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I am a black dude in Norwich
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've been on here for about a month now and just got round this page.
It's good to know I can introduce myself and get feedbacks.
Can you check my profile and see if it's good enough please? xxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well, Velvet said something about it to me. And rest assured I'd getting not only my arse but my whole package down there. Though, I heard it's not a swinging party and it's often difficult to get anything rolling lolxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally, you sound a bit OCD to me. Clean this, clean that...this is dirty, if done right you get VERY hot, sticky and dirty.
You don't come across as fun to me, but that's purely my perception!
Hope you find what you're looking for! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Personally, you sound a bit OCD to me. Clean this, clean that...this is dirty, if done right you get VERY hot, sticky and dirty.
You don't come across as fun to me, but that's purely my perception!
Hope you find what you're looking for!"
Never knew asking for a shower and freshening up is a symptom of OCD lol!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Would never dream of going to a meet without having a shower first and having a good clean and trim downstairs. An I love having a shower together afterwards. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Would never dream of going to a meet without having a shower first and having a good clean and trim downstairs. An I love having a shower together afterwards."
Sweetheart, That's all my profile stressed Lol!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't understand the first line or the one at the end about messaging you - are you asking people not to talk about themselves in the message or what?
The warning at the end is not worth the page it's written on also. |
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As someone also said, I don't understand your first line/para.
Ref. cleanliness: whilst most of us find this essential and common sense, perhaps try to find a way to make it clear (and your profile is very clear on this), but a little more concise?
I noticed a possible typo:
'Naughty and not taking life too serious'
where 'seriously' would likely to be what is meant, as this is usually used more to describe disposition as an adjective instead of 'serious'.
So that's it, all small stuff. Good profile and welcome to Fab!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't understand the first line or the one at the end about messaging you - are you asking people not to talk about themselves in the message or what?
The warning at the end is not worth the page it's written on also. "
I'll look at that and see if needs some changes. thanks xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"As someone also said, I don't understand your first line/para.
Ref. cleanliness: whilst most of us find this essential and common sense, perhaps try to find a way to make it clear (and your profile is very clear on this), but a little more concise?
I noticed a possible typo:
'Naughty and not taking life too serious'
where 'seriously' would likely to be what is meant, as this is usually used more to describe disposition as an adjective instead of 'serious'.
So that's it, all small stuff. Good profile and welcome to Fab!!"
Aw, bless u. I'd correct the typo and also look at the other bit you pointed out. Thanks x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"~By dire, I largely mean the huge volume of profiles with 1 liners that say next to nothing."
I've come across loads like that. If you've got some time you can take a peep again. I touched some bits. Thanks again |
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"Would never dream of going to a meet without having a shower first and having a good clean and trim downstairs. An I love having a shower together afterwards.
Sweetheart, That's all my profile stressed Lol!!!"
there is a difference between stating that you like a woman to smell fresh and making it sound like women never wash lol  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Would never dream of going to a meet without having a shower first and having a good clean and trim downstairs. An I love having a shower together afterwards.
Sweetheart, That's all my profile stressed Lol!!!
there is a difference between stating that you like a woman to smell fresh and making it sound like women never wash lol "
Hun, I've toned it down, maybe you can check it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A black guy; if this is not your not your stuff, sorry to have made you read this far."
Sounds a little negative to me, of course you're not going to be to everyone's taste regardless of colour but to highlight that is negative, weak or a little chip on the shoulder.
You being black is all you need mention, don't even need to do that if you have pics clearly showing so. |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
""A black guy; if this is not your not your stuff, sorry to have made you read this far."
Sounds a little negative to me, of course you're not going to be to everyone's taste regardless of colour but to highlight that is negative, weak or a little chip on the shoulder.
You being black is all you need mention, don't even need to do that if you have pics clearly showing so."
I was told no by a couple because they felt I was indian not black ... and I was even on cam at the time. Go figure. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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""A black guy; if this is not your not your stuff, sorry to have made you read this far."
