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Any advice for a young single guy?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Finding it kind of hard to even get a message back.

I can appreciate people's own taste and types. And also time.

Just unsure if it's me as a person or the fact that I'm not a couple

Thanks for your time

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

With the greatest respect you have three friend only pictures and your profile text screams you can't be bothered.

Adapt the profile text tell the people of fab what you like and what you want

Add some more public pictures

Just my opinion

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By *sThunderThighsWoman over a year ago

Toy Land

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

saying you cant be arsed to bother with a profile is hardly enticing..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Finding it kind of hard to even get a message back.

I can appreciate people's own taste and types. And also time.

Just unsure if it's me as a person or the fact that I'm not a couple

Thanks for your time

you're not fussy and you can't be bothered...does that apply to you sexually too because it's hardly enticing...why would anyone be bothered to respond?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Well I asked for advice and that's exactly what I got.

After having a negative outlook on things for a while now I can see that had effected my profile. Completely forgot I changed it to that a while back.

Shall get this updated asap!! X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just be yourself. No point in asking for help as then it won't be you're own profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thanks profile updated for now will be putting more effort in as the time goes by thanks x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

also your profile text and mini stats contridict each other ie your profile text says your a smoker your mini stats states your a non smoker so that may put people off if they read it and they only meet non smokers

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"also your profile text and mini stats contridict each other ie your profile text says your a smoker your mini stats states your a non smoker so that may put people off if they read it and they only meet non smokers"

Sorted this thank you x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Finding it kind of hard to even get a message back.

I can appreciate people's own taste and types. And also time.

Just unsure if it's me as a person or the fact that I'm not a couple

Thanks for your time

you're not fussy and you can't be bothered...does that apply to you sexually too because it's hardly enticing...why would anyone be bothered to respond?"

Suppose you could say I had my head up my a**

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

If you've been here over a year without a meet, what have you been doing? No social,club or meet at all?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The pictures are good, you look friendly. The profile text is a little bland, but it's positive.

The big bonus is that you asked for advise and actually took it. Few do.

Next steps would be to look into organised socials or clubs close to you. It's much easier to connect with people face to face than from behind a keyboard. They're not as scary as you'd think.

Best of luck to you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

27 cant accomadate screams cheat to me sorry female replying

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I am attending a meet september it's the cougars and cubs event. Guess I wasn't really sure what I was in search of.

27 can't accommodate is because I don't have my own home yet I'm in and out of B and Bs with work guess that wouldn't be so comforting to tell people??

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I am attending a meet september it's the cougars and cubs event. Guess I wasn't really sure what I was in search of.

27 can't accommodate is because I don't have my own home yet I'm in and out of B and Bs with work guess that wouldn't be so comforting to tell people?? "

You don't need to explain. Your area is bloody expensive for housing. You could tell people that then at least it might stop people assuming you're a cheat.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Well only being honest lol. Asked for some advice took it so all is achieved. Cheers for the replies

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By *sThunderThighsWoman over a year ago

Toy Land

"I am attending a meet september it's the cougars and cubs event. Guess I wasn't really sure what I was in search of.

27 can't accommodate is because I don't have my own home yet I'm in and out of B and Bs with work guess that wouldn't be so comforting to tell people?? "