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Why is it SO HARD To GAIN MEETS
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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As a single man I find that it's so hard getting meets much less gaining a woman's attention. Without them thinking, you're wasting their time. I know it's a sex fuelled site, which has potential time wasters but when you're truly being genuine, it gets dismissed.
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You're one of many genuine people looking to meet, it's hard but if you're patient and you are that person someone is looking for, you'll find them...or they'll find you.
Oh and maybe crop the bog out of your pic. (Just saying)
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
"Think when it’s very hard it skews thinking, perhaps a little relief then it is easier to put a cognitive message together.... Hmm I like "
Seriously, you come across well on here, fun and respect is often the key.
That and sexual USP. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Think when it’s very hard it skews thinking, perhaps a little relief then it is easier to put a cognitive message together.... Hmm I like
Seriously, you come across well on here, fun and respect is often the key.
That and sexual USP."
That's the thing, I make sure I always place my best foot forward with anyone I encounter.
Show & give my respect. Thats protocol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As a single man I find that it's so hard getting meets much less gaining a woman's attention. Without them thinking, you're wasting their time. I know it's a sex fuelled site, which has potential time wasters but when you're truly being genuine, it gets dismissed.
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There are so many wanks around so you will have to step up to the plate and show that you are indeed different. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It isn't that hard at all.
Putting up some decent pics and a good profile text is easy, do that and you'll be more appealing than most other men on here. Talk to women as people not objects, don't mention sex.
It's simple really. |
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"It isn't that hard at all.
Putting up some decent pics and a good profile text is easy, do that and you'll be more appealing than most other men on here. Talk to women as people not objects, don't mention sex.
It's simple really."
When are we meeting  |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
Put yourself out there. Go to clubs and socials, meet people, socialize. You'll probably gain better exposure that way. You'll get some veris and that improves your chances of meeting. Good luck. |
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"It isn't that hard at all.
Putting up some decent pics and a good profile text is easy, do that and you'll be more appealing than most other men on here. Talk to women as people not objects, don't mention sex.
It's simple really."
This is very good advice. Get the basics right and you're ahead of 90% of the guys. Chat to women as people. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It isn't that hard at all.
Putting up some decent pics and a good profile text is easy, do that and you'll be more appealing than most other men on here. Talk to women as people not objects, don't mention sex.
It's simple really."
 good advice |
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"As a single man I find that it's so hard getting meets much less gaining a woman's attention. Without them thinking, you're wasting their time. I know it's a sex fuelled site, which has potential time wasters but when you're truly being genuine, it gets dismissed.
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Never assume that just because someone has looked at your profile they want to jump into bed with you.
They could be looking for many reasons. Perhaps they are following verifications that you left/were left for you by a third party. or they could simply be looking to see who's behind a forum post. There are any number of other reasons. |
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Have you thought about the club/party scene
Some people go to meet new people and arrange private meets after meeting in the flesh,it's about the social side aswell, play if you want to
I run 'Interracial Soiree' read that profile and hotlist it if it interests you,ready for guestlist opening,its a great party very relaxed atmosphere
Personally I never meet new people anywhere but in a club/party,that's how I prefer |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"As a single man I find that it's so hard getting meets much less gaining a woman's attention. Without them thinking, you're wasting their time. I know it's a sex fuelled site, which has potential time wasters but when you're truly being genuine, it gets dismissed.
Never assume that just because someone has looked at your profile they want to jump into bed with you.
They could be looking for many reasons. Perhaps they are following verifications that you left/were left for you by a third party. or they could simply be looking to see who's behind a forum post. There are any number of other reasons. "
Never assumed nothing of that nature I asked a simple question "even telling you I don't meet your requirements 18-27 to what you're looking for" an that was from reading your profile. I have no problem with anyone viewing my page in fact I try An interact with the people. I see you try an do here (make the single guy look bad) but it won't work with me I'm sorry - my approach wasn't rude either.
Have a good one  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Have you thought about the club/party scene
Some people go to meet new people and arrange private meets after meeting in the flesh,it's about the social side aswell, play if you want to
I run 'Interracial Soiree' read that profile and hotlist it if it interests you,ready for guestlist opening,its a great party very relaxed atmosphere
Personally I never meet new people anywhere but in a club/party,that's how I prefer "
this is my next steps I'll be taking - thank you |
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You come across great here but like previous comments suggest, lose some cocky pics and replace with a sexy man, even clothed. There's far more in a man that can tantalise than his cock.
Good luck x |
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You come across great here but like previous comments suggest, lose some cocky pics and replace with a sexy man, even clothed. There's far more in a man that can tantalise than his cock.
Good luck x |
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"As a single man I find that it's so hard getting meets much less gaining a woman's attention. Without them thinking, you're wasting their time. I know it's a sex fuelled site, which has potential time wasters but when you're truly being genuine, it gets dismissed.
Never assume that just because someone has looked at your profile they want to jump into bed with you.
They could be looking for many reasons. Perhaps they are following verifications that you left/were left for you by a third party. or they could simply be looking to see who's behind a forum post. There are any number of other reasons.
Never assumed nothing of that nature I asked a simple question "even telling you I don't meet your requirements 18-27 to what you're looking for" an that was from reading your profile. I have no problem with anyone viewing my page in fact I try An interact with the people. I see you try an do here (make the single guy look bad) but it won't work with me I'm sorry - my approach wasn't rude either.
Have a good one "
You have your wires crossed. We looked at your profile to see if we could add something to this thread. Our advice was based on a common theme that we see time and time again and was intended to be helpful.
We had no idea you had looked at our profile, as you do not show up on the 'who has looked at me' page.
After posting here and a few other threads I replied to a few messages, including your polite one. In your case it was a polite decline.
At no stage have we attempted to make you or any other single guy look bad, nor have we accussed you of being rude.
Take care. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It isn't that hard at all.
Putting up some decent pics and a good profile text is easy, do that and you'll be more appealing than most other men on here. Talk to women as people not objects, don't mention sex.
It's simple really."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Be yoursel, simple really, if somebody wants to meet you weather it be social or sexual then thats up to them. Just because youre on the site like the rest of us, does not mean that everybody wants to sleep with you just becauss youre withing 10 miles of them same as the real world, if you click, you click, if you dont then you dont simple |
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Two points... you smoke, cuts out a lot of people. You say 'message me with an attached picture' women get so much mail they don't have time to go finding men. I agree with someone else your use of capitals comes across as demanding. |
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"As a single man I find that it's so hard getting meets much less gaining a woman's attention. Without them thinking, you're wasting their time. I know it's a sex fuelled site, which has potential time wasters but when you're truly being genuine, it gets dismissed.
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3 meets in 4 months
You are doing great...
Ask about the so how guys on here for years without a meet!
Patience is a virtue |
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By *kblkwteCouple
over a year ago
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Me an my man find that this happens aswell. We have had many time wasters. We are both a fun couple. An we are always up for fun but we have had so many time wasters. We do go to clubs aswell. Can any one recommend anything with out profile etc. Thank you |
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