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"Whats your thoughts on this? Would you do it? Do you have a limit? Im weary about meeting and sleeping with someone thats been fucked like by 100 guys
Only 100? 
Haha figuratively speaking"
So how do you know that someone who doesn't display their veri summary hasn't fucked half the site? And half of the North west vanilla population? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Whats your thoughts on this? Would you do it? Do you have a limit? Im weary about meeting and sleeping with someone thats been fucked like by 100 guys
Only 100?
Haha figuratively speaking
So how do you know that someone who doesn't display their veri summary hasn't fucked half the site? And half of the North west vanilla population?"
I knew a woman had over 500 and only published 1 veri so you would never know unless they were honest and told you. |
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over a year ago
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"Whats your thoughts on this? Would you do it? Do you have a limit? Im weary about meeting and sleeping with someone thats been fucked like by 100 guys
Only 100?
Haha figuratively speaking
So how do you know that someone who doesn't display their veri summary hasn't fucked half the site? And half of the North west vanilla population?"
You don't....and if they don't want to reveal then maybe avoid those who don't. There are many who now hid their summary now too because of this very reason. There's a couple ladies here who delete after 4 to 6 months and start fresh after clocking up again. |
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By *candalaria OP Man
over a year ago
Greater Manchester |
"Whats your thoughts on this? Would you do it? Do you have a limit? Im weary about meeting and sleeping with someone thats been fucked like by 100 guys
Only 100?
Haha figuratively speaking
So how do you know that someone who doesn't display their veri summary hasn't fucked half the site? And half of the North west vanilla population?
You don't....and if they don't want to reveal then maybe avoid those who don't. There are many who now hid their summary now too because of this very reason. There's a couple ladies here who delete after 4 to 6 months and start fresh after clocking up again."
Wow no way! |
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My present profile is 13 months old
My previous was over 5 years old
There is no telling how long a person has been on this site
Yes I play
Yes I get social verifications too
Yes I use to be a party organiser
Not everyone verifies me
If I'm judged on quantity then they should at least double it
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By *egin551Couple
over a year ago
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"How many women have you slept with? "
Not that many by the looks of things.
Doesn’t stop these men from messaging us and and asking for a meet even though their profile states the are picky in who they meet.
They must not read the veris.
Shame that people judge you on how many meets you have.
This is a swinging / sex site.
Find a dating site if you judge people like that.
Happy fabbing/Christmas
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By *egin551Couple
over a year ago
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My present profile is 13 months old
My previous was over 5 years old
There is no telling how long a person has been on this site
Yes I play
Yes I get social verifications too
Yes I use to be a party organiser
Not everyone verifies me
If I'm judged on quantity then they should at least double it
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dislike the idea of being judged on the number of men Ive met on a swinging site. I display all my veris to be open and honest, but I understand why some might delete them or hide them if others are judgemental. On Fab we should all be free to be ourselves and do what we want without worrying what others might think. Shame it doesnt always work like that  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Read the Veris then the veris of the posters ,to see if they bb or have been with folk who bb, then decide if you still want to meet
This is awesome advice. Thanks"
Then check if any have children because they will have had sex bareback too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Also check how long they’ve been on Fab, same profiles I’ve looked at had lots of veries but spread out over many years and I could see that there were many weeks between each meets, on the flip of this you may see someone with 10 veries that’s only been a member for a month and been seeing a different guy every other day. So basically don’t judge by the number. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I apologize if my post is causing any offense to anyone. I just wanted peoples thoughts and views. I am not judging anyone based on their veris. Again, accept my apolgies x"
You must be otherwise you wouldn't be wary of meeting them.
As others have said the number alone doesn't tell you much. You can't know for sure when anyone joined the site once they've been on for over a year so that hundred could be 10 a year whereas someone else could have far less but work out at multiple meets a month. The one with less might have loads of meets who have never verified them. The person with one may not need many fab meets because they're finding new flings on Pof every week. You also probably won't know which were just social rather than play. We've got loads from people we've just chatted to in clubs. And even if they are play meets who are they meeting and are they playing bareback , do they regularly get tested? |
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We have a few hundred verifications but the majority are from socials we organise (can end up with 20-30 verifications in one day), so saying that a person has too many verifications means nothing. We only show some as they are only there to show people that we are genuine, that we do socials, parties and that we sometimes do play.
A verification is only a guide, not the be all and end all. |
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Practice makes perfect I had sex before I joined Fab y’know, and don’t have veris from them. Or a lot of people I’ve met in clubs! You wouldn’t know how many people I’ve fucked unless I tell you (which I won’t).
