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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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Your age may be a factor OP, but there are plenty who are looking for younger guys, so it doesn't rule you out completely.
Just remember the three P's:
Profile - Write one that helps you stand out from the crowd, shows off your personality, tells people who you are, what you're looking for, and most importantly what you can offer.
Pictures - Take some that show off your body, not your cock.
Patience - As a single guy, you're in the majority of users of this site, so getting meets will take time and patience for most of that group.
Remember (and act where necessary) all of those, and you'll be on the right lines, but nothing is guaranteed.
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Your text says a different age to your stats.
You're in a significant majority on fab and as such need to make your profile as interesting as possible. You need to be patient but going to socials and clubs will get you meeting people socially. Join in the forums too.
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"Just asking if people could have a look at my page and see if i could need with a change? No one ever replys is it my age?"
If people are interested they will reply if not its easier not to as a no thanks leads to but why then but please. If you are not getting peoples interest then the answer is simple change it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No one looks, chats or anything.
I've been here months and only met one person to talk to. And she was the person who introduced me to fab. "
Follow the sound advice above. Only you can change your luck here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks for the advice however it seems to make more sense to stop paying for something you don't get anything out of" so you were thinking oh I'll go on fab pay the fee and all the woman will drop their knickers for me .. shame it don't work that way xx go to clubs meet ppl there
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just looked at your profile trucker who just happens to be in the area come to my truck omg no wonder your not getting meets do u realise how cheap that could make a woman feel it's a swinging site not a hook up for truckers |
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"Just looked at your profile trucker who just happens to be in the area come to my truck omg no wonder your not getting meets do u realise how cheap that could make a woman feel it's a swinging site not a hook up for truckers "
There are people out there who do these types of meets though, each to their Many ways people use the site obviously somethings will appeal more to some than others. |
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"Thanks for the advice however it seems to make more sense to stop paying for something you don't get anything out ofso you were thinking oh I'll go on fab pay the fee and all the woman will drop their knickers for me .. shame it don't work that way xx go to clubs meet ppl there "
Still pay there and not guaranteed |
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Be prepared to wait a long time brother theres a hundred blokes for every female on here. Better still just jack it its easier to meet women the conventional way. Mostly just chat on here and thats prolly with elderly men most of the time. Ha! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love these posts, Fab is no different to a bar, if you can beat the competition in a bar due to being better looking/more charming/funnier then you're likely to succeed here!
Survival of the fittest my friend! Joining isn't a ticket to free sex! |
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"go to clubs meet ppl there "
It's even more expensive to visit a club as a single guy, and there's possibly even less chance of 'fun'. Make the block button your friend; cut out all the profiles who don't meet what YOU are looking for, and block everyone who deletes your thought-out, and well-written messages. At some point your individual slice of Fab will narrow down to a slim selection, making it easier to concentrate on actual, potential matches for YOU, rather than feeling like a cat among the pigeons, and getting nowhere |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just asking if people could have a look at my page and see if i could need with a change? No one ever replys is it my age?"
I can see the problem without even looking at your profile: you're a single male!
Practise jumping through multiple sets of hoops, writing individually crafted epistles that are better than any published writings by world-renowned authors and more patience than a wildlife photographer waiting to see a snow leopard and you will soon be doing as well as the rest of us. |
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By *edzyWoman
over a year ago
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"Thanks for the advice however it seems to make more sense to stop paying for something you don't get anything out of"
You can't accommodate so presumably you're married? Lots of women are not interested in that. |
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"Thanks for the advice however it seems to make more sense to stop paying for something you don't get anything out of
You can't accommodate so presumably you're married? Lots of women are not interested in that."
Using your logic that presumably means you're also married |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most guys don't get replies to messages as the women get that many they can be as fussys as they like so it is like winning lotto just have to hope it your lucky day .
I've got my fingers crossed but don't expect anything is my advise then you cannot be disappointed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I love these posts, Fab is no different to a bar, if you can beat the competition in a bar due to being better looking/more charming/funnier then you're likely to succeed here!
Survival of the fittest my friend! Joining isn't a ticket to free sex! "
Agree with this
These post really do wind me up. No one owes you anything... If you truly want to be a part of the swinging scene then fab is just the tip of the iceberg... There's so much more to it than this website. Clubs, events, parties... Ever been to any?
The swinging community welcomes everyone but it's a fact that single men have to put in that little more effort to stand out. Meet people, build a circle of swinging friends then go from there.
Quick one night hookups are here but they are few and far between... There's plenty of sites if that's what you want.
Good luck op
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No one looks, chats or anything.
I've been here months and only met one person to talk to. And she was the person who introduced me to fab. "
That is not true
Just because you have not meet anyone, does not mean that people do not meet other people
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Most guys don't get replies to messages as the women get that many they can be as fussys as they like so it is like winning lotto just have to hope it your lucky day .
I've got my fingers crossed but don't expect anything is my advise then you cannot be disappointed."
Nothing to do with being 'fussy'
If I am only attracted to 6'+ men in the vanilla world, then irrespective of the fact that there may be 10 million under 6' men to choose from, I would not be interested in any one of them
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I love these posts, Fab is no different to a bar, if you can beat the competition in a bar due to being better looking/more charming/funnier then you're likely to succeed here!
Survival of the fittest my friend! Joining isn't a ticket to free sex! "
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