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how hard is it for single guys
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Try writing a profile that tells folk who you are and what you looking for. You'll be one heck of a lucky fella if you get a meet on the back of your current profile! |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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do you have a facebook account? if so.. how much information do you have on there about you.
if not, have a look at some of the single guys in your local area... take the best you see and adapt it to reflect you.
good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im finding really hard to get meets. Does anyone have any tips "
yh iv got one...... give up! lol or message every girl man tv on this site, surly one will fuck you lol only messing. Its harder to get sex on this site than going to a pub or club iv only met a couple myself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cheers for your help people i think ill just give up. Ha joking could u look at my profile now and see if u think its any better "
You are getting there for sure... much better 
Don't begrudge telling others about yourself though.... it can come across as a wee bit insecure. Be proud of who you are and what you have to offer others as confidence is very sexy so long as arrogance stays out of the mix |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My opinion (take it or leave it  )
is that you need to think about what it is you're after. Yes, we're all here for sex but that's not all. Some are chasing fantasies, some are exploring their sexualities and so on.
Think about what you want and explain that in your profile. That way, You have an idea of the people you want to approach and who you want to approach you.
Right now, you're the 1,969th single male to come here with a flat profile. Introduce yourself! Good luck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Profile still needs a lot more work on it!! Some more pics would help too. You need to put more about yourself on the profile. single ladies get dozens of messages a day so they haven't got time to ask you questions when other guys have the info at a glance on their profile. Not being able to accomodate puts you at a disadvantage. Good luck on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My opinion (take it or leave it )
looks like he left if..."
Two things could've happened here:
A, He's created a new profile, complete with studio session pics and an amazing intro!
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B, Just left, thinking that it would be easy.
Which do we think? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You know it really is hard to meet people on here - I have tried all sorts of profiles styles and when they work its v intimitant.. if there is a magic solution - only tell me please .. lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a married couple frustratingly looking for 'single guys', ill offer a bit of advice.
Be honest and up front about what you offer, and what your looking for. It's a well known (and in our case evidenced) fact, that a large percentage of 'supposedly single guy's' are in fact far from single. This makes couples very sceptical indeed.. Our profile is very specific, yet still we get married / attached guys trying to dupe us into contact / meets.. So be honest, and only contact those who specifically meet your requirements. Leaving appropriate feedback for others to use in their 'selection process'.. It's not rocket science guys. |
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Hi everyone,
I've been reading all your comments relating to this thread and to be fair, for single guys,it is very very hard to get someone interested and arranging a casual meet up.
I have been on Fab for a few months now. I've sent a number of messages to members profiles that have caught my attention and I try to look out for something I find interesting on their profiles, a common interest so as to have something to follow up on the next message.
It is very disappointing when the majority don't even bother replying back. If this site is supposed to be "fun,free & fabulous". Most likely it is, if you are a couple.
I met someone off here for a casual drink last week and it was great. Nothing yet. Give it some time, I guess.
I'm a firm believer that you have to be persistent and don't give up. I have found though, that YOU do have to cultivate plenty of patience and remain positive.
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