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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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i'm finding it hard to get anything from any female
i don't know weather it's my profile or something i'm doing wrong
i'm not the only one who is finding it hard
just looking for some tips or some advice to make this work out and worth my while
any hep will be much appreciated |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You've been here two weeks, you've got a nice height, 25 isn't too young for most on here. You look tidy enough, I'd put one dick picture on your public profile but that's just personal choice. Just keep plugging away and keep being polite. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i'm finding it hard to get anything from any female
i don't know weather it's my profile or something i'm doing wrong
i'm not the only one who is finding it hard
just looking for some tips or some advice to make this work out and worth my while
any hep will be much appreciated "
give it time i sure some female will talk to you as for me i been here six months and not made many friends so it takes time.. good luck on here  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ok, your profile reads like you'll shag anyone. That's off putting for a start. You also contradict yourself. Age doesn't matter and then you say you want to meet older women.
Just keep in mind the women on here are not prostitutes. They are here because they enjoy having sex. They're not here to ensure you enjoy sex. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"bit more information about myself and what i'm after
thank you
If you click on replyinforum+quote we can see who you're replying to  "
ohh thank you i'm so new to this i don't know how half off this works
does my profile look better now? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't mention an age at all unless you categorically don't want to meet anyone your age or younger. By mentioning older women you're cutting out some of your audience. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Don't mention an age at all unless you categorically don't want to meet anyone your age or younger. By mentioning older women you're cutting out some of your audience. "
thanks a lot your helping me out loads!!!
anything else inneed to do? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ignore the patience is key bollocks too."
Yea you're right.
OP, you need to send multiple begging messages to each woman in your local area as soon as possible. No time to be patient, just go for it and you'll be swimming in fanny offers |
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"Ignore the patience is key bollocks too.
Yea you're right.
OP, you need to send multiple begging messages to each woman in your local area as soon as possible. No time to be patient, just go for it and you'll be swimming in fanny offers"
And a status offering yourself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Really sell yourself on your profile. It is your stage after all. Do your own research too! Look at male profiles who are successful to get an understanding what a good profile should look like. You get out what you put it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ignore the patience is key bollocks too.
Yea you're right.
OP, you need to send multiple begging messages to each woman in your local area as soon as possible. No time to be patient, just go for it and you'll be swimming in fanny offers"
swimming in fannies !!! love that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ignore the patience is key bollocks too.
Yea you're right.
OP, you need to send multiple begging messages to each woman in your local area as soon as possible. No time to be patient, just go for it and you'll be swimming in fanny offers"
If you're profile is shit or you're a knob then patience isn't going to make a blind bit of difference, smart arse  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's a pretty good profile, the pictures are decent. Unfortunately, due to the number of chaps on here, you will need to put the leg work in with some good messages. Keep your eyes out for organised socials as they're a great way to network and natter. Best of British to you OP. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ignore the patience is key bollocks too.
Yea you're right.
OP, you need to send multiple begging messages to each woman in your local area as soon as possible. No time to be patient, just go for it and you'll be swimming in fanny offers
If you're profile is shit or you're a knob then patience isn't going to make a blind bit of difference, smart arse "
Yeah it does! Someone with no patience on a site like this can be an even bigger knob.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ignore the patience is key bollocks too.
Yea you're right.
OP, you need to send multiple begging messages to each woman in your local area as soon as possible. No time to be patient, just go for it and you'll be swimming in fanny offers"
Don't be conned by this own area nonsence, the women on here are so keen on fresh cock they will cycle upto 200 miles for it.. message them all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ignore the patience is key bollocks too.
Yea you're right.
OP, you need to send multiple begging messages to each woman in your local area as soon as possible. No time to be patient, just go for it and you'll be swimming in fanny offers
If you're profile is shit or you're a knob then patience isn't going to make a blind bit of difference, smart arse
Yeah it does! Someone with no patience on a site like this can be an even bigger knob. "
Knobs won't have patience in the first place  They'll just spend their time on the forums instead  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's a pretty good profile, the pictures are decent. Unfortunately, due to the number of chaps on here, you will need to put the leg work in with some good messages. Keep your eyes out for organised socials as they're a great way to network and natter. Best of British to you OP. "
what would catch your eye if someone messaged you and got you interested ?
