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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It dont half wear you out being new on here! The last couple of months I've felt like a door to door double glazing salesman!
Still in search of that ever elusive first meet!
If anyone can offer me advise it will be gratefully received
T |
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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago
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"It dont half wear you out being new on here! The last couple of months I've felt like a door to door double glazing salesman!
Still in search of that ever elusive first meet!
If anyone can offer me advise it will be gratefully received
T"
Many women gets masses of messages of guys on here.
In my experience (I've been here six years), you're far more likely to strike up a connection with a woman that contacts you because she likes your profile.
Pics are therefore very important, I'd say.
I wouldn't bother sending a message to a woman unless there's a real sense that you match what she is looking for exactly. I probably send two a year  .
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By *awty40_xxWoman
over a year ago
north lanarkshire |
"Hi both, thanks fir the reply. When I message, I send a number of pictures, so didn't think that would matter?
Am I wrong about that?
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If people are browsing and come across your profile most would move as theres nothing to show them what you look like, your profile is your shop window |
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"Friend only images won't help.
Good luck with the site."
This, first thing I do and most others is look at the profile before opening the message. Nothing on the profile message deleted.
What is wrong with putting on some tasteful body shots. Give people something to think about. |
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By *issVeryWoman
over a year ago
streatham |
"Hi both, thanks fir the reply. When I message, I send a number of pictures, so didn't think that would matter?
Am I wrong about that?
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I look at the profile and the pics before I open the message, so agree with above, friend only is not helpful. |
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Explain to me in what way does telling a potential sexual partner that you were on before but it didn't work out be sexually alluring and tempting?
"Mmmmmm he was on before but it didn't work out - I bet he's good in bed!"
See what I mean? Try seeing it from a ladies point of view.
And public pics. |
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"Was very underwhelmed so sacked it off". Not an inspiring or erotic thought. You are 6 foot 6. Lots of ladies like tall men so why not put that first as a positive rather than your current negative opening paragraph? And you definitely need a couple of public pics. Good luck.
Sally |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hi both, thanks fir the reply. When I message, I send a number of pictures, so didn't think that would matter?
Am I wrong about that?
If people are browsing and come across your profile most would move as theres nothing to show them what you look like, your profile is your shop window"
I get what your saying, but judging by the "who looked at me" I'm not getting many women looking at me. Plenty of men though! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"mentioning a previous meet that did not go well is of little interest to others"
Right ok, that's more as the preamble to the next paragraph. I thought it was worthwhile in context. I'll have a review |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi both, thanks fir the reply. When I message, I send a number of pictures, so didn't think that would matter?
Am I wrong about that?
If people are browsing and come across your profile most would move as theres nothing to show them what you look like, your profile is your shop window
I get what your saying, but judging by the "who looked at me" I'm not getting many women looking at me. Plenty of men though! "
Stealth viewing |
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By *awty40_xxWoman
over a year ago
north lanarkshire |
"Hi both, thanks fir the reply. When I message, I send a number of pictures, so didn't think that would matter?
Am I wrong about that?
If people are browsing and come across your profile most would move as theres nothing to show them what you look like, your profile is your shop window
I get what your saying, but judging by the "who looked at me" I'm not getting many women looking at me. Plenty of men though! "
Most women look in stealth mode so wont show up |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hi both, thanks fir the reply. When I message, I send a number of pictures, so didn't think that would matter?
Am I wrong about that?
If people are browsing and come across your profile most would move as theres nothing to show them what you look like, your profile is your shop window
I get what your saying, but judging by the "who looked at me" I'm not getting many women looking at me. Plenty of men though!
Stealth viewing "
I had no idea that was even a thing? |
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