Sounds a little negative to me, of course you're not going to be to everyone's taste regardless of colour but to highlight that is negative, weak or a little chip on the shoulder.
You being black is all you need mention, don't even need to do that if you have pics clearly showing so.
I was told no by a couple because they felt I was indian not black ... and I was even on cam at the time. Go figure."
haha sorry but thats funny  |
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"Would never dream of going to a meet without having a shower first and having a good clean and trim downstairs. An I love having a shower together afterwards.
Sweetheart, That's all my profile stressed Lol!!!
there is a difference between stating that you like a woman to smell fresh and making it sound like women never wash lol
Hun, I've toned it down, maybe you can check it "
its exactly the same as last time i read it lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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""A black guy; if this is not your not your stuff, sorry to have made you read this far."
Sounds a little negative to me, of course you're not going to be to everyone's taste regardless of colour but to highlight that is negative, weak or a little chip on the shoulder.
You being black is all you need mention, don't even need to do that if you have pics clearly showing so.
I was told no by a couple because they felt I was indian not black ... and I was even on cam at the time. Go figure."
ok so maybe a mention is appropriate, lol |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
""A black guy; if this is not your not your stuff, sorry to have made you read this far."
Sounds a little negative to me, of course you're not going to be to everyone's taste regardless of colour but to highlight that is negative, weak or a little chip on the shoulder.
You being black is all you need mention, don't even need to do that if you have pics clearly showing so.
I was told no by a couple because they felt I was indian not black ... and I was even on cam at the time. Go figure.
haha sorry but thats funny "
Lol, I was certainly baffled, I'll tell ya that much |
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I don't think there is anything wrong with stating that you are a black guy.. and certainly don't see it a shaving a chip on your shoulder. I state very clearly that I'm a BBW for the simple fact of I know and can deal with that I'm not everybodys cup of tea.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't think there is anything wrong with stating that you are a black guy.. and certainly don't see it a shaving a chip on your shoulder. I state very clearly that I'm a BBW for the simple fact of I know and can deal with that I'm not everybodys cup of tea.
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Exactly my point, my point aimed more towards the after comment.... "if this is not your not your stuff, sorry to have made you read this far" |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
"I don't think there is anything wrong with stating that you are a black guy.. and certainly don't see it a shaving a chip on your shoulder. I state very clearly that I'm a BBW for the simple fact of I know and can deal with that I'm not everybodys cup of tea.
Exactly my point, my point aimed more towards the after comment.... "if this is not your not your stuff, sorry to have made you read this far""
In way, its an extension of the profile details stating your sexuality, height and age... it gives people a clear indication whether to proceed or not (I'm not tall, so women into 6-footers look away now), no harm no foul. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't think there is anything wrong with stating that you are a black guy.. and certainly don't see it a shaving a chip on your shoulder. I state very clearly that I'm a BBW for the simple fact of I know and can deal with that I'm not everybodys cup of tea.
Exactly my point, my point aimed more towards the after comment.... "if this is not your not your stuff, sorry to have made you read this far"
In way, its an extension of the profile details stating your sexuality, height and age... it gives people a clear indication whether to proceed or not (I'm not tall, so women into 6-footers look away now), no harm no foul."
I see that point, still feel once the 'issue' has been expressed then the comments regarding look away, or sorry you've read this far does seem negative.
The more detail but the shorter we can keep our profile the better I believe, so it's not needed, it's extra reading is all.  |
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"I don't think there is anything wrong with stating that you are a black guy.. and certainly don't see it a shaving a chip on your shoulder. I state very clearly that I'm a BBW for the simple fact of I know and can deal with that I'm not everybodys cup of tea.
Exactly my point, my point aimed more towards the after comment.... "if this is not your not your stuff, sorry to have made you read this far"
In way, its an extension of the profile details stating your sexuality, height and age... it gives people a clear indication whether to proceed or not (I'm not tall, so women into 6-footers look away now), no harm no foul.
