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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In my opinion you should say female or woman, not girl. Specify more on your profile about what ages you are up for. Do you want to be cougered? Or are you only looking for females of a similar age to yourself?
It's fine but could be more informative
In these areas. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why, during a fmf, should the women be focused on your pleasure?
And I hate the word genuine  I used to explain on my profile why I hated ‘buzzwords’ but deleted it, just have the buzzwords I hate.
You’re a genuine guy. What does this mean? You’re not a female in disguise? You aren’t a robot? A koala? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"‘Student at Sheffield Hallam University studying electronic engineering’ do you think this will get you meets op?. It’s pointless, get rid. "
Well one of his teacher might be on here... It worths the shot |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It reads much better now OP.
Personally, I’d remove the sub, sissy and bi - it sounds judgemental - and the university bit, but that’s due to identification reasons.
As a lady I’d like to see more photos of you I.e. dressed |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It reads much better now OP.
Personally, I’d remove the sub, sissy and bi - it sounds judgemental - and the university bit, but that’s due to identification reasons.
As a lady I’d like to see more photos of you I.e. dressed "
What kind of pics? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It reads much better now OP.
Personally, I’d remove the sub, sissy and bi - it sounds judgemental - and the university bit, but that’s due to identification reasons.
As a lady I’d like to see more photos of you I.e. dressed
What kind of pics? "
You. Dressed. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"‘Student at Sheffield Hallam University studying electronic engineering’ do you think this will get you meets op?. It’s pointless, get rid. "
I thought it would show intellectual ability. But obviously I was wrong. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You sound like a nice guy OP. The bit about sub bi sissy needs to be clearer I think. Are you into those things or not? Maybe try and word it a bit clearer like adding "but I'm not into..."
Be aware you will be ripped to shreds by the tactless forum types. Don't take it personally. Be positive and remember you have real life friends that like you.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It reads much better now OP.
Personally, I’d remove the sub, sissy and bi - it sounds judgemental - and the university bit, but that’s due to identification reasons.
As a lady I’d like to see more photos of you I.e. dressed
What kind of pics?
You. Dressed. "
I got that but I was talking more about the environment. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You sound like a nice guy OP. The bit about sub bi sissy needs to be clearer I think. Are you into those things or not? Maybe try and word it a bit clearer like adding "but I'm not into..."
Be aware you will be ripped to shreds by the tactless forum types. Don't take it personally. Be positive and remember you have real life friends that like you. "
I'm probably more blunt than them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"‘Student at Sheffield Hallam University studying electronic engineering’ do you think this will get you meets op?. It’s pointless, get rid.
I thought it would show intellectual ability. But obviously I was wrong. "
A well-written profile can show this, as do the messages that follow. I was just concerned with your privacy (maybe, wrongly  ).
Photos... dressed, semi-dressed - it’s the allure of it that’s seductive too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's you're not your sweetie. For fuck's sake! I don't know why these things scream out at me but they do, and it bugs the shit out of me.
Yes I am pedantic and aware of my faults but it's basic grammar and it will be lost if we aren't vigilant |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's you're not your sweetie. For fuck's sake! I don't know why these things scream out at me but they do, and it bugs the shit out of me.
Yes I am pedantic and aware of my faults but it's basic grammar and it will be lost if we aren't vigilant "
thanks, was a mistake. Thanks for pointing it out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's you're not your sweetie. For fuck's sake! I don't know why these things scream out at me but they do, and it bugs the shit out of me.
Yes I am pedantic and aware of my faults but it's basic grammar and it will be lost if we aren't vigilant
thanks, was a mistake. Thanks for pointing it out. "
No probs... perfect language otherwise ha ha! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's you're not your sweetie. For fuck's sake! I don't know why these things scream out at me but they do, and it bugs the shit out of me.
Yes I am pedantic and aware of my faults but it's basic grammar and it will be lost if we aren't vigilant
thanks, was a mistake. Thanks for pointing it out.
No probs... perfect language otherwise ha ha!"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not a bad profile.
To be honest your name would put me off. I don't want hammering 
Nita"
Was just the first thing that came to mind. Thought about the student. But thought that may put a few off.
Any ideas? |
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"Not a bad profile.
To be honest your name would put me off. I don't want hammering
Nita
Could have always been jackhammer. "
No idea about profile names... Ours is hardly original.
You're in Sheffield so get yourself to La Chambre on a Friday night. Have a natter, get verified and if you're lucky get laid
Nita |
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"Not a bad profile.
To be honest your name would put me off. I don't want hammering
Nita
Could have always been jackhammer. "
User name means instant delete in my book as does the last line about FFM. (I’m fully aware I’m not your target market).
