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over a year ago
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Hi all, just looking for a bit of advice really. My gf isn't to enthusiastic about having anal sex but loves being rimmed and enjoys me fingering her ass and very recently during sex she has even asked me to gently finger her ass. Does this mean she's leaning more towards the idea of anal? If so how would you approach the subject of anal sex or should I just hold out in the hope that one day she forwardly asks for anal.
Any (sensible) advice would be massively appreciated.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Talk to her, none of us can possibly know what she's thinking and feeling.
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Fair point. She didn't enjoy her ass being fingered but then began to enjoy it and now openly says she likes it and asks me to do it so I'm guessing that's a sign... |
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"Talk to her, none of us can possibly know what she's thinking and feeling.
Fair point. She didn't enjoy her ass being fingered but then began to enjoy it and now openly says she likes it and asks me to do it so I'm guessing that's a sign..."
The only thing its a sign of is that she likes her arse being fingered. Why not ask her if she might consider anal sex at some point or have a look at some small anal toys together. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Talk to her, none of us can possibly know what she's thinking and feeling.
Fair point. She didn't enjoy her ass being fingered but then began to enjoy it and now openly says she likes it and asks me to do it so I'm guessing that's a sign...
The only thing its a sign of is that she likes her arse being fingered. Why not ask her if she might consider anal sex at some point or have a look at some small anal toys together."
Yup I agree with what you're saying. I guess I'll have to bite the bullet and talk to her about it. Don't know if I don't ask... |
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"Talk to her, none of us can possibly know what she's thinking and feeling.
Fair point. She didn't enjoy her ass being fingered but then began to enjoy it and now openly says she likes it and asks me to do it so I'm guessing that's a sign...
The only thing its a sign of is that she likes her arse being fingered. Why not ask her if she might consider anal sex at some point or have a look at some small anal toys together.
Yup I agree with what you're saying. I guess I'll have to bite the bullet and talk to her about it. Don't know if I don't ask..."
Its difficult isn't it. You're making yourself vulnerable and opening up to the possibility of rejection. But if you can't do that with your partner...then who?  |
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All you can do is talk to her, she knows you want to try it just don't pressure her let her take things at her pace. By the sounds of it she is wanting to experiment more just not that far yet, I agree suggesting toys is a good way forward let her pick some and take it from there. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You could always use the terribly amusing line...
"It's easier to beg for forgiveness, than ask for permission"...
Just make sure you lube up!
Flames"
Lol, I like your style |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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We'll guys...going on your advice (most of the advice given) I spoke to my girlfriend over the weekend and high to you advisors...I gave it to her up the back door and it was amazing. So much so that I shot a load up her ass in minutes and she gushed pretty damn quick too. Woop woop |
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"You could always use the terribly amusing line...
"It's easier to beg for forgiveness, than ask for permission"...
Just make sure you lube up!
Flames"
Exactly, you can always say "i was aiming for the other hole, they are quite close together you know" |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi all, just looking for a bit of advice really. My gf isn't to enthusiastic about having anal sex but loves being rimmed and enjoys me fingering her ass and very recently during sex she has even asked me to gently finger her ass. Does this mean she's leaning more towards the idea of anal? If so how would you approach the subject of anal sex or should I just hold out in the hope that one day she forwardly asks for anal.
Any (sensible) advice would be massively appreciated.
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accidentally slide a courgette in one day and see what she says if she objects just say well it is one of yer 5 a day |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Hi all, just looking for a bit of advice really. My gf isn't to enthusiastic about having anal sex but loves being rimmed and enjoys me fingering her ass and very recently during sex she has even asked me to gently finger her ass. Does this mean she's leaning more towards the idea of anal? If so how would you approach the subject of anal sex or should I just hold out in the hope that one day she forwardly asks for anal.
Any (sensible) advice would be massively appreciated.
accidentally slide a courgette in one day and see what she says if she objects just say well it is one of yer 5 a day "
Haha. Superb  |
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"Does she know your bi? If so let her fuck your arse first...
Only prob is that I'm top guy
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No lovely...if you want to give a female in my opinion you should experience it too. Our arseholes are the same. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So when is she coming on fab for some 3 way fun?
I wish hun. She's not open to that idea at all 
Have you asked? Similar to the anal fun maybe it just needs that open conversation. "
I've brought it up in conversation a number of times and she really doesn't like the idea. I love the idea but she really doesn't. Lol |
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"So when is she coming on fab for some 3 way fun?
I wish hun. She's not open to that idea at all
Have you asked? Similar to the anal fun maybe it just needs that open conversation.
I've brought it up in conversation a number of times and she really doesn't like the idea. I love the idea but she really doesn't. Lol"
Maybe you are just not suited |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So when is she coming on fab for some 3 way fun?
I wish hun. She's not open to that idea at all
Have you asked? Similar to the anal fun maybe it just needs that open conversation.
I've brought it up in conversation a number of times and she really doesn't like the idea. I love the idea but she really doesn't. Lol
Maybe you are just not suited"
I'm pretty sure we're suited but there's some things I would like in the bedroom which she isn't keen on. I wouldn't say that means we're not suit. |
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"So when is she coming on fab for some 3 way fun?
