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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So that what wrong, what's right (if any) what to change! Any criticism is welcomed, thank you in advance you crazy bunch  |
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It gives no information other than you are reluctant to give any information about yourself. Whether that is a positive or a negative is debatable. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It gives no information other than you are reluctant to give any information about yourself. Whether that is a positive or a negative is debatable."
Thanks, like stated though I don't want to give everything away I'd be nice to chat and speak rather than read and decide. Anyone can write up something about someone they want to be but speaking to someone could possibly be a little more true? I know what tky mean though! Thank you |
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It's your choice, if you prefer people to get to know you by chatting that's fine. I'm not sure how many people will enter into a conversation with a profile that has no pictures and very little information but I wish you success. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You should put some body pics atleast. You're not giving you're identity away with them. I like the two way street line but I dunno if women will. So many girls have asked me for face pics yet they don't even have a pic of their leg to show me. They're kinda used to getting their own way on here ha |
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"You should put some body pics atleast. You're not giving you're identity away with them. I like the two way street line but I dunno if women will. So many girls have asked me for face pics yet they don't even have a pic of their leg to show me. They're kinda used to getting their own way on here ha"
I agree it's a two way street but we provide photos and would never contact a profile that didn't. It genuinely "is" a two way street  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You should put some body pics atleast. You're not giving you're identity away with them. I like the two way street line but I dunno if women will. So many girls have asked me for face pics yet they don't even have a pic of their leg to show me. They're kinda used to getting their own way on here ha
I agree it's a two way street but we provide photos and would never contact a profile that didn't. It genuinely "is" a two way street "
To be fair ye have so many pics and so much information on yerselves I feel like I already know ye haha |
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By *amesB66Man
over a year ago
St Peter Port |
No photos, no info, not worth messaging...simples.
Unfortunately the "less is more" approach rarely works as a single male. |
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"You should put some body pics atleast. You're not giving you're identity away with them. I like the two way street line but I dunno if women will. So many girls have asked me for face pics yet they don't even have a pic of their leg to show me. They're kinda used to getting their own way on here ha
I agree it's a two way street but we provide photos and would never contact a profile that didn't. It genuinely "is" a two way street
To be fair ye have so many pics and so much information on yerselves I feel like I already know ye haha "
 but you see my point? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You should put some body pics atleast. You're not giving you're identity away with them. I like the two way street line but I dunno if women will. So many girls have asked me for face pics yet they don't even have a pic of their leg to show me. They're kinda used to getting their own way on here ha
I agree it's a two way street but we provide photos and would never contact a profile that didn't. It genuinely "is" a two way street
To be fair ye have so many pics and so much information on yerselves I feel like I already know ye haha
but you see my point? "
No I definitely do see your point. I've two basic pics and a face pic for friends plus a little bit of what I want and am willing to do and as a single male I'm still struggling so he does need to give some information up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So that what wrong, what's right (if any) what to change! Any criticism is welcomed, thank you in advance you crazy bunch "
1. No public photos at all.
2. Hidden single veri (lots of people create them from fake accounts)
3. Maximum age range.
4. Zero info on the profile - I doubt people will contact to ask for more info.
5. Stick to Tinder. |
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Minimal profile and tbh you dont exactly sound like full. Why would any one even bother to reply from a message to you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So that what wrong, what's right (if any) what to change! Any criticism is welcomed, thank you in advance you crazy bunch "
No profile picture.
No pics to gather any interest whatsoever.
Then a profile that says we need to put the effort in and prove we’re genuine without giving us reason to.
There’s thousands of male profiles with lovely pics to ogle and interesting text to grab our attention. Yours simply doesn’t. |
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A waste of 30 seconds. Good luck though  |
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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago
Staffordshire Moorlands |
Unfortunately, as a single guy, your profile won’t work. There are so many single guys out there who would be chosen over you because of their profiles and pics. Sorry |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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This has been a good read. Thank you! Very honest I like it |
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Good to see that you have taken (some) of the points in board.
However, you still have no visible photos...
This and the fact you feel the need to mention you're in the military, means I would pass you by.
If fact, the lack of photos will be a big negative for many.
Nita |
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"What is CBT?"
Cognitive Behavioural Therapy.....but surely not lol |
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"What is CBT?
Cognitive Behavioural Therapy.....but surely not lol"
Scary! |
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"A waste of 30 seconds. Good luck though "
You’re quick..took me 45seconds  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So that what wrong, what's right (if any) what to change! Any criticism is welcomed, thank you in advance you crazy bunch "
"silly ol' sodd"? turn off right there!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Honestly thank you! All criticism welcome and I'm taking it on board  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I feel to need to mention as a lot of people I've come across seem to pass because of the job. So with it there it just makes it easier. It's gone now though.. photos will probably not change though |
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The focus is on what you enjoy, not what you would bring to a meet. It’s also very fet oriented & less sex oriented ... if that is your thing, you might be better on the other well known fetish website than on here. If fet is your main focus, there’s a BDSM thread in the forums, so maybe hop on there & start chatting with people.
If you’re looking for swinging play, maybe make your profile less fet & more about what you bring to a meet, what a girl gets out of meeting with you.
And photos ... chest, torso, bum, out of focus shower shot - something to make you visible without showing your face or anything to reveal your identity
Hope that helps OP |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"The focus is on what you enjoy, not what you would bring to a meet. It’s also very fet oriented & less sex oriented ... if that is your thing, you might be better on the other well known fetish website than on here. If fet is your main focus, there’s a BDSM thread in the forums, so maybe hop on there & start chatting with people.
If you’re looking for swinging play, maybe make your profile less fet & more about what you bring to a meet, what a girl gets out of meeting with you.
And photos ... chest, torso, bum, out of focus shower shot - something to make you visible without showing your face or anything to reveal your identity
Hope that helps OP "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The focus is on what you enjoy, not what you would bring to a meet. It’s also very fet oriented & less sex oriented ... if that is your thing, you might be better on the other well known fetish website than on here. If fet is your main focus, there’s a BDSM thread in the forums, so maybe hop on there & start chatting with people.
If you’re looking for swinging play, maybe make your profile less fet & more about what you bring to a meet, what a girl gets out of meeting with you.
And photos ... chest, torso, bum, out of focus shower shot - something to make you visible without showing your face or anything to reveal your identity
Hope that helps OP "
Best one so far! Completely understood this and it was kind. Thank you will definitely be taking these points on board, I see what you mean with the fet. Thank you much appreciated |
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Your profile tells me everything I need to know. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank you topsy |
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too boring and wordy but not saying much x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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" too boring and wordy but not saying much x"
Yours was very very wordy. Said to much x |
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" too boring and wordy but not saying much x
Yours was very very wordy. Said to much x "
She did not ask for a profile critique, what you just did is against forum rules. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" too boring and wordy but not saying much x
Yours was very very wordy. Said to much x "
how rude! your profile, since you ask, still says not much of any relevance except your long tick list..the first part hasn't really got any content, and your decision not to show any pics will make a big difference. |
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Is the gagging a result of the force oral? |
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