There’s little personality in your profile - it just doesn’t tell me about you and what you offer. Sorry - maybe it’s because I’m not your target market! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not a bad profile.
To be honest your name would put me off. I don't want hammering
Nita
Could have always been jackhammer.
No idea about profile names... Ours is hardly original.
You're in Sheffield so get yourself to La Chambre on a Friday night. Have a natter, get verified and if you're lucky get laid
Nita"
A nickname thats always stuck is big T. Could go with that. |
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"Not a bad profile.
To be honest your name would put me off. I don't want hammering
Nita
Could have always been jackhammer.
No idea about profile names... Ours is hardly original.
You're in Sheffield so get yourself to La Chambre on a Friday night. Have a natter, get verified and if you're lucky get laid
Nita
A nickname thats always stuck is big T. Could go with that. "
If you're comfortable with that, go for it. Way better than the current one. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not a bad profile.
To be honest your name would put me off. I don't want hammering
Nita
Could have always been jackhammer.
User name means instant delete in my book as does the last line about FFM. (I’m fully aware I’m not your target market).
There’s little personality in your profile - it just doesn’t tell me about you and what you offer. Sorry - maybe it’s because I’m not your target market! "
Why does the ffm turn the profile off? Not sure about the name. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not a bad profile.
To be honest your name would put me off. I don't want hammering
Nita
Could have always been jackhammer.
No idea about profile names... Ours is hardly original.
You're in Sheffield so get yourself to La Chambre on a Friday night. Have a natter, get verified and if you're lucky get laid
Nita
A nickname thats always stuck is big T. Could go with that.
If you're comfortable with that, go for it. Way better than the current one."
But couldn't people mistake it for me talking about my dick? |
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"Not a bad profile.
To be honest your name would put me off. I don't want hammering
Nita
Could have always been jackhammer.
No idea about profile names... Ours is hardly original.
You're in Sheffield so get yourself to La Chambre on a Friday night. Have a natter, get verified and if you're lucky get laid
Nita
A nickname thats always stuck is big T. Could go with that.
If you're comfortable with that, go for it. Way better than the current one.
But couldn't people mistake it for me talking about my dick? "
Big T is a no no....sounds silly and like you’re naming your cock T! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not a bad profile.
To be honest your name would put me off. I don't want hammering
Nita
Could have always been jackhammer.
No idea about profile names... Ours is hardly original.
You're in Sheffield so get yourself to La Chambre on a Friday night. Have a natter, get verified and if you're lucky get laid
Nita
A nickname thats always stuck is big T. Could go with that.
If you're comfortable with that, go for it. Way better than the current one.
But couldn't people mistake it for me talking about my dick?
Big T is a no no....sounds silly and like you’re naming your cock T! "
Thats what I thought. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not a bad profile.
To be honest your name would put me off. I don't want hammering
Nita
Could have always been jackhammer.
User name means instant delete in my book as does the last line about FFM. (I’m fully aware I’m not your target market).
There’s little personality in your profile - it just doesn’t tell me about you and what you offer. Sorry - maybe it’s because I’m not your target market!
Why does the ffm turn the profile off? Not sure about the name. "
Stil...you pics look like different people and the ffm thing makes it look like that’s all you want. Women don’t want to be used to get other women |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not a bad profile.
To be honest your name would put me off. I don't want hammering
Nita
Could have always been jackhammer.
User name means instant delete in my book as does the last line about FFM. (I’m fully aware I’m not your target market).
There’s little personality in your profile - it just doesn’t tell me about you and what you offer. Sorry - maybe it’s because I’m not your target market!
Why does the ffm turn the profile off? Not sure about the name.
Stil...you pics look like different people and the ffm thing makes it look like that’s all you want. Women don’t want to be used to get other women"
I've stipulated that only its something I'd like. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not a bad profile.
To be honest your name would put me off. I don't want hammering
Nita
Could have always been jackhammer.
User name means instant delete in my book as does the last line about FFM. (I’m fully aware I’m not your target market).
There’s little personality in your profile - it just doesn’t tell me about you and what you offer. Sorry - maybe it’s because I’m not your target market!
Why does the ffm turn the profile off? Not sure about the name.
Stil...you pics look like different people and the ffm thing makes it look like that’s all you want. Women don’t want to be used to get other women
I've stipulated that only its something I'd like. "
But what else would you like and what can you offer? |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"You sound like a nice guy OP. The bit about sub bi sissy needs to be clearer I think. Are you into those things or not? Maybe try and word it a bit clearer like adding "but I'm not into..."
