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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I had an old profile on here and would chat with a couple of new women most days.
My new profile isn't having the same response, but I don't know what I did differently. Anyone so kind as to give me some feedback?!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had an old profile on here and would chat with a couple of new women most days.
My new profile isn't having the same response, but I don't know what I did differently. Anyone so kind as to give me some feedback?!
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your profile says nothing and your one and only pic is honest  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hello, here’s my feedback - which is simply my opinion and can obviously be taken or left!
The username doesn’t really make me want to engage with you, and puts me off.
Nothing written on the profile but expecting me to do the work of coming to find out, smacks of lazy to me, which puts me off.
Only one visibly public pic puts me off.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Right...thanks for the feedback!
Will lose my ID-badge photo
Will actually write a profile
Will uodate my username (can you do this?!).
Thanks all  x"
you can change username, yes. Good luck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe people who leave and return have things too hide and people are put off by it .Hide profile is better than deleting .Then got nothing to hide and shows your more genuine .
I'm new too fab i would be put off someone if they did this . |
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"Maybe people who leave and return have things too hide and people are put off by it .Hide profile is better than deleting .Then got nothing to hide and shows your more genuine .
I'm new too fab i would be put off someone if they did this ."
How would you know if they had? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe people who leave and return have things too hide and people are put off by it .Hide profile is better than deleting .Then got nothing to hide and shows your more genuine .
I'm new too fab i would be put off someone if they did this ."
we are all real people not sure what that means |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe people who leave and return have things too hide and people are put off by it .Hide profile is better than deleting .Then got nothing to hide and shows your more genuine .
I'm new too fab i would be put off someone if they did this .
How would you know if they had? "
Using same pictures maybe . |
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"Maybe people who leave and return have things too hide and people are put off by it .Hide profile is better than deleting .Then got nothing to hide and shows your more genuine .
I'm new too fab i would be put off someone if they did this .
How would you know if they had?
Using same pictures maybe ."
You'd have to have seen all 45000 profiles to know though wouldn't you? Slightly impractical? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe people who leave and return have things too hide and people are put off by it .Hide profile is better than deleting .Then got nothing to hide and shows your more genuine .
I'm new too fab i would be put off someone if they did this .
How would you know if they had?
Using same pictures maybe ."
people leave because they find a partner they are happy with and come back when it ends |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe people who leave and return have things too hide and people are put off by it .Hide profile is better than deleting .Then got nothing to hide and shows your more genuine .
I'm new too fab i would be put off someone if they did this .
How would you know if they had?
Using same pictures maybe .
You'd have to have seen all 45000 profiles to know though wouldn't you? Slightly impractical? "
I have looked at local updates to me in 3 weeks and have noticed men leave and return following weekend with same pics .  |
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Hello Fapper,
You advertise yourself as an 'Educated Professional' ........
I would contact you if I wanted to know a 'word definition, which knife and fork to use when dining with the queen or if I wanted to see your school badge and pronounce hyperbole correctly.
You say 'Come and find out?' Fab is a big enough gamble without those kind of cliched games. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hello Fapper,
You advertise yourself as an 'Educated Professional' ........
I would contact you if I wanted to know a 'word definition, which knife and fork to use when dining with the queen or if I wanted to see your school badge and pronounce hyperbole correctly.
You say 'Come and find out?' Fab is a big enough gamble without those kind of cliched games."
so you're saying women are allowed to be lazy ? What's difference between a lazy woman and a lazy man ? Not a lot tits and cock is all |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hello Fapper,
You advertise yourself as an 'Educated Professional' ........
I would contact you if I wanted to know a 'word definition, which knife and fork to use when dining with the queen or if I wanted to see your school badge and pronounce hyperbole correctly.
You say 'Come and find out?' Fab is a big enough gamble without those kind of cliched games.so you're saying women are allowed to be lazy ? What's difference between a lazy woman and a lazy man ? Not a lot tits and cock is all "
The men will come and find out. Lazy women won't be on the forums asking why they can't get meets. |
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"Hello Fapper,
You advertise yourself as an 'Educated Professional' ........
