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No one is going to ask.
Most women will read a profile & decide there and then. They're not going to spend time messaging, asking for details that they can easily see on other profiles |
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I think you posted some of the most un-swinging pics I've seen. At least no dick pics.
Looks like you have a nice and trim body. Show that off a bit more.
And sell yourself a bit more too, but also keep to what you feel comfortable with, although that may change as you gain a bit more experience.
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"I think you posted some of the most un-swinging pics I've seen. At least no dick pics.
Looks like you have a nice and trim body. Show that off a bit more.
And sell yourself a bit more too, but also keep to what you feel comfortable with, although that may change as you gain a bit more experience.
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It makes a nice change for a single mans profile not to be dominated by 20 different close up views of an unappealing cock!!! |
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"I think you posted some of the most un-swinging pics I've seen. At least no dick pics.
Looks like you have a nice and trim body. Show that off a bit more.
And sell yourself a bit more too, but also keep to what you feel comfortable with, although that may change as you gain a bit more experience.
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I’d agree - it’s a very non-swinging profile.
What are you looking for, what do you like (sexually, not gym, swimming & travel), what does a girl get out of meeting you, why are you better than the other 10 guys that have messaged?
It’s more like a shy dating profile at the moment! |
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Thanks all. I'm new to this so bare with me. Im not putting cock pics up. Leave something to imagination I think. Will look at link now. Thanks again for tips! |
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"OK I've re re re edited profile. Reviews please. Thanks all"
Much better!! 
Couple of torso shots, nice boxers, open shirt etc ... maybe use b&w too, sometimes helps!
And definitely a smiley face pic! x |
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Thanks. Will have a play with some pictures. Not really a poser so will defiantly try. Not saying people on here are posers... You know what I mean...
But other than pictures alls well? |
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"OK I've re re re edited profile. Reviews please. Thanks all"
Sorry but last thing we want to hear is that you will make Clare quiet. Big turn off for us! |
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"OK I've re re re edited profile. Reviews please. Thanks all
Sorry but last thing we want to hear is that you will make Clare quiet. Big turn off for us! "
What do you mean? |
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It’s just my own approach but I’d get rid of the following:
“I apologize for the pictures I will do some others when confidence is better. New to this so please bear with me. I'm new to swinging but not new to sex so no problems there. Been single for just over a year from a 5 year relationship.”
Don’t apologise. At this point you don’t need to be open about your past, does that impact on who you’re looking for?
The rest starts to get interesting.
Ha ha. And I’d get used to posing. Enjoy how you look and that will come through on your pictures.
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"It’s just my own approach but I’d get rid of the following:
“I apologize for the pictures I will do some others when confidence is better. New to this so please bear with me. I'm new to swinging but not new to sex so no problems there. Been single for just over a year from a 5 year relationship.”
Don’t apologise. At this point you don’t need to be open about your past, does that impact on who you’re looking for?
The rest starts to get interesting.
Ha ha. And I’d get used to posing. Enjoy how you look and that will come through on your pictures.
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Done. Thanks for the advice. I do need to feel more confident. I Dont have a bad body. Got some love handles I've put on from eating carbs for gym. Won't take long to get rid of. |
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"OK I've re re re edited profile. Reviews please. Thanks all
Sorry but last thing we want to hear is that you will make Clare quiet. Big turn off for us! "
Sorry should have said squirt!!! |
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"OK I've re re re edited profile. Reviews please. Thanks all
Sorry but last thing we want to hear is that you will make Clare quiet. Big turn off for us!
Sorry should have said squirt!!!"
Ammended.... |
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"Wasn't being arrogant. Just something I enjoy doing and experiencing.... "
Don’t think I was suggesting you are. Just curious why others didn’t like it.
I’m aware that I come across as a total show off, at times.
I tried a personal message but you don’t allow guys contacting you.
You should keep it if you want.
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"I think it's a good profile, what about a picture of you smiling?
I personally don't like the word disease, used even in jest, in a profile but of course that's your own personal choice."
It rhymes with please and tease.... Will do more pics asap. Thanks for comment |
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"I know it’s not my thread but I’m curious as to why the squirt comment puts you off?
It’s a genuine question. Does he come across as too arrogant?"
Don’t think he was too arrogant. However this site is full of people making silly promises about how good they are at doing this or that sexually.
And squirting does nothing for us! |
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