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Come on ladies, what am I doing wrong?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Say a little more about yourself in your profile.
Toss the bathroom mirror selfies and take pics in a different environment. Preferably not selfies. "
cheers pal |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Start by searching the other 53865 what am I doing wrong threads. The answers are always the same.
Put the effort in, you may get some reward out."
That just about covers it.x |
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To be honest, since you've been on over a year with no verifications, I'd scrap your profile and start a new one...
I'd recommend a forum search for profile advice.
As for how to meet people?
Try socials and clubs to at least get verified.
That'll help.
Nita |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"To be honest, since you've been on over a year with no verifications, I'd scrap your profile and start a new one...
I'd recommend a forum search for profile advice.
As for how to meet people?
Try socials and clubs to at least get verified.
thanks.ive been off it for Ages only updated pics the other week. I'm not in to selfies etc
That'll help.
Nita"
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I don't read profiles, I look at pics.
But I'm not someone that really meets through messages, prefer going to clubs or socials, that way I've not wasted part of my day to go and meet someone that looks nothing like their pics.
Some people read profiles, but if guess the first point of call would be pictures, so expand on them.
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The gender balance on this site means that only a very small % of men can possibly be successful.
To offer a different "solution":
You might have more luck on conventional dating sites - which almost always leads to sex on the first meeting just the same (literally 80-90% of the time). I've had zero meetings from fab in two years, but around 65 lays from tinder etc in the same time period.
I presume that fab requires some very particular type of approach/style which remains a mystery to most guys. If you've been on tinder etc. before, OP, how did you get on? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd get rid of the bit about drugs entirely... I dont usually assume people take drugs in the first place, so it kind of plants the subject in your brain when you read it. Are you hiding a massive ibuprofen stash?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The gender balance on this site means that only a very small % of men can possibly be successful.
To offer a different "solution":
You might have more luck on conventional dating sites - which almost always leads to sex on the first meeting just the same (literally 80-90% of the time). I've had zero meetings from fab in two years, but around 65 lays from tinder etc in the same time period.
I presume that fab requires some very particular type of approach/style which remains a mystery to most guys. If you've been on tinder etc. before, OP, how did you get on?"
You have a point there. Tinder and POF are easier to get laid. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never send a cock pic in a message. Most of us women are put off by it, well I am. Don't send a dirty or obscene first message either and don't be pushy, or persistent. Nothing worse than a guy who sends the same message over and over again every few days or so, guaranteed to get you blocked x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As above, more than a year with no verifications makes you look like a time waster, maybe consider starting over.
Your profile is short and impersonal and your pictures are the same and, apologies but not very good |
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