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"Ignore the patience is key bollocks too.
Yea you're right.
OP, you need to send multiple begging messages to each woman in your local area as soon as possible. No time to be patient, just go for it and you'll be swimming in fanny offers
If you're profile is shit or you're a knob then patience isn't going to make a blind bit of difference, smart arse "
Course it is. You can be impatient and speak to someone for the sake of it or you can have patience and start speaking to people who actually spark your interest.
Ok, it isn't actually key, but it is quite an important thing to have patience on here. Without it frustration will soon win. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ignore the patience is key bollocks too.
Yea you're right.
OP, you need to send multiple begging messages to each woman in your local area as soon as possible. No time to be patient, just go for it and you'll be swimming in fanny offers
If you're profile is shit or you're a knob then patience isn't going to make a blind bit of difference, smart arse
Yeah it does! Someone with no patience on a site like this can be an even bigger knob.
Knobs won't have patience in the first place They'll just spend their time on the forums instead "
That's right... They do  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ignore the patience is key bollocks too.
Yea you're right.
OP, you need to send multiple begging messages to each woman in your local area as soon as possible. No time to be patient, just go for it and you'll be swimming in fanny offers
If you're profile is shit or you're a knob then patience isn't going to make a blind bit of difference, smart arse
Yeah it does! Someone with no patience on a site like this can be an even bigger knob.
Knobs won't have patience in the first place They'll just spend their time on the forums instead "
i didn't know what i was doing wrong or if this site kick off straight away but iv only been on here for 2 weeks and newbies its harder for |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's a pretty good profile, the pictures are decent. Unfortunately, due to the number of chaps on here, you will need to put the leg work in with some good messages. Keep your eyes out for organised socials as they're a great way to network and natter. Best of British to you OP.
what would catch your eye if someone messaged you and got you interested ?
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Pictures first then height, no profile text has ever made me think, Jesus I need to meet this guy. If he's handsome and tall with a large penis, that's what gets the interest piqued. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's a pretty good profile, the pictures are decent. Unfortunately, due to the number of chaps on here, you will need to put the leg work in with some good messages. Keep your eyes out for organised socials as they're a great way to network and natter. Best of British to you OP.
what would catch your eye if someone messaged you and got you interested ?
Pictures first then height, no profile text has ever made me think, Jesus I need to meet this guy. If he's handsome and tall with a large penis, that's what gets the interest piqued. "
iv updated it and said done everything you said
could you have a look and message me and see what you think now please? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The problem with telling people patience is key is that it makes them think that nothing else matters and that isn't true.
Of course patience is important but so is having a decent profile, good pics and sending a first message that catches someone's imagination.
To say patience is key is missing so many other factors that are as important if not more so. |
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It takes guts to be on here if you're a single man, as it will usually take tons of effort to get meets - whilst you are being ignored.
As others have said, maximum efforts on your profile really gets you to stand out. You need to, as you are competing with hundreds of single men.
What does a woman want to know about you -
why you're a better choice than others, your sexual tastes, what you are really going to be like as a lover, where you may meet, etc
Search for single men and look at their profiles - note what you think works - or doesn't - about them.
When you send a message, recipients look at your profile... That's why it's important |
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"The problem with telling people patience is key is that it makes them think that nothing else matters and that isn't true.
Of course patience is important but so is having a decent profile, good pics and sending a first message that catches someone's imagination.
To say patience is key is missing so many other factors that are as important if not more so."
Of course it's important, and so is a sense of humour. Where's yours tonight? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The problem with telling people patience is key is that it makes them think that nothing else matters and that isn't true.
Of course patience is important but so is having a decent profile, good pics and sending a first message that catches someone's imagination.
To say patience is key is missing so many other factors that are as important if not more so."
So don't listen to advice about patience, even though it's important, but it's still bollocks.
Got ya |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The problem with telling people patience is key is that it makes them think that nothing else matters and that isn't true.
Of course patience is important but so is having a decent profile, good pics and sending a first message that catches someone's imagination.
To say patience is key is missing so many other factors that are as important if not more so.
