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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm a dude looking for ladies (I hope you can tell lol) just wanted to see how you ladies prefer it... social meets for the first time or straight to it? Your thoughts would help me out x |
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"I'm a dude looking for ladies (I hope you can tell lol) just wanted to see how you ladies prefer it... social meets for the first time or straight to it? Your thoughts would help me out x "
Really? The answer is some want socials, some won't. Some won't care and what one women will do isn't what others will do and even then it is different with each person they meet.
Women aren't a hive. |
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"I'm a dude looking for ladies (I hope you can tell lol) just wanted to see how you ladies prefer it... social meets for the first time or straight to it? Your thoughts would help me out x "
We’ve done both. It all depends on the guy and they come across.
A very well verified profile we’ve met straight for fun. A not meet verified profile, social first always.
Solo meets for Mrs, always social these days. Too risky. |
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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago
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"Yeah each to there own I guess just don't want to rub some ladies up the wrong way
Why don't you give them the choice then ?
The choice is not his to give. "
He doesn't want to rub ladies up the wrong way by suggesting straight to sex. If he asks the ladies preference to a social first or play meet he then won't offend. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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He doesn't want to rub ladies up the wrong way by suggesting straight to sex. If he asks the ladies preference to a social first or play meet he then won't offend. "
Lol thank you very much for clarifying I don't know what was so hard to understand about my message tbh x |
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"Yeah each to there own I guess just don't want to rub some ladies up the wrong way "
Don't try to appeal to everyone or you'll lose what you want.
How do you prefer to do things? Do you like a social first or don't you mind?
If you don't mind be guided by what your potential meets want if you prefer to get straight down to it then women who want a social first aren't for you. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Honestly I don't mind, I do prefer some sort of connection so I guess the social element would probably help that, but NSA getting down to business I wouldn't turn a blind eye to that either... |
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"Honestly I don't mind, I do prefer some sort of connection so I guess the social element would probably help that, but NSA getting down to business I wouldn't turn a blind eye to that either... "
Then you don't have a problem! How about in your initial approach saying that you're always happy to meet socially if the lady prefers it. It's her decision then and any rubbing will hopefully be up the right way  |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"Honestly I don't mind, I do prefer some sort of connection so I guess the social element would probably help that, but NSA getting down to business I wouldn't turn a blind eye to that either...
Then you don't have a problem! How about in your initial approach saying that you're always happy to meet socially if the lady prefers it. It's her decision then and any rubbing will hopefully be up the right way "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Try going to a club, OP - you can see who you like the look of and have a social in the bar area / social area, and if the mood takes you both then the play facilities are there to be enjoyed.
And if you don't click, you are both free to go find someone that does float your boat!
Best of both worlds! |
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By *zamiWoman
over a year ago
LONDON |
"I'm a dude looking for ladies (I hope you can tell lol) just wanted to see how you ladies prefer it... social meets for the first time or straight to it? Your thoughts would help me out x
Really? The answer is some want socials, some won't. Some won't care and what one women will do isn't what others will do and even then it is different with each person they meet.
Women aren't a hive. "
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By *zamiWoman
over a year ago
LONDON |
"I'm a dude looking for ladies (I hope you can tell lol) just wanted to see how you ladies prefer it... social meets for the first time or straight to it? Your thoughts would help me out x "
All women are different |
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