Hey everyone,
Now I have been on here for 2 months with no joy  i can’t do club meets etc so hard to get verifications, but a few ladies have replied saying sorry don’t meet anyone without been verified  I have women message me getting somewhere then all of a sudden they block me! Now I’m not big headed but know I’m not ugly lol so what the hell am I doing wrong
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My friend, your experience mirrors that of hundreds of men on here. It’s all about supply and demand!
If you’re concerned then there have been lots of similar threads in the past, so it may be worth using the forum search function to get some advice that others have given to single guys on here.
Good luck fella, I hope things change for you soon!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I was on here 6 months before I met someone.. and I've been doing this on and off since I was 25.
Stop.. look.. listen.. engage.. enjoy.. relax.. be honest.. it'll happen when you are ready. |
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"Numbers plain and simple.
You're one of many thousands of men here. Women can pick and choose at will. "
I disagree. This fella has obviously got some ladies attention. The numbers game only works if the ladies dont reply. OP you must be saying something that is turning them off you or if it is aftet you have sent a face pic then they are not attracted to you. Maybe time to reflect on what you are saying in those messages cos it maybe turning them off. |
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"Numbers plain and simple.
You're one of many thousands of men here. Women can pick and choose at will. "
I completely disagree a quality single guy who attends the right places and behaves in the right manner will have lots of opportunities with ladies who play far higher up the food chain.Male friends who I know on here will have as much fun if not more than the majority of couples. |
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You're from Leeds, right? There are often socials nearby (York has one, for example). Why not go to a social for a verification?
Based on what you've said, I'd guess there is something you're saying or something about your conversation skills that's turning people off. I'd imagine not offering anywhere to accommodate (either at a club, your home, or a hotel) is going to limit your choice as well. **shrugs** |
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i have had two lunch time meets,, had a nice lunch and a chat even drove one over 100 miles and back, niether varified me, even though i was polite all the time and listened to one go on and on for hours, what is the usual form for this, just asking thats all |
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"i have had two lunch time meets,, had a nice lunch and a chat even drove one over 100 miles and back, niether varified me, even though i was polite all the time and listened to one go on and on for hours, what is the usual form for this, just asking thats all"
Have you asked them if they can ? It may be they just don't do veris, some don't but a bit off if you have none, doesn't take much to do it. |
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"i have had two lunch time meets,, had a nice lunch and a chat even drove one over 100 miles and back, niether varified me, even though i was polite all the time and listened to one go on and on for hours, what is the usual form for this, just asking thats all"
Well hijacking someone else's thread is a tad rude to start so maybe you thought that you was being polite but they thought otherwise |
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Suggest you read your profile and ask yourself--if i were a woman looking for fun then what is it about your profile/pics that would attract me?
Also patience is a virtue and there are lots of gen people on here looking for fun.
Good luck |
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"Suggest you read your profile and ask yourself--if i were a woman looking for fun then what is it about your profile/pics that would attract me?
Also patience is a virtue and there are lots of gen people on here looking for fun.
Good luck"
He'd be better off reading all the advice given on his other threads a few weeks ago and maybe acting on it ! Best thing I ever did in here was attend an organised social meet. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"Suggest you read your profile and ask yourself--if i were a woman looking for fun then what is it about your profile/pics that would attract me?
Also patience is a virtue and there are lots of gen people on here looking for fun.
Good luck
He'd be better off reading all the advice given on his other threads a few weeks ago and maybe acting on it ! Best thing I ever did in here was attend an organised social meet."
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"i have had two lunch time meets,, had a nice lunch and a chat even drove one over 100 miles and back, niether varified me, even though i was polite all the time and listened to one go on and on for hours, what is the usual form for this, just asking thats all"
What shame that after all that effort you didn’t even receive a verification.Thats one of many reasons I don’t do social meets unless it’s at a club or an organised social
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