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Looking for advice on a situation I will be in in an hour or less.
Am getting good signs from a gorgeous client. She is separated and suggested I call to measure up after she comes home from work tonight, she also said she might be late because she is going to grab a bottle on her way. How do I let her know I want her without blowing it? |
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"Looking for advice on a situation I will be in in an hour or less.
Am getting good signs from a gorgeous client. She is separated and suggested I call to measure up after she comes home from work tonight, she also said she might be late because she is going to grab a bottle on her way. How do I let her know I want her without blowing it? "
You don't!
Leave her to come onto you and give her positive measured responses if she comes onto you. Play it by ear mate |
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"Looking for advice on a situation I will be in in an hour or less.
Am getting good signs from a gorgeous client. She is separated and suggested I call to measure up after she comes home from work tonight, she also said she might be late because she is going to grab a bottle on her way. How do I let her know I want her without blowing it?
You don't!
Leave her to come onto you and give her positive measured responses if she comes onto you. Play it by ear mate"
Agreed. If she's a client and you approach her when she isn't interested, it could look bad professionally. |
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Actually I've got a new colleague at work, she always seems to be making a cuppa at the same time as me, and she told me the other day how she enjoyed following me up the stairs , strange but true. She's very attractive....should I? |
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"Looking for advice on a situation I will be in in an hour or less.
Am getting good signs from a gorgeous client. She is separated and suggested I call to measure up after she comes home from work tonight, she also said she might be late because she is going to grab a bottle on her way. How do I let her know I want her without blowing it? "
difficult one. Don't make it obvious but if she makes it plain that she wants to take things further ask her outright if its ok to take it a step on. She might be naturally flirtatious (lots of women are) and have no intention to do anything beyond bat her eyelashes at you, the bottle might be for a lover, she might be hoping that her manner will get her favourable treatment. In short you're stepping in to a minefield and better be ready to side step any bombs. |
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"Actually I've got a new colleague at work, she always seems to be making a cuppa at the same time as me, and she told me the other day how she enjoyed following me up the stairs , strange but true. She's very attractive....should I?"
should you what?
See my advice above |
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"Actually I've got a new colleague at work, she always seems to be making a cuppa at the same time as me, and she told me the other day how she enjoyed following me up the stairs , strange but true. She's very attractive....should I?
should you what?
See my advice above "
Fair point, well made |
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"Looking for advice on a situation I will be in in an hour or less.
Am getting good signs from a gorgeous client. She is separated and suggested I call to measure up after she comes home from work tonight, she also said she might be late because she is going to grab a bottle on her way. How do I let her know I want her without blowing it?
You don't!
Leave her to come onto you and give her positive measured responses if she comes onto you. Play it by ear mate"
This definitely! |
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If it could cause a problem with your career/working life I would steer clear. She is a customer remember and I wouldn't appreciate a supplier coming onto me if it wasn't what I wanted. Sorry if it's not what you want to hear OP but this is an open forum. |
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"Looking for advice on a situation I will be in in an hour or less.
Am getting good signs from a gorgeous client. She is separated and suggested I call to measure up after she comes home from work tonight, she also said she might be late because she is going to grab a bottle on her way. How do I let her know I want her without blowing it? " For me none of this sounds like more than polite, friendly conversation. You shouldn't make a move at all. Frankly it's a single woman at home and it's totally unprofessional. Also a couple of the suggestions you've been given, such as "stand up so she can see your bulge" Are just downright creepy I'd hate to be put in that position |
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