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By *rixiesw OP TV/TS
over a year ago
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Clearly this cannot simply happen. Therefore, I am looking for a guy or guys to come with me to a Sexual health clinic for testing. Once we all know we are clean then we can enjoy safe bareback. I am also looking for a guy or guys to share my house in Somerset. Lodgers with benefits. Well one can dream x  |
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over a year ago
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"Clearly this cannot simply happen. Therefore, I am looking for a guy or guys to come with me to a Sexual health clinic for testing. Once we all know we are clean then we can enjoy safe bareback. I am also looking for a guy or guys to share my house in Somerset. Lodgers with benefits. Well one can dream x "
The issue I see is, even if you all attend a clinic together, are you then going to lock them up until they get their results? |
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By *rixiesw OP TV/TS
over a year ago
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I think we can all agree that there is no 100% guarantee of anything.
But clearly if both parties are in agreement and all reasonable precautions are taken, it's as safe as it can be.
Even if you are in a long term or married situation, you done know what the other is up to 24/7 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The thing is, you can go and get tested and get your results in 4 hours in some places, but it'll be no guarantee of them actually having a clear result... Incubation periods are a real danger (esp when it comes to HIV) and the viral load is always at its peak during the first few months of contracting the virus...
I'd say (seeing you're a TV and you are clearly seeking unprotected anal penetration) it's a rather risky thing with a test in hand or without. At the end you'll just have to take their word and assumed status.
You're a grown up, I'm sure you'll make an informed decision and have fun either way(: but just do sit down with yourself a little and consider the potential consequences of a pleasurable few hours...
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By *rixiesw OP TV/TS
over a year ago
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It's lovely to read a well considered reply to my post. Thanks. x
I do wish it was possible as I would so like to find that right person for naughty wet fun. That said? Looks like its condom city all the way. Just have to settle for a nice cum facial / shower.
Not all bad x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's lovely to read a well considered reply to my post. Thanks. x
I do wish it was possible as I would so like to find that right person for naughty wet fun. That said? Looks like its condom city all the way. Just have to settle for a nice cum facial / shower.
Not all bad x "
 that's the spirit!
And who knows, you may even end up acquiring an ongoing play partner which could result in more assured fun if you decide to slack your rules on protection! (: |
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Hiv can have a 12 week undetectable incubation period, and still be infectious to others in that time. In theory if someone was infected 11 weeks before being tested, they could pass the test and then remain oblivious until the next test 12 weeks later ie 23 weeks.
I guess your post is 1/2 fantasy but maybe get some friendly detailed advice from people more expert than us x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Clearly this cannot simply happen. Therefore, I am looking for a guy or guys to come with me to a Sexual health clinic for testing. Once we all know we are clean then we can enjoy safe bareback. I am also looking for a guy or guys to share my house in Somerset. Lodgers with benefits. Well one can dream x "
You seem a little misguided as to how testing works. It's a snapshot of the moment you're tested and they don't test for everything. It won't pick up on things you and your potential partners may have been exposed to that's still in the incubation period. And if any of you fuck anyone else between getting tested and getting the results it's pointless.
Far better to also have discussions about safer sex practices and decide what level if risk is acceptable to you. |
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"Clearly this cannot simply happen. Therefore, I am looking for a guy or guys to come with me to a Sexual health clinic for testing. Once we all know we are clean then we can enjoy safe bareback. I am also looking for a guy or guys to share my house in Somerset. Lodgers with benefits. Well one can dream x
You seem a little misguided as to how testing works. It's a snapshot of the moment you're tested and they don't test for everything. It won't pick up on things you and your potential partners may have been exposed to that's still in the incubation period. And if any of you fuck anyone else between getting tested and getting the results it's pointless.
Far better to also have discussions about safer sex practices and decide what level if risk is acceptable to you. "
Couldn't have put it better. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Clearly this cannot simply happen. Therefore, I am looking for a guy or guys to come with me to a Sexual health clinic for testing. Once we all know we are clean then we can enjoy safe bareback. I am also looking for a guy or guys to share my house in Somerset. Lodgers with benefits. Well one can dream x "
Hi Trixie,
For HIV you can look at preventive medicine, though it may cost you.
http://www.tht.org.uk/sexual-health/About-HIV/Pre-exposure-Prophylaxis
And post-exposure medicine
http://www.tht.org.uk/sexual-health/About-HIV/Post-exposure-prophylaxis
That isn't the only "nasty" about, however, and gonorrhea has a drug-resistant variant which is doing the rounds. So what used to be a dose of the clap may result in a very nasty infection, hospitalisation or worse.
The question is, as others have said, who to trust. It's a tricky one when swinging because, by definition, we are all "at it". But in the end that's what you are perhaps going to need to do - work out who you can trust.
Your suggestion of a few weeks of safe sex isn't daft either - if you have been to bed with someone many times and not contracted any of the diseases you can get through other forms of contact then you know they aren't a regular factory of infection - but you'll never be sure.
(We are going through a similar decision process at the moment and not finding it any easier than you so good luck.)
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By *ptimusDMan
over a year ago
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Unprotected sex is always a risk, even amongst couples that are meant to be exclusive to each other.
As much as you may not want to contemplate it, you're not tied at the hip to people you have unprotected sex with, so you can never know where they've been.
That being said, I'm not an activist against bareback sex. Consenting adults can make their own choices as long as they're willing to accept the consequences if it turns out to be unpleasant.
The OP's idea is novel. If you can find people that'll go through all that exercise for bareback sex with you, then you better put up one hell of a performance when play starts  |
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It is always tell dream to find a group of people you trust completely for bareback sex. But in today's world, it's not going to happen unless you're on a desert island with them.
It's a fab fantasy to have a few guys and gals, and fuck them bareback every which way, bi and straight. But the risks are just way too high.
As the Romans used to say "a night with Venus and a lifetime with Mercury"
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By *rixiesw OP TV/TS
over a year ago
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"hello I am very interested in this! and a few more reasons behind it too could we chat and see what sort of things you thinking of and where you are in Somerset?
I am just outside street "
Hi Jake.
For some reason I cannot message you. Any idea why? |
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By *rixiesw OP TV/TS
over a year ago
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"could you unhide your profile so I can sent you a message? all my settings are fine and should let anyone message me"
Having checked? I have you on my blocked list. Must have been good reason as i dont block lightly.?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For once a sensible thread on the subject... All the opinions on here have been thoughtfully written no matter what they are saying... If only other threads were like this |
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