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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Why do I keep attracting weirdos and idiots on here?(and yes, I am fully aware of the fact this site is littered with them).
But seriously, where are the descent men!
Is it my profile that's attracting these sorts of people or what!
Any suggests welcome.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do I keep attracting weirdos and idiots on here?(and yes, I am fully aware of the fact this site is littered with them).
But seriously, where are the descent men!
Is it my profile that's attracting these sorts of people or what!
Any suggests welcome. "
Can't speak for everyone but I consider myself a decent guy (sure some won't agree) but I wouldn't message you because I can't see what you look like and I find your bio off putting |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The reason my pictures are private is only because of what I do for a living."
It doesn't have to be a face picture you could upload numerous others. I agree with other posters that not having a profile pic is offputting
As for the weirdos, yes there are plenty, but I have met some absolute diamonds |
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Op, put your filters on to block new profiles and unverified ones. That will get rid of lots.
Maybe add some public pics. I think a genuine decent guy would be put off messaging, so you'll get a higher proportion of those who'll message anybody contacting you. |
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By *eek12Man
over a year ago
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"Always find people without a avatar picture a bit creepy myself.
Thank God for filters on here able to block them."
I don't message ppl without a pic, seems like deception from the start. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you have no public pictures then you're going to get all kinds of guys messaging you. With public pictures you'll get people messaging you that are the same level of attractiveness. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"If you have no public pictures then you're going to get all kinds of guys messaging you. With public pictures you'll get people messaging you that are the same level of attractiveness. "
You might! I don't. |
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"If you have no public pictures then you're going to get all kinds of guys messaging you. With public pictures you'll get people messaging you that are the same level of attractiveness. "
I don't quite agree with that |
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OP your profile probably isn't helping.
I would offer you pretty much the same advice as I would give a man asking the same question.
You need some profile pictures - it's not blind date. You don't need to display a face pic publically but you do need to be willing to PM it early on in any chats.
Your profile is very negative and this will put off most of the good guys, hence why you keep getting messages from the people you don't want to meet. Try and focus on positives. Instead of just having a tick list of what you don't want try saying what you do want.
You could also try using your filters effectively. Some ladies block messages from single men so that they don't get overloaded and do the searching themselves. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No pictures on display doesn't help, surely anyone making initial contact is a desperate weirdo?  after all who contacts anybody without having a peak at pics and saying "who they look nice, I better message her"  |
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But on a serious note OP, it's a matter of luck and patience 
We all have our own perceptions of 'normal' based on our life experiences, values and culture etc don't we?
Everyone thinks that their 'normal' is the definitive normal and everyone else is weird. But maybe it's the other way around!?! Who knows!! 
