don't attract me with looks but I do enjoy sucking and wanking guys
Yer same here, I enjoy playing both sides, but still happy in a long term relationship with a woman." yeah I understand that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Find it a bit strange that anyone can pidgin hole anyone, we're just people with a different idea about what we like. I enjoy great times with many different genders. |
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By *hoot45 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Find it a bit strange that anyone can pidgin hole anyone, we're just people with a different idea about what we like. I enjoy great times with many different genders. "
Well I guess there’s a tendency to put everyone into categories for easy reference but not everyone fits easily into a category - I know quite a few bisexual men but their behaviour is not simply that they find men and women equally attractive all the time. My experience has been that bisexual men don’t feel the urge to have sex with men all the time, but when they do it’s very strong |
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By *hoot45 OP Man
over a year ago
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"I am a bi guy. I do not fancy men in the slightest. I do however adore big hard cocks......"
I don’t think you’re the only guy who thinks lije this - lots of guys get turned on by a big throbbing cock or five lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm little confused about what you're trying to say!!
Are gay men and bi men who find other men attractive not ordinary blocks? Do you mean by ordinary block that they're machos not camp? Please elaborate more" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Strange thread!
Can you not just imply this on yr profile(update) or do you think 'ordinary blokes' are unlikely to read yr profile??"
From messages i've been sent, i'd say no guy ever reads the profile...
None.
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By *hoot45 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Strange thread!
Can you not just imply this on yr profile(update) or do you think 'ordinary blokes' are unlikely to read yr profile??
From messages i've been sent, i'd say no guy ever reads the profile...
None.
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Maybe some profiles are too long or guys just give it try anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In my meets allot of guys have female partners some with kids . I have a female partner who supports my bi nature and let’s me play. The guys are like everyday kind of guys you would meet in the street or passing by never think they where gay or bi, but who cares anyway
I can be attracted to a guy physically but not in an emotional way fall in love etc but I do like to play with guys and ladies such a turn on and feel naughty I do make some good friends too but when the deed is done we just carry on as normal it’s just everyday life so enjoy it
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"In my meets allot of guys have female partners some with kids . I have a female partner who supports my bi nature and let’s me play. The guys are like everyday kind of guys you would meet in the street or passing by never think they where gay or bi, but who cares anyway
I can be attracted to a guy physically but not in an emotional way fall in love etc but I do like to play with guys and ladies such a turn on and feel naughty I do make some good friends too but when the deed is done we just carry on as normal it’s just everyday life so enjoy it
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My preference is for men who are just ordinary blokes but who also happen to find other men attractive - are you out there guys? If so, drop me a message.
You seem to be implying that most bi or gay men are camo queen's and thats not true at all. Even if you met me during the day you wouldn't remotely assume I was a transvestite or bi, manly tradesman by day, glamorous transvestite by night "
Same here, 6ft biker by day, your tall leggy date by night |
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"My preference is for men who are just ordinary blokes but who also happen to find other men attractive - are you out there guys? If so, drop me a message.
You seem to be implying that most bi or gay men are camo queen's and thats not true at all. Even if you met me during the day you wouldn't remotely assume I was a transvestite or bi, manly tradesman by day, glamorous transvestite by night "
What a beaut!! Looking fab!! |
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Im not keen on labels. Im not bi or bi curious but if we think its exciting to encourage women to play witb each other because it turns us on. Then whats wrong with wanking or sucking another guy? Many women like to see it too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My preference is for men who are just ordinary blokes but who also happen to find other men attractive - are you out there guys? If so, drop me a message."
Met a lot of those xx |
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We are all normal. We dont fall in love. We live the buz/kink.
I love women. But the sexcitment of sucking or being sucked while a woman enjoys is awsome.even bi role play scenarios. Ive met a few couples where the wife wants to watch. Also me and an old flame off here use to enjoy sharing a cock and recieve a facial together.kinky. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Definitely heteromantic but I love having sex with guys.
Hairy daddy bear with a predilection for Chinese guys and twinks, but will be swayed anytime by enthusiasm.
Sucking cock, rimming, fucking, fisting, pissing all over eachother, threesomes, foursomes and Moresomes. |
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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago
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What is normal?
To work colleagues, friends and most family I'm a normal straight bloke in a male dominated environment. Most people I know think I'm a normal bloke.
But here I am right now wearing a blonde wig, silicone boobs, fishnets and a mini skirt in a hotel room waiting for guys to come and have sex with me. In fact later tonight I hope it's lots of guys.
Am I still normal? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would say I’m “straight-ish” hahaha
Straight acting looking and 99% of the time prefer woman…..however….I get turned on by big smooth cocks at times!!! It’s only the dick though not really into chatting or any other body part or face etc of a guy….just like sucking it or wanking it off!! |
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"Would defo like to play with a cock for a night but don’t fancy guys ????? Always got my own I guess"
The mental gymnastics some closeted men go through to cling to some semblance of heteronormative lives is just astounding sometimes.
But from the comments above, not shocking in the least.
For those that claim to want a cock, but not the guy?
So, do you want a transwoman or?
Some bloke - age irrelevant - that whips it out for you?
I would gather computer says NO to that.
Because if you did not, in fact, 'fancy guys', you wouldn't narrow down your search for said cock to suck. You would literally take all comers, because it would be the cock that mattered, not the man attached to it.
But I would be willing to bet that those claiming this do INDEED narrow down the cocks they suck, who they're attached to, and et cetera, sex cetera.
But you continue down Denial Road...
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