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Hi and help!

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Hi all I'm James and I'm in London looking for either FWB or NSA I'm usually Dom but enjoy vanilla as well and may even be willing to be sub for the right Mistress!

I could use some help with my profile if anyone is so obliged I've tried to keep it real and honest and when I message others I try and do the same (always read the profile first!) and I more often then not include a face pic!

However I've yet to receive a reply or a message so if anyone could give me a reason or two why it would be greatly appreciated! (I'm always open to constructive criticism!)

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

To be fair your profile's not bad and reads ok, would maybe remove the bit about earning well and wanting to spoil people as it comes across a little like you'd be willing to buy someone's affections.

Your pics could be better though, maybe take some that show off your body better, although don't fall into the trap of thinking a cock pic will be a good idea, to most it's not.

The biggest thing to consider though is you've only been here a week, membership of the site is not a guarantee of instant gratification, and it usually takes time to find and get chatting to people. Some single guys are here for months and longer without so much as a reply, so you need to make yourself stand out with decent profile blurb and pics as much as you can.

Other ways of meeting/getting to know people are attending clubs/socials or getting more active in the forums, you'd be amazed at how often doing that can spark conversations.

Good luck