Be aware you will be ripped to shreds by the tactless forum types. Don't take it personally. Be positive and remember you have real life friends that like you. "
Nobody is ripping the OP to shreds, he's been given constructive advice. To the OP.. Your text reads much better now, pics also better, well done for posting back, many don't. Good luck x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You sound like a nice guy OP. The bit about sub bi sissy needs to be clearer I think. Are you into those things or not? Maybe try and word it a bit clearer like adding "but I'm not into..."
Be aware you will be ripped to shreds by the tactless forum types. Don't take it personally. Be positive and remember you have real life friends that like you.
Nobody is ripping the OP to shreds, he's been given constructive advice. To the OP.. Your text reads much better now, pics also better, well done for posting back, many don't. Good luck x"
Thanks |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"But....you aren’t big. You’re not overly tall or over weight, it would seem like you’re calling your dick Big T "
Thats the thing I never understood. I have no idea where the nickname came from. But wherever I go thats the name I end up with.
Thats what I thought. No more really come to mind. |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
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For me avoid something boy . The word boy sounds a bit childish. Maybe Sheffield lad ?
Photos. I am a large lady and I would worry about snapping you. I am not planning on trying, but maybe some photos with you dressed sharp in a suit, or jeans and a shirt with a couple of buttons undone.
People don't always want to see naked bodies immediately, ones that intrigue and get people to imagine are way more interesting.
It's great you are coming back to the thread and listening to advise. Good luck OP |
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"‘Student at Sheffield Hallam University studying electronic engineering’ do you think this will get you meets op?. It’s pointless, get rid.
I thought it would show intellectual ability. But obviously I was wrong. "
Fella, take what they all say with a pinch of salt.
There's nothing they like better than ganging up on single guys, especially young guys, to try and make them feel like shit. |
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"Don't hate. Updated my profile, opinions? "
Just seems a wee bit cold-not as in "you are cold" but akin to a shopping list or instructions that come with an electrical appliance...only fucking with you-it's fine..Mags xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Don't hate. Updated my profile, opinions?
Just seems a wee bit cold-not as in "you are cold" but akin to a shopping list or instructions that come with an electrical appliance...only fucking with you-it's fine..Mags xx"
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
"‘Student at Sheffield Hallam University studying electronic engineering’ do you think this will get you meets op?. It’s pointless, get rid.
I thought it would show intellectual ability. But obviously I was wrong.
Fella, take what they all say with a pinch of salt.
There's nothing they like better than ganging up on single guys, especially young guys, to try and make them feel like shit."
Don't think anyone has ganged up on him and made him feel shit. The OP has asked for comments to help him and people have done that. To his credit, he has amended his profile and taken note of suggestions.
No need to send in anyone to defend him |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What do you think about my new username?
It’s literal
Is that good?
it's just fact..neither good nor bad, just fact.."
I'm stuck with it till monday now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What do you think about my new username?
It’s literal
Is that good?
it's just fact..neither good nor bad, just fact..
I'm stuck with it till monday now. "
it's fine, i wouldn't waste time worrying about it, it's not activley offensive or ridiculous, so i'd leave it alone. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What do you think about my new username?
It’s literal
Is that good?
it's just fact..neither good nor bad, just fact..
I'm stuck with it till monday now.
it's fine, i wouldn't waste time worrying about it, it's not activley offensive or ridiculous, so i'd leave it alone."
Does it blend in too much?
You kinda want to stand out right? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What do you think about my new username?
It’s literal
Is that good?
it's just fact..neither good nor bad, just fact..
I'm stuck with it till monday now.
it's fine, i wouldn't waste time worrying about it, it's not activley offensive or ridiculous, so i'd leave it alone.
Does it blend in too much?
You kinda want to stand out right? "
you are completely over thinking it! it's not crass, rude or daft..your name is not what needs to stand out so mch as profile and messages, as long as it doesnt stand out in a bad way...just leave it alone.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What do you think about my new username?
It’s literal
Is that good?
it's just fact..neither good nor bad, just fact..
I'm stuck with it till monday now.
it's fine, i wouldn't waste time worrying about it, it's not activley offensive or ridiculous, so i'd leave it alone.
Does it blend in too much?
You kinda want to stand out right?
you are completely over thinking it! it's not crass, rude or daft..your name is not what needs to stand out so mch as profile and messages, as long as it doesnt stand out in a bad way...just leave it alone.."
Agreed. Your last username wasn’t good, this is much better. It says it as it is and there’s nothing crude about it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"‘Student at Sheffield Hallam University studying electronic engineering’ do you think this will get you meets op?. It’s pointless, get rid.