I see that point, still feel once the 'issue' has been expressed then the comments regarding look away, or sorry you've read this far does seem negative.
The more detail but the shorter we can keep our profile the better I believe, so it's not needed, it's extra reading is all. "
I actually read the 'look away now' bit as 'Cool, this guy has a sense of humour lol'.. and regardless of how short or long we keep it, nobody bothers to read it lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't think there is anything wrong with stating that you are a black guy.. and certainly don't see it a shaving a chip on your shoulder. I state very clearly that I'm a BBW for the simple fact of I know and can deal with that I'm not everybodys cup of tea.
Exactly my point, my point aimed more towards the after comment.... "if this is not your not your stuff, sorry to have made you read this far"
In way, its an extension of the profile details stating your sexuality, height and age... it gives people a clear indication whether to proceed or not (I'm not tall, so women into 6-footers look away now), no harm no foul.
I see that point, still feel once the 'issue' has been expressed then the comments regarding look away, or sorry you've read this far does seem negative.
The more detail but the shorter we can keep our profile the better I believe, so it's not needed, it's extra reading is all.
I actually read the 'look away now' bit as 'Cool, this guy has a sense of humour lol'.. and regardless of how short or long we keep it, nobody bothers to read it lol"
ok so not everyone agrees, I still think it unnecessary but hey ho.
profiles length, there are people that don't read or don't digest all but to keep it to a minimum with as much info as possible still helps, it's a little like advertising, enough to get the attention and not too much for people to get bored. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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profiles length, there are people that don't read or don't digest all but to keep it to a minimum with as much info as possible still helps, it's a little like advertising, enough to get the attention and not too much for people to get bored. "
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Mine is as long as I believe it needs to be.
Those who cannot be bothered to read it are unlikely to interest me. Therefore, my profile is doing what it is supposed to do - to filter out the not so desirables. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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profiles length, there are people that don't read or don't digest all but to keep it to a minimum with as much info as possible still helps, it's a little like advertising, enough to get the attention and not too much for people to get bored.
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Mine is as long as I believe it needs to be.
Those who cannot be bothered to read it are unlikely to interest me. Therefore, my profile is doing what it is supposed to do - to filter out the not so desirables. "
of course, choice is a good thing.
now, you're not one to complain on the forums that people don't read profiles and other such moans, so for you it works, but for those that get miffed at people contacting when they seemingly haven't read their profile then my advice stands strong. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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of course, choice is a good thing.
now, you're not one to complain on the forums that people don't read profiles and other such moans, so for you it works, but for those that get miffed at people contacting when they seemingly haven't read their profile then my advice stands strong. "
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I tried to cut it down, however, I can't, honest.
Besides, I believe I have injected sufficient humour to make it a good read - I laugh at it myself in places!
Glad to see I am not ear-marked as a moaner/complainer. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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of course, choice is a good thing.
now, you're not one to complain on the forums that people don't read profiles and other such moans, so for you it works, but for those that get miffed at people contacting when they seemingly haven't read their profile then my advice stands strong.
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I tried to cut it down, however, I can't, honest.
Besides, I believe I have injected sufficient humour to make it a good read - I laugh at it myself in places!
Glad to see I am not ear-marked as a moaner/complainer. "
You're too strong for that. |
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profiles length, there are people that don't read or don't digest all but to keep it to a minimum with as much info as possible still helps, it's a little like advertising, enough to get the attention and not too much for people to get bored.
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Mine is as long as I believe it needs to be.
Those who cannot be bothered to read it are unlikely to interest me. Therefore, my profile is doing what it is supposed to do - to filter out the not so desirables.
of course, choice is a good thing.
now, you're not one to complain on the forums that people don't read profiles and other such moans, so for you it works, but for those that get miffed at people contacting when they seemingly haven't read their profile then my advice stands strong. "
So...Are you saying that if you received 5-10+ emails daily from people who clearly have not read your profile you wouldn't get pissed off too??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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So...Are you saying that if you received 5-10+ emails daily from people who clearly have not read your profile you wouldn't get pissed off too??? "
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I don't get that many in a day, perhaps one or two at the most!