I wish hun. She's not open to that idea at all
Have you asked? Similar to the anal fun maybe it just needs that open conversation. "
Candy some women are just not interested. No porn,photos, lingerie and never bought a sex toy themselves etc. I was promised the shyness would relax. 16 years later I tap my fingers with waiting lol. There is more to life than sex, but not much more lol |
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We'll since I created this post me and my gf have been having regular anal sex, a few times a week now. At first I thought she was doing it to make me happy but she's forwardly asking me to give it her. Lesson learnt, if you don't talk openly then you'll never know. |
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"We'll since I created this post me and my gf have been having regular anal sex, a few times a week now. At first I thought she was doing it to make me happy but she's forwardly asking me to give it her. Lesson learnt, if you don't talk openly then you'll never know. "
If you don't put pictures on your profile then it didn't happen bro |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We'll since I created this post me and my gf have been having regular anal sex, a few times a week now. At first I thought she was doing it to make me happy but she's forwardly asking me to give it her. Lesson learnt, if you don't talk openly then you'll never know.
If you don't put pictures on your profile then it didn't happen bro"
Haha fair point, give me a chance though lol...only just got her to have anal sex, taking pics is then next thing on the list haha |
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"We'll since I created this post me and my gf have been having regular anal sex, a few times a week now. At first I thought she was doing it to make me happy but she's forwardly asking me to give it her. Lesson learnt, if you don't talk openly then you'll never know.
If you don't put pictures on your profile then it didn't happen bro
Haha fair point, give me a chance though lol...only just got her to have anal sex, taking pics is then next thing on the list haha "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We'll since I created this post me and my gf have been having regular anal sex, a few times a week now. At first I thought she was doing it to make me happy but she's forwardly asking me to give it her. Lesson learnt, if you don't talk openly then you'll never know.
If you don't put pictures on your profile then it didn't happen bro
Haha fair point, give me a chance though lol...only just got her to have anal sex, taking pics is then next thing on the list haha
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"A woman has a pussy for a reason. The fact that you are attracted to analyse makes you a closet gay. Be brave and cum out of the closet!"
As they say, every hole and all that. So you trying to say that if a guy wants to give a woman anal sex then he's bi/gay. Ok then mate, if you say so  |
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"A woman has a pussy for a reason. The fact that you are attracted to analyse makes you a closet gay. Be brave and cum out of the closet!
As they say, every hole and all that. So you trying to say that if a guy wants to give a woman anal sex then he's bi/gay. Ok then mate, if you say so "
Yeah women have a pussy for a reason, to make babies. When you want good sex you go for the nearby hole. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"A woman has a pussy for a reason. The fact that you are attracted to analyse makes you a closet gay. Be brave and cum out of the closet!
As they say, every hole and all that. So you trying to say that if a guy wants to give a woman anal sex then he's bi/gay. Ok then mate, if you say so
Yeah women have a pussy for a reason, to make babies. When you want good sex you go for the nearby hole. "
Exactly. We'll said  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"A woman has a pussy for a reason. The fact that you are attracted to analyse makes you a closet gay. Be brave and cum out of the closet!"
Next you'll be saying wanking makes you a closet gay as it involves playing with a cock! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"She seemed to be loving it when we saw her in the Attic being banged up the ass by a few guys..."
Think you've got the wrong person there lol. We were in Spain for the past 10 days |
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"She seemed to be loving it when we saw her in the Attic being banged up the ass by a few guys...
Think you've got the wrong person there lol. We were in Spain for the past 10 days"
Has she got a sister? |
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"We'll guys...going on your advice (most of the advice given) I spoke to my girlfriend over the weekend and high to you advisors...I gave it to her up the back door and it was amazing. So much so that I shot a load up her ass in minutes and she gushed pretty damn quick too. Woop woop "
What does she think of your Fab profile? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We'll guys...going on your advice (most of the advice given) I spoke to my girlfriend over the weekend and high to you advisors...I gave it to her up the back door and it was amazing. So much so that I shot a load up her ass in minutes and she gushed pretty damn quick too. Woop woop
What does she think of your Fab profile? "
What she doesn't know cannot hurt her, surely |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We'll since I created this post me and my gf have been having regular anal sex, a few times a week now. At first I thought she was doing it to make me happy but she's forwardly asking me to give it her. Lesson learnt, if you don't talk openly then you'll never know.
If you don't put pictures on your profile then it didn't happen bro"
Cheeky
And if you don't invite me when you are doing it, it was all a fantasy only. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We'll since I created this post me and my gf have been having regular anal sex, a few times a week now. At first I thought she was doing it to make me happy but she's forwardly asking me to give it her. Lesson learnt, if you don't talk openly then you'll never know.
If you don't put pictures on your profile then it didn't happen bro
Haha fair point, give me a chance though lol...only just got her to have anal sex, taking pics is then next thing on the list haha "
First, invite me for a pro massage.
I won't touch her inappropriately,I promise!
But you'll get to observe her reaction to another man's touch... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"think you need a lesson on how to grow a set of balls "
Obviously you've not read the whole thread have you mate. Perhaps you ought to learn to read
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I was under the impression that all girls like anal...some of them just don't know it yet?!"
Lol, like my gf. We gave it a try and now I get to give her a regular ass fuck |
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