I thought it would show intellectual ability. But obviously I was wrong. "
Lol brains are irrelevant on here. |
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over a year ago
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"‘Student at Sheffield Hallam University studying electronic engineering’ do you think this will get you meets op?. It’s pointless, get rid.
I thought it would show intellectual ability. But obviously I was wrong.
Lol brains are irrelevant on here. "
What makes you say that? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"‘Student at Sheffield Hallam University studying electronic engineering’ do you think this will get you meets op?. It’s pointless, get rid.
I thought it would show intellectual ability. But obviously I was wrong.
Lol brains are irrelevant on here.
What makes you say that? "
Because it's a sex site, the biggest retards on the planet can get lucky if they're good enough looking.
Reversly educated people will struggle if they're conventionally unattractive.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"‘Student at Sheffield Hallam University studying electronic engineering’ do you think this will get you meets op?. It’s pointless, get rid.
I thought it would show intellectual ability. But obviously I was wrong.
Lol brains are irrelevant on here.
What makes you say that?
Because it's a sex site, the biggest retards on the planet can get lucky if they're good enough looking.
Reversly educated people will struggle if they're conventionally unattractive.
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I get that. And people on here say its about how you perceive yourself and how you act.
If you are attractive and have a big dick on here then almost any girl will be on her knees within 1h of talking to him. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"‘Student at Sheffield Hallam University studying electronic engineering’ do you think this will get you meets op?. It’s pointless, get rid.
I thought it would show intellectual ability. But obviously I was wrong.
Lol brains are irrelevant on here.
What makes you say that?
Because it's a sex site, the biggest retards on the planet can get lucky if they're good enough looking.
Reversly educated people will struggle if they're conventionally unattractive.
I get that. And people on here say its about how you perceive yourself and how you act.
If you are attractive and have a big dick on here then almost any girl will be on her knees within 1h of talking to him. "
Exactly, also don't get me wrong from what I can see you look fine. However if your not the "hot guy" then you will be ignored and then politely expected to fuck off. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"‘Student at Sheffield Hallam University studying electronic engineering’ do you think this will get you meets op?. It’s pointless, get rid.
I thought it would show intellectual ability. But obviously I was wrong.
Lol brains are irrelevant on here.
What makes you say that?
Because it's a sex site, the biggest retards on the planet can get lucky if they're good enough looking.
Reversly educated people will struggle if they're conventionally unattractive.
I get that. And people on here say its about how you perceive yourself and how you act.
If you are attractive and have a big dick on here then almost any girl will be on her knees within 1h of talking to him.
Exactly, also don't get me wrong from what I can see you look fine. However if your not the "hot guy" then you will be ignored and then politely expected to fuck off. "
I've been told I'm above average, but no Johnny depp or model.
And this is my point. Why can't girls just be open and honest about that? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"‘Student at Sheffield Hallam University studying electronic engineering’ do you think this will get you meets op?. It’s pointless, get rid.
I thought it would show intellectual ability. But obviously I was wrong.
Lol brains are irrelevant on here.
What makes you say that?
Because it's a sex site, the biggest retards on the planet can get lucky if they're good enough looking.
Reversly educated people will struggle if they're conventionally unattractive.
I get that. And people on here say its about how you perceive yourself and how you act.
If you are attractive and have a big dick on here then almost any girl will be on her knees within 1h of talking to him.
Exactly, also don't get me wrong from what I can see you look fine. However if your not the "hot guy" then you will be ignored and then politely expected to fuck off.
I've been told I'm above average, but no Johnny depp or model.
And this is my point. Why can't girls just be open and honest about that? "
What's worse is when you look at the verifications of women giving you advice off here; a lot of them will have meets with a guy who has one line on their profile.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"‘Student at Sheffield Hallam University studying electronic engineering’ do you think this will get you meets op?. It’s pointless, get rid.
I thought it would show intellectual ability. But obviously I was wrong.
Lol brains are irrelevant on here.
What makes you say that?
Because it's a sex site, the biggest retards on the planet can get lucky if they're good enough looking.
Reversly educated people will struggle if they're conventionally unattractive.
I get that. And people on here say its about how you perceive yourself and how you act.
If you are attractive and have a big dick on here then almost any girl will be on her knees within 1h of talking to him.
Exactly, also don't get me wrong from what I can see you look fine. However if your not the "hot guy" then you will be ignored and then politely expected to fuck off.
I've been told I'm above average, but no Johnny depp or model.
And this is my point. Why can't girls just be open and honest about that?
What's worse is when you look at the verifications of women giving you advice off here; a lot of them will have meets with a guy who has one line on their profile.
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Just to be clear I'm not saying all women are like that, just a lot of them are |
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