And I’m not that active a swinger, if someone has been doing it 10 years, going to clubs every weekend, suddenly 100 seems very low! |
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Isn’t this a swinging site. Socialise. Fratanise and meet for full on adult pleasure. Veris for us make a profile. Without them. Your just a man with a woman’s profile. Well that’s what 8 years on here tells us  |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
Wherever the party is! |
"Whats your thoughts on this? Would you do it? Do you have a limit? Im weary about meeting and sleeping with someone thats been fucked like by 100 guys"
Isn't it a SHAME that some people are such SLUTS... |
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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago
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"Whats your thoughts on this? Would you do it? Do you have a limit? Im weary about meeting and sleeping with someone thats been fucked like by 100 guys
Isn't it a SHAME that some people are such SLUTS... "
Isn't it a shame that some people use such traditionally derogatory terms for people... |
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"Whats your thoughts on this? Would you do it? Do you have a limit? Im weary about meeting and sleeping with someone thats been fucked like by 100 guys"
Just bring your herpes, gonorrhea, syphilis tester....  |
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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago
North Oxfordshire |
"Whats your thoughts on this? Would you do it? Do you have a limit? Im weary about meeting and sleeping with someone thats been fucked like by 100 guys Just bring your herpes, gonorrhea, syphilis tester.... "
Nah, that's what the STI clinic is for. |
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"Whats your thoughts on this? Would you do it? Do you have a limit? Im weary about meeting and sleeping with someone thats been fucked like by 100 guys"
It’s a good job plenty will then |
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"Whats your thoughts on this? Would you do it? Do you have a limit? Im weary about meeting and sleeping with someone thats been fucked like by 100 guys
Only 100?
Haha figuratively speaking
So how do you know that someone who doesn't display their veri summary hasn't fucked half the site? And half of the North west vanilla population?
You don't....and if they don't want to reveal then maybe avoid those who don't. There are many who now hid their summary now too because of this very reason. There's a couple ladies here who delete after 4 to 6 months and start fresh after clocking up again.
Wow no way! "
Do you expect a virgin ? |
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"Whats your thoughts on this? Would you do it? Do you have a limit? Im weary about meeting and sleeping with someone thats been fucked like by 100 guys"
Fair point, and that's one of our red lines. |
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"We have over 100 but most are socials from parties. I'm more worried by those that don't display.
Why?"
Because it means they are not genuine. Veris tell the story of that person or persons.
This is called fabswingers. However too many people don’t actuslly swing !! |
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The number of veris can signify different things.
The person has sex a lot, and why the hell not? Who is anyone to decide what's too much?
The person has been on here for the duration of the site and, as an annual count, it's not really that many.
The person does a lot of socials.
The other thing to consider OP is that there might be people shagging a different person every night but no veris.
The imbalance of men wanting to have a lot of sex vs women needing to be clean and pure still haunts us |
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By *lan157Man
over a year ago
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it's called swinging ! Some women have had lots of activity at clubs and not seek verifications. It's not necessary. I think maybe some men feel inhibited by an experienced female swinger and seek out the inexperienced instead. |
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"We have over 100 but most are socials from parties. I'm more worried by those that don't display.
Why?
Because it means they are not genuine. Veris tell the story of that person or persons.
This is called fabswingers. However too many people don’t actuslly swing !!"
I'm not genuine then.
What does it mean to "swing"? |
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"We have over 100 but most are socials from parties. I'm more worried by those that don't display.
Why?
Because it means they are not genuine. Veris tell the story of that person or persons.
This is called fabswingers. However too many people don’t actuslly swing !!
I'm not genuine then.
What does it mean to "swing"?"
Google it.
I guarantee it doesn’t say chat on forums  |
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"Whats your thoughts on this? Would you do it? Do you have a limit? Im weary about meeting and sleeping with someone thats been fucked like by 100 guys"
I have lots of verifications but most are from socially meeting at clubs or my party nights and have been on here nearly 5 years but obv would’nt expect anyone to read them all to check lol
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"Whats your thoughts on this? Would you do it? Do you have a limit? Im weary about meeting and sleeping with someone thats been fucked like by 100 guys"
Hey good morning!! Read the posts with interest n some annoy the knickers off me!!! Why does the number of veris affect whether you want to meet someone or not.....oh hold on I DONT meet people with no veris unless in a club or party situation!! Are you saying that too many veris is wrong???! How many in you opinion, is too many veris?? No don't answer that I am really not that interested in your opinion!
