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"We want to get to know couples before we have fun is that wrong (not talking about day week etc) as S want to trust and get to know the couple friendship socials patients equals fun with us "
Getting to know people, feeling comfortable and happy in their presence is what it's all about.
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I always have socials before a play meet, and I've usually spent a good week or so chatting regularly even before a social.
You need to feel comfortable with people before it goes further.
Some click, some don't!
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Hi and welcome 
The social side if swinging is just as important to many people as the sex. There are often organised socials where people just meet to chat and make friends. Details are usually posted on the meets and events forum.
Just take your time and make sure you are both ready and comfortable with what you want from swinging. There is no rush to play with anyone until you are both ready. |
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Socials are a great way to dip your toe in the water, there are no rules that say you must play no matter what. the only rules are your own, try soft play first then if you feel the need go for something harder. |
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