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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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hi i am new to all this and have been on this site 3-4 weeks now ,but don't seem to be having much look not quite sure what i am doing wrong. anybody got any advice/help .
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This is a swingers site, not instashag.com
If you want immediate results try your local night club.
You are married, which will put a lot of people off. Swinging is about being open, not affairs. However, some will choose to play with you.
4 weeks is not long enough to get results here for a single male. Your profile is a bit bland and does not stand out at all. |
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"This is a swingers site, not instashag.com
If you want immediate results try your local night club.
You are married, which will put a lot of people off. Swinging is about being open, not affairs. However, some will choose to play with you.
4 weeks is not long enough to get results here for a single male. Your profile is a bit bland and does not stand out at all. "
You said it first, 
OP listen to the wise woman...3 weeks is nothing people here are looking for quality not quantity.Get to some socials and get known there,on the forums or n chat. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been on here about six months , made one really good friend and had a good friend removed by a seemingly spiteful dom (she had to comply with her dom) . There must be 20 to 1 male to female ratio. I get very little response as I'm not pushy or maybe Im just not what women are looking for.
I think everyone is different and if people click they click. Its worth persevering with as I've had fleeting mail / chat contact with some really nice people on here and if you get anything from it then you are a winner!!
Dont give up - frequent the chat rooms , message people and be civil , and resoect people . Yes the ultimate aim is sex but that doesnt mean you dont respect people - Have fun |
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