Can't exactly get worked up with just a handful of unsolicited messages. Life is too short for that! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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profiles length, there are people that don't read or don't digest all but to keep it to a minimum with as much info as possible still helps, it's a little like advertising, enough to get the attention and not too much for people to get bored.
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Mine is as long as I believe it needs to be.
Those who cannot be bothered to read it are unlikely to interest me. Therefore, my profile is doing what it is supposed to do - to filter out the not so desirables.
of course, choice is a good thing.
now, you're not one to complain on the forums that people don't read profiles and other such moans, so for you it works, but for those that get miffed at people contacting when they seemingly haven't read their profile then my advice stands strong.
So...Are you saying that if you received 5-10+ emails daily from people who clearly have not read your profile you wouldn't get pissed off too??? "
Nope, been there done that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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""A black guy; if this is not your not your stuff, sorry to have made you read this far."
Sounds a little negative to me, of course you're not going to be to everyone's taste regardless of colour but to highlight that is negative, weak or a little chip on the shoulder.
You being black is all you need mention, don't even need to do that if you have pics clearly showing so."
I mentioned the being black bit on another post the OP did but came back to see what he had said and the post had been removed  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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""A black guy; if this is not your not your stuff, sorry to have made you read this far."
Sounds a little negative to me, of course you're not going to be to everyone's taste regardless of colour but to highlight that is negative, weak or a little chip on the shoulder.
You being black is all you need mention, don't even need to do that if you have pics clearly showing so."
Thanks, I'd look at that now |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Would never dream of going to a meet without having a shower first and having a good clean and trim downstairs. An I love having a shower together afterwards.
Sweetheart, That's all my profile stressed Lol!!!
there is a difference between stating that you like a woman to smell fresh and making it sound like women never wash lol
Hun, I've toned it down, maybe you can check it
its exactly the same as last time i read it lol"
Lol!! What would you rather I change then? |
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""A black guy; if this is not your not your stuff, sorry to have made you read this far."
Sounds a little negative to me, of course you're not going to be to everyone's taste regardless of colour but to highlight that is negative, weak or a little chip on the shoulder.
You being black is all you need mention, don't even need to do that if you have pics clearly showing so.
I mentioned the being black bit on another post the OP did but came back to see what he had said and the post had been removed "
I guess it was removed on the basis it was a multiple post. Still getting hold of this site and forum. So you can say what you did say here |
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"Would never dream of going to a meet without having a shower first and having a good clean and trim downstairs. An I love having a shower together afterwards.
Sweetheart, That's all my profile stressed Lol!!!
there is a difference between stating that you like a woman to smell fresh and making it sound like women never wash lol
Hun, I've toned it down, maybe you can check it
its exactly the same as last time i read it lol
Lol!! What would you rather I change then? "
like sassy says its your profile but i think the following is sufficient to get the point accross
'will always turn up freshly showered and smelling nice, i dont think its too much to expect the same from the other party'
job done |
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I dont understand the lousy bit does it mean your free of lice?
Also the cleanliness thing is weird especially the bit about body spray works wonders.
What evesham said about the cleanliness bit is sufficient |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Would never dream of going to a meet without having a shower first and having a good clean and trim downstairs. An I love having a shower together afterwards.
Sweetheart, That's all my profile stressed Lol!!!
there is a difference between stating that you like a woman to smell fresh and making it sound like women never wash lol
Hun, I've toned it down, maybe you can check it
its exactly the same as last time i read it lol
Lol!! What would you rather I change then?
like sassy says its your profile but i think the following is sufficient to get the point accross
'will always turn up freshly showered and smelling nice, i dont think its too much to expect the same from the other party'
job done "
Spot on thanks |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I dont understand the lousy bit does it mean your free of lice?
Also the cleanliness thing is weird especially the bit about body spray works wonders.
What evesham said about the cleanliness bit is sufficient"
I'll look at that now |
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