I would contact you if I wanted to know a 'word definition, which knife and fork to use when dining with the queen or if I wanted to see your school badge and pronounce hyperbole correctly.
You say 'Come and find out?' Fab is a big enough gamble without those kind of cliched games.so you're saying women are allowed to be lazy ? What's difference between a lazy woman and a lazy man ? Not a lot tits and cock is all "
I sometimes wonder if you can read.
Where have I said anything about 1. WOMEN 2. LAZINESS.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hello Fapper,
You advertise yourself as an 'Educated Professional' ........
I would contact you if I wanted to know a 'word definition, which knife and fork to use when dining with the queen or if I wanted to see your school badge and pronounce hyperbole correctly.
You say 'Come and find out?' Fab is a big enough gamble without those kind of cliched games.so you're saying women are allowed to be lazy ? What's difference between a lazy woman and a lazy man ? Not a lot tits and cock is all
The men will come and find out. Lazy women won't be on the forums asking why they can't get meets. "
but in this day and age of equality what's wrong with the woman asking the question? I appreciate his profile was non existent and that he looked like Donald Trumps aide but its not unfair to suggest that a woman could approach a man if they find him attractive,he had an honest profile pic I thought not everyone's taste but I bet would be up someone's avenue |
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"Hello Fapper,
You advertise yourself as an 'Educated Professional' ........
I would contact you if I wanted to know a 'word definition, which knife and fork to use when dining with the queen or if I wanted to see your school badge and pronounce hyperbole correctly.
You say 'Come and find out?' Fab is a big enough gamble without those kind of cliched games.so you're saying women are allowed to be lazy ? What's difference between a lazy woman and a lazy man ? Not a lot tits and cock is all
The men will come and find out. Lazy women won't be on the forums asking why they can't get meets. "
Fair play to him, his profile has far more information than most of the women on here. Forum users broadly excepted |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Professional is one of the words that annoy people. It means nothing.
You could be a professional clown.
I'm a professional lazy woman."
I'm studying to become a yes/no game professional. I'm still learning  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hello Fapper,
You advertise yourself as an 'Educated Professional' ........
I would contact you if I wanted to know a 'word definition, which knife and fork to use when dining with the queen or if I wanted to see your school badge and pronounce hyperbole correctly.
You say 'Come and find out?' Fab is a big enough gamble without those kind of cliched games.so you're saying women are allowed to be lazy ? What's difference between a lazy woman and a lazy man ? Not a lot tits and cock is all
The men will come and find out. Lazy women won't be on the forums asking why they can't get meets. but in this day and age of equality what's wrong with the woman asking the question? I appreciate his profile was non existent and that he looked like Donald Trumps aide but its not unfair to suggest that a woman could approach a man if they find him attractive,he had an honest profile pic I thought not everyone's taste but I bet would be up someone's avenue "
Its not a problem. A woman can ask. But she probably won't when there are so many others offering the info to her without her asking. |
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"Professional is one of the words that annoy people. It means nothing.
You could be a professional clown.
I'm a professional lazy woman.
I'm studying to become a yes/no game professional. I'm still learning "
Still learning ?? You are not even on the first soddin' rung ! |
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"I had an old profile on here and would chat with a couple of new women most days.
My new profile isn't having the same response, but I don't know what I did differently. Anyone so kind as to give me some feedback?!
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You may want to change your profile image. All it takes is one local reporter to clock who you are and you may have a scandal on your hands. |
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OP I would definitely suggest using a picture that hasn't been used elsewhere on the internet.
People can and will use reverse image search.
I did with yours and was able to find lots of personal information from a Twitter account with the same avatar.
This included details of work as a local councillor and children's names.
If the picture was "borrowed" there isn't much to be worried about, apart from people on here finding out and giving you a hard time. If the picture really is you then you are putting your family at risk by having something so easily traceable on your profile. There are some lovely people on fab but also some thoroughly unpleasant people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hello, here’s my feedback - which is simply my opinion and can obviously be taken or left!