I have been on the site for a few years - with the same profile, wondering if I would be more desirable if I deleted my account every 3 months and my veri count went back to zero??! Oh I also had a couples profile with 100 veris plus on it......but unless I tell a future meet that has now vanished into the fab world in the sky!!!
This is a swinging site!!
It might come as a shock but I like sex......I meet the same guys regularly and always like to make new friends!
The OP apparently messaged me 2 months ago.....I no idea if I even read it I can only presume it was to tell me he wouldn't meet me with me having too many veris!!
Anyway......I am off to earn a new veri or two  that's a joke by the way, like some of these posts on this swinging site.... I am just off to make a brew!!!
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"Whats your thoughts on this? Would you do it? Do you have a limit? Im weary about meeting and sleeping with someone thats been fucked like by 100 guys"
a straight guy that had been fucked by a hundred guys yes I certainly would be worried |
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"Whats your thoughts on this? Would you do it? Do you have a limit? Im weary about meeting and sleeping with someone thats been fucked like by 100 guys
Hey good morning!! Read the posts with interest n some annoy the knickers off me!!! Why does the number of veris affect whether you want to meet someone or not.....oh hold on I DONT meet people with no veris unless in a club or party situation!! Are you saying that too many veris is wrong???! How many in you opinion, is too many veris?? No don't answer that I am really not that interested in your opinion!
I have been on the site for a few years - with the same profile, wondering if I would be more desirable if I deleted my account every 3 months and my veri count went back to zero??! Oh I also had a couples profile with 100 veris plus on it......but unless I tell a future meet that has now vanished into the fab world in the sky!!!
This is a swinging site!!
It might come as a shock but I like sex......I meet the same guys regularly and always like to make new friends!
The OP apparently messaged me 2 months ago.....I no idea if I even read it I can only presume it was to tell me he wouldn't meet me with me having too many veris!!
Anyway......I am off to earn a new veri or two that's a joke by the way, like some of these posts on this swinging site.... I am just off to make a brew!!!
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Haha he winked me too even with all my veris |
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"Whats your thoughts on this? Would you do it? Do you have a limit? Im weary about meeting and sleeping with someone thats been fucked like by 100 guys"
Yes how terrible that a woman should enjoy sex. You do realise that 100 meets could be 10 a year.
Less than 1 a month. On a bi ladies night I can meet more than 10 people in a night.
Its a very poor measure really and do you know when ever we've been to a swinging club o
no one ever asks how many have you meet?
Either way put it on your profile and it will keep all the hedonistic ladies away. |
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We have said this before and been attacked for it.
For us a verification should be another person verifying that you are who you say you are in your profile.
Don't see the need for lots of them and especially not graphic ones.
Instant no thank you from us, but each to their own.
Will no doubt get the list of "well what if you went to a social where lots verified you" etc now.
Just our preference. |
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"We have said this before and been attacked for it.
For us a verification should be another person verifying that you are who you say you are in your profile.
Don't see the need for lots of them and especially not graphic ones.
Instant no thank you from us, but each to their own.
Will no doubt get the list of "well what if you went to a social where lots verified you" etc now.
Just our preference."
I agree for me from a woman's perspective a veri is some kind of indication that the guy isn't a nut job ,repeat veris going into graphic detail from the same person what's that about!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Read the Veris then the veris of the posters ,to see if they bb or have been with folk who bb, then decide if you still want to meet
This is awesome advice. Thanks"
Unless they hide them...then you'll not know. But really... Protect yourself don't rely on this idea about bb. There's alot more on here dok bb than they would admit, whose to say that all those who practice safe sex on here dont when in the vanilla world? So just keep itself safe however that means to you. |
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"Read the Veris then the veris of the posters ,to see if they bb or have been with folk who bb, then decide if you still want to meet
This is awesome advice. Thanks
Unless they hide them...then you'll not know. But really... Protect yourself don't rely on this idea about bb. There's alot more on here dok bb than they would admit, whose to say that all those who practice safe sex on here dont when in the vanilla world? So just keep itself safe however that means to you."
too many imponderables in this life you can never be safe every conquest is a risk .......lets worry about it and start a disaster fund |
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"We have said this before and been attacked for it.
For us a verification should be another person verifying that you are who you say you are in your profile.
Don't see the need for lots of them and especially not graphic ones.
Instant no thank you from us, but each to their own.
Will no doubt get the list of "well what if you went to a social where lots verified you" etc now.
Just our preference."
