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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Right guys I’m so sorry lol but please please could you check to see if my profile is now on point? Tried my hardest and if so please more pointers of a good profile thanks in advance |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be brutally honest, you've put up several 'help me' type threads now and had lots of advice. The more you do it, and then change it according to others suggestions, the less the profile reflects you. It becomes a selection of sound bites of what others want to see.
There comes a time when you have to cut the strings and work it out for yourself. The savage reality is that there are many more men here than women so you'll not appeal to everybody, there's little point in trying to. You only have to appeal to one or two, but you'll have to work your arse of to do it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeh well I kinda have just done it myself I just wanted to see if it’s any better ? Not used to this sort of thing so trying to get involved "
That's fair enough. The only way you'll get noticed is to get involved. I'm merely suggesting that you don't want to be noticed for the wrong reasons.
Get yourself to a local social or club night for newbies. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yeh well I kinda have just done it myself I just wanted to see if it’s any better ? Not used to this sort of thing so trying to get involved
That's fair enough. The only way you'll get noticed is to get involved. I'm merely suggesting that you don't want to be noticed for the wrong reasons.
Get yourself to a local social or club night for newbies. "
I’d love to but I would be to nervous going on my own this is why I need someone or a couple to introduce me to it all x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your profile comes across as apologetic and needy. Most women are attracted to confidence so try selling your positives instead.
The 420 thing would put me off. Im all for people doing as they wish but mentioning it twice makes it seem like a big part of who you are and what you're looking for. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Your profile comes across as apologetic and needy. Most women are attracted to confidence so try selling your positives instead.
The 420 thing would put me off. Im all for people doing as they wish but mentioning it twice makes it seem like a big part of who you are and what you're looking for. "
Oh okay I will have a look and try change that because I am really not needy lol thanks a lot XX |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Mr curious on here could be misconstrued on here. As you have straight on profile.
Curious about what??? "
See when I made this account I had no idea what to put so I wrote this and it seems I shouldn’t of lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Mr curious on here could be misconstrued on here. As you have straight on profile.
Curious about what??? "
And curious and fabbing, swinging clubs all of it |
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"To be brutally honest, you've put up several 'help me' type threads now and had lots of advice. The more you do it, and then change it according to others suggestions, the less the profile reflects you. It becomes a selection of sound bites of what others want to see.
There comes a time when you have to cut the strings and work it out for yourself. The savage reality is that there are many more men here than women so you'll not appeal to everybody, there's little point in trying to. You only have to appeal to one or two, but you'll have to work your arse of to do it. "
And if others are noticing you doing this you run the risk of coming across needy and a bit look at me. I'm not saying this is what you doing just be careful. The 420 would put us off. But you being honest so that's a good thing. Everyone develops their page over time and most good ones evolve. G |
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