The username doesn’t really make me want to engage with you, and puts me off.
Nothing written on the profile but expecting me to do the work of coming to find out, smacks of lazy to me, which puts me off.
Only one visibly public pic puts me off.
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Fantastic advice...although i only have one public picture purely because of my tattoos that are very recogniseable to friends and family...  |
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"OP I would definitely suggest using a picture that hasn't been used elsewhere on the internet.
People can and will use reverse image search.
I did with yours and was able to find lots of personal information from a Twitter account with the same avatar.
This included details of work as a local councillor and children's names.
If the picture was "borrowed" there isn't much to be worried about, apart from people on here finding out and giving you a hard time. If the picture really is you then you are putting your family at risk by having something so easily traceable on your profile. There are some lovely people on fab but also some thoroughly unpleasant people."
Oops!
Sound advice |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OP I would definitely suggest using a picture that hasn't been used elsewhere on the internet.
People can and will use reverse image search.
I did with yours and was able to find lots of personal information from a Twitter account with the same avatar.
This included details of work as a local councillor and children's names.
If the picture was "borrowed" there isn't much to be worried about, apart from people on here finding out and giving you a hard time. If the picture really is you then you are putting your family at risk by having something so easily traceable on your profile. There are some lovely people on fab but also some thoroughly unpleasant people."
On one hand people who post fake pics from porn sites amuse me no end, I guess they're not familiar with reverse searching. On the other I really worry for people like OP who it would seem don't realise how easy it is to join the dots online. OP if it is really you in the pic you'd be wise to change it pronto, if not still change it before you give people the wrong impression about someone else. |
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"OP I would definitely suggest using a picture that hasn't been used elsewhere on the internet.
People can and will use reverse image search.
I did with yours and was able to find lots of personal information from a Twitter account with the same avatar.
This included details of work as a local councillor and children's names.
If the picture was "borrowed" there isn't much to be worried about, apart from people on here finding out and giving you a hard time. If the picture really is you then you are putting your family at risk by having something so easily traceable on your profile. There are some lovely people on fab but also some thoroughly unpleasant people.
On one hand people who post fake pics from porn sites amuse me no end, I guess they're not familiar with reverse searching. On the other I really worry for people like OP who it would seem don't realise how easy it is to join the dots online. OP if it is really you in the pic you'd be wise to change it pronto, if not still change it before you give people the wrong impression about someone else. "
Interesting the OP hasn't returned to this thread since the picture was questioned  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your profile pic makes you look older than your age, and like your going for a job interview.
You have no public pics, and what you've written on your profile is boring. |
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"OP I would definitely suggest using a picture that hasn't been used elsewhere on the internet.
People can and will use reverse image search.
I did with yours and was able to find lots of personal information from a Twitter account with the same avatar.
This included details of work as a local councillor and children's names.
If the picture was "borrowed" there isn't much to be worried about, apart from people on here finding out and giving you a hard time. If the picture really is you then you are putting your family at risk by having something so easily traceable on your profile. There are some lovely people on fab but also some thoroughly unpleasant people.
On one hand people who post fake pics from porn sites amuse me no end, I guess they're not familiar with reverse searching. On the other I really worry for people like OP who it would seem don't realise how easy it is to join the dots online. OP if it is really you in the pic you'd be wise to change it pronto, if not still change it before you give people the wrong impression about someone else.
Interesting the OP hasn't returned to this thread since the picture was questioned "
Intresting that someone with such a high profile role would use that photo on here.
My eldest son is a politician, they have a huge list of social media guidelines they have to read & follow.
I'm actually suspicious that this is a fake account, as I cannot believe he'd actually be so stupid to leave himself vulnerable... May sound far fetched but it could actually be part of a 'dirty tricks' campaign. I've seen it happen before |
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"If it is a fake profile I think they would have made the content far more scandalous. "
If the intent is to cause trouble, they wouldn't need to.
Just 1 photo & a crap profile, on a site like this is enough to cause issues, for a public figure. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Out of interest if any of your lovely people have a spare minute or two.
