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"Thanks for that I will edit and make it more realistic and not vein looking I certainly can't be choosy " Yes you can ! Don't make the mistake of coming across as one that will fuck anything . | |||
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"Profile seems fine to me.... Adjusting our expectation to the reality of what we offer and expect is a key component in avoiding frustration "Thanks for the comment | |||
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"OP your profile is very much centered around you, I lost count of the amount of times you say I. You want your fantasies fulfilled but you don't say what they are. What do you find attractive in a potential meet apart from a pair of boobs? You are allowed to be picky so try tailoring your profile to the kind of people you are looking to meet. You won't appeal to everyone and that's ok, concentrate on those people that you will appeal to." This is great! How about you write it for me.... I'm crap with words.... just good with my hands  | |||
"I'd remove the cock pics and add some mystery and honesty to your profile. Your looking for the stereotypical perfect woman.... Each lady is beautiful in their own way. " Here's Johnny. Good advice mon Capitan | |||
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"Thanks for that I will edit and make it more realistic and not vein looking I certainly can't be choosy " Actually I prefer it when people are choosy, rather than "anything that breathes will do". | |||
"I'd remove the cock pics and add some mystery and honesty to your profile. Your looking for the stereotypical perfect woman.... Each lady is beautiful in their own way. " Wish people would stop advising men to remove cock pics from their profile. I love cock pictures. | |||
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"Your profile is very much about what you want not what you offer. Cock pics don't go down well with most, ones with cum are even less popular. The fact that youre not around much want help, building rapport is important. " cock pics win | |||
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"If I may ask OP, do you actively search for potential meets or are you hoping that they will seek you out? The reason that I ask this is that there seems to be quite a focus on whether your profile is working and pretty much nothing on how you are going about getting meets. Yes, your profile is incredibly important. Certainly anyone you message is likely to look at it before even considering to open your message, but the way it reads, at least the way it does to me, is very much focused on the 'visitor' rather than the 'visited'. Allow me to explain what I mean. As you have focused very much on what YOU want rather than what you can offer, it projects from a position of an assumption of desirability. In other words, it makes the assumption that someone has sought you out and that if they are reading your profile then they must surely be keen on meeting you. Unfortunately, given the disproportionate ratio on fab between single men and single ladies, and couples, you're already likely to be on a hiding to nothing with this approach. I'm not saying that you can't have preferences or standards, but it's how you put this across that is key (as well as Patience of course - Shag will be along later with his pearls of wisdom) Don't make the mistake of attempting to appeal to everyone - you will end up appealing to no-one. In other words, if you try to appeal to everyone, you will give the impression that you will shag anyone - and that is rather unattractive. Going back to my first point, much of what has been said rally does lead me to the assumption that you are expending very little effort to get meets. You state that you work very long hours, so, from that, I would deduce that you don't get on here much - which, I would accept, doesn't give you much time to do any searching for potential meets. By the same token, your profile will be more visible when you are online - simply because of how the search facility works. I get far more views on days when I logon to fab than on days when I don't, so expecting people to find you while you're working is really extreme wishful thinking. Again, going back to the numbers thing. Given there are around 100 single males to every single female on fab (yes, it really is that high a ratio), many of these ladies are literally inundated with messages on a daily basis. Often they simply don't have enough time to get through them all, let alone go searching for men who can't be bothered to put in the effort. Think of it this way. If you had 150 messages in your inbox, all from people interested in playing with you, would you ignore them and go looking for people who might, or even might not be interested? No, you wouldn't, and nor will they. Be pro-active. Get searching and get messaging. Effort in = rewards out. Mate this is very good advice so thanks for that I will take it in and focus on said points accordingly Cheers " | |||
"I'd remove the cock pics and add some mystery and honesty to your profile. Your looking for the stereotypical perfect woman.... Each lady is beautiful in their own way. Wish people would stop advising men to remove cock pics from their profile. I love cock pictures. " To be honest I agree with u, why wouldn't you want to see the goods before trying? | |||
"OP - the ladies like torsos thighs bums and shoulders - crack on with that and I'm sure you'll get interest "He tells no lies. Well... this one does anyway.  | |||
"OP - the ladies like torsos thighs bums and shoulders - crack on with that and I'm sure you'll get interest "Cheers bear of the polar variety  | |||
"Princess Peach..... oi oi "F#cking chips" "Big Mac as well son, I'm starving | |||
"OP - the ladies like torsos thighs bums and shoulders - crack on with that and I'm sure you'll get interest
He tells no lies. Well... this one does anyway. "Forgot it was the finger that you liked Peach! | |||
"I'd remove the cock pics and add some mystery and honesty to your profile. Your looking for the stereotypical perfect woman.... Each lady is beautiful in their own way. Wish people would stop advising men to remove cock pics from their profile. I love cock pictures. " So do we | |||
"OP - the ladies like torsos thighs bums and shoulders - crack on with that and I'm sure you'll get interest
He tells no lies. Well... this one does anyway.
Forgot it was the finger that you liked Peach! "Flutter | |||
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"It certainly is 'vein' looking " | |||
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"Poetry, you need to write poetry "Tis a winner for sure. | |||
"Princess Peach..... oi oi "F#cking chips"
Big Mac as well son, I'm starving "Dont forget the Strawberry shake too | |||
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"Thanks for that I will edit and make it more realistic and not vein looking I certainly can't be choosy Actually I prefer it when people are choosy, rather than "anything that breathes will do". " No inbetween then? People either shag anything with a pulse or just sit and wait to kiss a frog? Very realistic. Not.  | |||
"It certainly is 'vein' looking
"I thought it was quite witty because it has pointers to both your 2 penis photos and your text as well as being a homophone in its own right. | |||
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I'll come back with more negative things later if you need more. | |||
"Hi all, So I appreciate what I am about to say, may get replies I'd rather not get, but I want honesty and advice so hit me with it. (Gently lol) I have been here a while now, and had one very good meet. Why have I not had more? Is it my profile? Images? ...... you tell me? Now I don't have much spare time as I work seriously long hours so I don't get to come on as often as I would like. But I'd like to think I'd get some interest.....? Any advice will be gratefully taken Bach " I've seen far worse profiles tbh... However you don't actually say that you're single... This helps if you explain your situation and where and how you can accommodate... Hence there is a question in people's minds... Second you've only one verification a long time ago... Another red flag. You're not actually meeting Fabbers so it's a problem. Solution... Go to clubs and you can get at least three verification for each visit | |||
"Hi all, So I appreciate what I am about to say, may get replies I'd rather not get, but I want honesty and advice so hit me with it. (Gently lol) I have been here a while now, and had one very good meet. Why have I not had more? Is it my profile? Images? ...... you tell me? Now I don't have much spare time as I work seriously long hours so I don't get to come on as often as I would like. But I'd like to think I'd get some interest.....? Any advice will be gratefully taken Bach " Great to see a famous composer on hear .. try uploading a toccata or two  | |||
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"I'd remove the cock pics and add some mystery and honesty to your profile. Your looking for the stereotypical perfect woman.... Each lady is beautiful in their own way. Wish people would stop advising men to remove cock pics from their profile. I love cock pictures. " Thank goodness there are a few like you around | |||
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"I'd remove the cock pics and add some mystery and honesty to your profile. Your looking for the stereotypical perfect woman.... Each lady is beautiful in their own way. " Nice pics you have a great body. | |||
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