So don't listen to advice about patience, even though it's important, but it's still bollocks.
Got ya "
hark at him lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I.av got the same nothing back. Make me think this not a real site.
What do you mean not a real site?"
miss wilkes can you let me know what you think off it now please? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I.av got the same nothing back. Make me think this not a real site.
What do you mean not a real site?
miss wilkes can you let me know what you think off it now please? "
Huh? Right if I'm looking at profile text, start with capital letters, take off the bit about being bi and just put filters on blocking men from messaging. Of instead of off. Penis looks decent. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I.av got the same nothing back. Make me think this not a real site.
What do you mean not a real site?
miss wilkes can you let me know what you think off it now please?
Huh? Right if I'm looking at profile text, start with capital letters, take off the bit about being bi and just put filters on blocking men from messaging. Of instead of off. Penis looks decent. "
alright sweet ill sort that out now
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I.av got the same nothing back. Make me think this not a real site.
What do you mean not a real site?
miss wilkes can you let me know what you think off it now please?
Huh? Right if I'm looking at profile text, start with capital letters, take off the bit about being bi and just put filters on blocking men from messaging. Of instead of off. Penis looks decent.
alright sweet ill sort that out now
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if your bi be honest
or do as the rest do
message when wanting bi fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The problem with telling people patience is key is that it makes them think that nothing else matters and that isn't true.
Of course patience is important but so is having a decent profile, good pics and sending a first message that catches someone's imagination.
To say patience is key is missing so many other factors that are as important if not more so.
Of course it's important, and so is a sense of humour. Where's yours tonight?"
Sorry I thought the OP was asking a serious question. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The problem with telling people patience is key is that it makes them think that nothing else matters and that isn't true.
Of course patience is important but so is having a decent profile, good pics and sending a first message that catches someone's imagination.
To say patience is key is missing so many other factors that are as important if not more so.
So don't listen to advice about patience, even though it's important, but it's still bollocks.
Got ya "
Saying patience is the most important thing is bollocks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Two weeks is a very short time to be here.
Your profile isn't bad but it doesn't tell us much. Can you put a bit more about yourself and what you're after?"
his profile is better than mine lol |
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By *irtyricoMan
over a year ago
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"You've been here two weeks, you've got a nice height, 25 isn't too young for most on here. You look tidy enough, I'd put one dick picture on your public profile but that's just personal choice. Just keep plugging away and keep being polite. "
Your profile says looking for men aged between 98-99 this had me laughing!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You've been here two weeks, you've got a nice height, 25 isn't too young for most on here. You look tidy enough, I'd put one dick picture on your public profile but that's just personal choice. Just keep plugging away and keep being polite.
Your profile says looking for men aged between 98-99 this had me laughing!!! "
Haha yeah, stops the messages coming through!
But you're right about the penis sizes, small medium and large. |
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By *irtyricoMan
over a year ago
west bromwich |
"You've been here two weeks, you've got a nice height, 25 isn't too young for most on here. You look tidy enough, I'd put one dick picture on your public profile but that's just personal choice. Just keep plugging away and keep being polite.
Your profile says looking for men aged between 98-99 this had me laughing!!!
Haha yeah, stops the messages coming through!
But you're right about the penis sizes, small
medium and large. "
Hey can I pretend I'm 98 and a half just for you |
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"i'm finding it hard to get anything from any female
i don't know weather it's my profile or something i'm doing wrong
i'm not the only one who is finding it hard
just looking for some tips or some advice to make this work out and worth my while
any hep will be much appreciated "
The main problem is you a man...you have to join a very very long que and accept you may never get served. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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the easiest way to get replies is to set up another profile
send each other messages, arrange a meet, obviously one will not turn up
then open a thread and rant about being stood up by a fake profile
and from this you will of had the fab experience all in the comfort of your chair
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By *irtyricoMan
over a year ago
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"Don't mention an age at all unless you categorically don't want to meet anyone your age or younger. By mentioning older women you're cutting out some of your audience. "
Miss Wilkes can you message me please I really want to speak to you but I haven't to the patience to wait till I'm 98.5 loool |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"You've been here two weeks, you've got a nice height, 25 isn't too young for most on here. You look tidy enough, I'd put one dick picture on your public profile but that's just personal choice. Just keep plugging away and keep being polite.