Could I have a couple of pointers for my profile too
I know it's not ideal working in one county and living in another so might hinder things, but curious if there is anything else glaringly obvious to an outsider
Many thanks in advance xx  |
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"Out of interest if any of your lovely people have a spare minute or two.
Could I have a couple of pointers for my profile too
I know it's not ideal working in one county and living in another so might hinder things, but curious if there is anything else glaringly obvious to an outsider
Many thanks in advance xx "
I’d say your profile is fine, just need to be patient & maybe get to some socials or a club x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Out of interest if any of your lovely people have a spare minute or two.
Could I have a couple of pointers for my profile too
I know it's not ideal working in one county and living in another so might hinder things, but curious if there is anything else glaringly obvious to an outsider
Many thanks in advance xx
I’d say your profile is fine, just need to be patient & maybe get to some socials or a club x"
Perfect thank you Mortica.
Clubs are on the new years to do list!!
How approachable are they as a single male? Or would it be advisable to take a "playmate"
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"Out of interest if any of your lovely people have a spare minute or two.
Could I have a couple of pointers for my profile too
I know it's not ideal working in one county and living in another so might hinder things, but curious if there is anything else glaringly obvious to an outsider
Many thanks in advance xx
I’d say your profile is fine, just need to be patient & maybe get to some socials or a club x
Perfect thank you Mortica.
Clubs are on the new years to do list!!
How approachable are they as a single male? Or would it be advisable to take a "playmate"
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Go as a single male. Clubs don’t like you ‘teaming up’ to get in for cheaper! Plus, if you couple up before hand, you can end up playing with the person you went with instead of potentially people you meet there!
Research the clubs in the reviews section, look at their events & find one that you think suits you. Check out their website too for single guy etiquette etc
You have Xtasia & Chams in the midlands, both have great reputations - or if you want to travel further afield, you could always come & try out Townhouse. Plenty of events there for non member single guys |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Out of interest if any of your lovely people have a spare minute or two.
Could I have a couple of pointers for my profile too
I know it's not ideal working in one county and living in another so might hinder things, but curious if there is anything else glaringly obvious to an outsider
Many thanks in advance xx
I’d say your profile is fine, just need to be patient & maybe get to some socials or a club x
Perfect thank you Mortica.
Clubs are on the new years to do list!!
How approachable are they as a single male? Or would it be advisable to take a "playmate"
Go as a single male. Clubs don’t like you ‘teaming up’ to get in for cheaper! Plus, if you couple up before hand, you can end up playing with the person you went with instead of potentially people you meet there!
Research the clubs in the reviews section, look at their events & find one that you think suits you. Check out their website too for single guy etiquette etc
You have Xtasia & Chams in the midlands, both have great reputations - or if you want to travel further afield, you could always come & try out Townhouse. Plenty of events there for non member single guys "
Perfect thanks again Morticia X
Time to plan my first visit I guess lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Singlepringle you now have a face pic as a profile pic so you need to remove the text about needing to be your friend to see your face. "
Lol thanks Sally ?? |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"Maybe people who leave and return have things too hide and people are put off by it .Hide profile is better than deleting .Then got nothing to hide and shows your more genuine .
I'm new too fab i would be put off someone if they did this .
How would you know if they had?
Using same pictures maybe .
You'd have to have seen all 45000 profiles to know though wouldn't you? Slightly impractical?
I have looked at local updates to me in 3 weeks and have noticed men leave and return following weekend with same pics . "
Yes, the weekend wankers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Maybe people who leave and return have things too hide and people are put off by it .Hide profile is better than deleting .Then got nothing to hide and shows your more genuine .
I'm new too fab i would be put off someone if they did this .
How would you know if they had?
Using same pictures maybe .
You'd have to have seen all 45000 profiles to know though wouldn't you? Slightly impractical?
I have looked at local updates to me in 3 weeks and have noticed men leave and return following weekend with same pics .
Yes, the weekend wankers. "
Wow, how does that even work lol.
There's a lot of leg work at the best of times, let alone just popping on for the weekend |
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