I agree
I’m happy with ‘yes they are real and Hot’ rather than graphic .. a little teasing titilation is sexier but each to their own |
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"We have said this before and been attacked for it.
For us a verification should be another person verifying that you are who you say you are in your profile.
Don't see the need for lots of them and especially not graphic ones.
Instant no thank you from us, but each to their own.
Will no doubt get the list of "well what if you went to a social where lots verified you" etc now.
Just our preference.
I agree
I’m happy with ‘yes they are real and Hot’ rather than graphic .. a little teasing titilation is sexier but each to their own "
but are you a natural pink head |
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"We have said this before and been attacked for it.
For us a verification should be another person verifying that you are who you say you are in your profile.
Don't see the need for lots of them and especially not graphic ones.
Instant no thank you from us, but each to their own.
Will no doubt get the list of "well what if you went to a social where lots verified you" etc now.
Just our preference.
I agree
I’m happy with ‘yes they are real and Hot’ rather than graphic .. a little teasing titilation is sexier but each to their own but are you a natural pink head "
Of course |
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"We have said this before and been attacked for it.
For us a verification should be another person verifying that you are who you say you are in your profile.
Don't see the need for lots of them and especially not graphic ones.
Instant no thank you from us, but each to their own.
Will no doubt get the list of "well what if you went to a social where lots verified you" etc now.
Just our preference."
I agree! |
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"We have said this before and been attacked for it.
For us a verification should be another person verifying that you are who you say you are in your profile.
Don't see the need for lots of them and especially not graphic ones.
Instant no thank you from us, but each to their own.
Will no doubt get the list of "well what if you went to a social where lots verified you" etc now.
Just our preference.
I agree
I’m happy with ‘yes they are real and Hot’ rather than graphic .. a little teasing titilation is sexier but each to their own but are you a natural pink head
Of course "
hey it suits you you look cute |
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"Read the Veris then the veris of the posters ,to see if they bb or have been with folk who bb, then decide if you still want to meet
This is awesome advice. Thanks
Unless they hide them...then you'll not know. But really... Protect yourself don't rely on this idea about bb. There's alot more on here dok bb than they would admit, whose to say that all those who practice safe sex on here dont when in the vanilla world? So just keep itself safe however that means to you."
It's really stupid to 'trust' the verification trail. Fab is one tiny piece of life. Verifications prove diddly squat. |
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It's really stupid to 'trust' the verification trail. Fab is one tiny piece of life. Verifications prove diddly squat. "
Well, they aren't infallible, I agree. But they prove some useful things. They would show if someone is a serial bb and didn't hide them, and a good veri chain, to other well verified people proves a lot. They are one more handy tool, amongst others, that you can use. |
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It's really stupid to 'trust' the verification trail. Fab is one tiny piece of life. Verifications prove diddly squat.
Well, they aren't infallible, I agree. But they prove some useful things. They would show if someone is a serial bb and didn't hide them, and a good veri chain, to other well verified people proves a lot. They are one more handy tool, amongst others, that you can use."
Ok you make a good point.
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It's really stupid to 'trust' the verification trail. Fab is one tiny piece of life. Verifications prove diddly squat.
Well, they aren't infallible, I agree. But they prove some useful things. They would show if someone is a serial bb and didn't hide them, and a good veri chain, to other well verified people proves a lot. They are one more handy tool, amongst others, that you can use.
Ok you make a good point.
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Sorry, I've had to report to the mods. Forum rules clearly state posters must squabble and nit pick. Having sensible conversations and agreeing just isn't on  |
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It's really stupid to 'trust' the verification trail. Fab is one tiny piece of life. Verifications prove diddly squat.
Well, they aren't infallible, I agree. But they prove some useful things. They would show if someone is a serial bb and didn't hide them, and a good veri chain, to other well verified people proves a lot. They are one more handy tool, amongst others, that you can use.
Ok you make a good point.
Sorry, I've had to report to the mods. Forum rules clearly state posters must squabble and nit pick. Having sensible conversations and agreeing just isn't on "
I've reported you too for saying sorry.
I really need to stop admitting when I'm wrong.  *squabble* |
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"10 guys a year for 10 years isn't a lot.
As has been said, if you don't like it, move on to another profile.
MrB"
I've been told I've too many quite a few times...even by some ladies who have clearly more... It is simply because they like the idea of having a collection of newbies. Some don't like some of my pics that show a lady in it...do you think i just okay with myself I've said lol. There maybe many reasons why some don't like it and yep...move on. There are plenty on here who will like you. For someit takes longer to find them than others. |
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