Your profile says looking for men aged between 98-99 this had me laughing!!!
Haha yeah, stops the messages coming through!
But you're right about the penis sizes, small medium and large. "
how can people get through to you thoigh? |
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"You've been here two weeks, you've got a nice height, 25 isn't too young for most on here. You look tidy enough, I'd put one dick picture on your public profile but that's just personal choice. Just keep plugging away and keep being polite.
Your profile says looking for men aged between 98-99 this had me laughing!!!
Haha yeah, stops the messages coming through!
But you're right about the penis sizes, small medium and large.
how can people get through to you thoigh? "
Ever thought that some people don't meet or look for meets themselves? |
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"i'm finding it hard to get anything from any female
i don't know weather it's my profile or something i'm doing wrong
i'm not the only one who is finding it hard
just looking for some tips or some advice to make this work out and worth my while
any hep will be much appreciated "
all the best just when you do meet them just hope they show I've had a few time wasters  give it time sure it will happen lad. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You've been here two weeks, you've got a nice height, 25 isn't too young for most on here. You look tidy enough, I'd put one dick picture on your public profile but that's just personal choice. Just keep plugging away and keep being polite.
Your profile says looking for men aged between 98-99 this had me laughing!!!
Haha yeah, stops the messages coming through!
But you're right about the penis sizes, small medium and large.
how can people get through to you thoigh? "
I'm approachable if I'm online on the forums I'll answer any problems. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You've been here two weeks, you've got a nice height, 25 isn't too young for most on here. You look tidy enough, I'd put one dick picture on your public profile but that's just personal choice. Just keep plugging away and keep being polite.
Your profile says looking for men aged between 98-99 this had me laughing!!!
Haha yeah, stops the messages coming through!
But you're right about the penis sizes, small medium and large.
how can people get through to you thoigh? "
be yourself n stop moaning  |
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By *irtyricoMan
over a year ago
west bromwich |
"You've been here two weeks, you've got a nice height, 25 isn't too young for most on here. You look tidy enough, I'd put one dick picture on your public profile but that's just personal choice. Just keep plugging away and keep being polite.
Your profile says looking for men aged between 98-99 this had me laughing!!!
Haha yeah, stops the messages coming through!
But you're right about the penis sizes, small medium and large.
how can people get through to you thoigh?
I'm approachable if I'm online on the forums I'll answer any problems. "
I'm Tryna get through to youuuu |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's a pretty good profile, the pictures are decent. Unfortunately, due to the number of chaps on here, you will need to put the leg work in with some good messages. Keep your eyes out for organised socials as they're a great way to network and natter. Best of British to you OP.
what would catch your eye if someone messaged you and got you interested ?
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I am sure HH will allow me to answer this on her behalf.
Boobs and a witty conversation opener. (She's only looking for ladies)
As a bit of advice and you will hear it time and time again from females. They will say "read the profile".
This will help you twofold.
1) you can then decide whether they are worth crafting an individual message two. (Personality)
2) you can use their profile for small pieces of information you can chat about.
The days that you have taken the time to read the profile and have crafted a message just for them.
Don't fall into the trap of copy and paste messages. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok, your profile reads like you'll shag anyone. That's off putting for a start. You also contradict yourself. Age doesn't matter and then you say you want to meet older women.
Just keep in mind the women on here are not prostitutes. They are here because they enjoy having sex. They're not here to ensure you enjoy sex."
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"Two weeks is a very short time to be here.
Your profile isn't bad but it doesn't tell us much. Can you put a bit more about yourself and what you're after?"
hey could you check my profile. I ain't meeting no one either. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Two weeks is a very short time to be here.
Your profile isn't bad but it doesn't tell us much. Can you put a bit more about yourself and what you're after? hey could you check my profile. I ain't meeting no one either. "
start your own thread be easier x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Two weeks is a very short time to be here.
Your profile isn't bad but it doesn't tell us much. Can you put a bit more about yourself and what you're after? hey could you check my profile. I ain't meeting no one either. "
You drags thread 15 weeks old to ask that .... |
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