Read a profile
Make sure you meet their requirements
Approach a message as you would a person
Be friendly
Pick up something they mentioned ( evidence you read)
Be nice not crude (unless the tone of the profile suggests they would like that kind of response)
Be a mature adult if you get deleted /no thanks
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Read a profile
Make sure you meet their requirements
Approach a message as you would a person
Be friendly
Pick up something they mentioned ( evidence you read)
Be nice not crude (unless the tone of the profile suggests they would like that kind of response)
Be a mature adult if you get deleted /no thanks
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I do try to be as polite as possible, once i get chatting im lovely. Its just the approach/opening of conversation i struggle with x
Thankyou x |
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"Struggling on meeting and sending a first message. Any advice? x"
Im in a good mood so il give you this for free...just simply try this- hi, bit of a silly question but do you know how much a polar bear weighs ? |
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"What are you sending now in a message
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Talking to a person in real life
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I usually just say heyy, introduce myself, tell them thier profile sparked my insterest so i thought id send a message. And also compliment the pics.
In real life, id introduce myself and maybe see what we had in common, try and make them laugh at least xx |
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"So why do you think it's different here than in real life !?
Strangely enough we are human beings even though we are behind s screen
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I think it may be to do with when youre reading a message, you cant really sense the tone of what is being said. Some people may get offended, simply by bad wording or misunderstanding x |
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