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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi all, I just wondered what peoples thoughts are on what to say in the first message to people? As this is a swingers site, just wondered if people engage in normal chat like on a dating site or people get straight into sex talk? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Obviously send them a picture of a cock and tell them how much damage you want to do 
I just talk, pick summat you can use to say more than 'hey', then see whether there's common ground.
Its just a conversation, nothing else. No different to how you'd talk to someone in the pub really |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"im in the same boat i normally message them saying hi how's your day been is that too bland if tried different things nothing seems to work  "
That is the most boring message to receive and only deserves to be deleted . Lacks imagination and smacks of insincerity. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"im in the same boat i normally message them saying hi how's your day been is that too bland if tried different things nothing seems to work
That is the most boring message to receive and only deserves to be deleted . Lacks imagination and smacks of insincerity. "
You know, really it's usually 'shit, what do I say!' lol
It's quite daunting sometimes.. or it can be |
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When we send initial messages to people we make a reference to their profile rather than saying "How was your day/weekend" or referencing a status they may have at that time as many like us may not get around to replying for some time (days/weeks later) due to the number of messages received so it may no longer be relevant so we tend to delete messages like that when we get to them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know he feeling I have sent a few messages being polite, (which is how I am in general), he'll I even tried to spark convo never works.
But it's nice when the reply with "not interested Thankyou" well along those lines which is really appreciated.
Open for conversation help |
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