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Been successful at clubs but not on FAB
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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your trying to appeal to a different type of people mostly, using a different media.
those who use clubs probably don't need to look for meets on here. those who use here for meets probably don't use clubs.
makes sense to me anyway. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"I feel it's abit more intimate with meets off here"
true enough, but you're faced with the barrier of breaking ice online, as opposed to having the advantage of being present in a club. Single males are at a disadvantage in both places, but I think you might struggle more here. |
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No veris showing which for us makes us wonder why?
Profile doesnt stand out from other single blokes, profile pic and blog about yourself.
I would suggest looking at it from the perspective of those you are trying to attract. If you were a couple or a single lady is there anything there which would make you want to know more?
Look at other single blokes In your area and see their profiles and the difference between those getting meets from here and those who are not.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No veris showing which for us makes us wonder why?
Profile doesnt stand out from other single blokes, profile pic and blog about yourself.
I would suggest looking at it from the perspective of those you are trying to attract. If you were a couple or a single lady is there anything there which would make you want to know more?
Look at other single blokes In your area and see their profiles and the difference between those getting meets from here and those who are not.
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There isn't that much difference, maybe they are just better at chatting to ladies over messages where as I'm better in person haha |
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"I found it abit weird to ask right after oh can you verify me on fab haha so didn't bother "
It's not weird, most people would ask at some point, doesn't have to be right after, also a handy way to keep in touch normally.
You should do it on your next visit. Which do you go to? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I found it abit weird to ask right after oh can you verify me on fab haha so didn't bother
It's not weird, most people would ask at some point, doesn't have to be right after, also a handy way to keep in touch normally.
You should do it on your next visit. Which do you go to?"
I usually go to cupids. I've been to others in Manchester but cupids is more classy. Do you go to many? |
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"I found it abit weird to ask right after oh can you verify me on fab haha so didn't bother
It's not weird, most people would ask at some point, doesn't have to be right after, also a handy way to keep in touch normally.
You should do it on your next visit. Which do you go to?
I usually go to cupids. I've been to others in Manchester but cupids is more classy. Do you go to many? "
The staff in Cupids will verify you, that's the simplest way, straight off.
Yes, we like clubs. |
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"Hey am I doing something wrong on here? I managed to do quite good at clubs but I'm struggling on here, can anyone give me any advice? "
Lack of verifications is always a massive red flag to me and I would question your "success" at clubs so wouldn't bother responding to an email etc |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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op, get the staff or anyone to veri you..different kettle of fish on here to clubs, if you want someone regular or to swing with or whatever as well as clubs, make sure you put it on your profile..i go to lots of clubs and i have meets off of here too, different approaches for different folks, but veris WILL help you no matter where you source them, clubs or private meets..keep having fun x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey am I doing something wrong on here? I managed to do quite good at clubs but I'm struggling on here, can anyone give me any advice?
Lack of verifications is always a massive red flag to me and I would question your "success" at clubs so wouldn't bother responding to an email etc "
Club owners will verify if asked. That is if one really was at the club
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I found it abit weird to ask right after oh can you verify me on fab haha so didn't bother "
You don't have to be that blunt about it, we often swap IDs with people we get on with if nothing else to keep in touch and add to our friends list. If you don't want to ask in person drop a message, say thanks for a good evening, say you'll write them a veri (assuming they display them) and most people would return the favour. Or simply message thanking them and ask if they'd mind writing you one.
If we'd played with or even socialised with a single guy who was getting started we wouldn't have any problem being asked for a veri, either at the end of the evening or by message later. |
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