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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Joined site a few days ago, had virtually so replies, I wouldn't class myself as unnatractive.. is it my age? Or is my profile not set up to satisfaction? Any feedback appreciated

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By *ink Panther.Woman  over a year ago

Preston

Where's Shag? Need his words of wisdom lol

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By *op gooserMan  over a year ago

chester


"Joined site a few days ago, had virtually so replies, I wouldn't class myself as unnatractive.. is it my age? Or is my profile not set up to satisfaction? Any feedback appreciated"
Name isn't good for a start, let everybody know you smoke .

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Literally spent 20 minutes looking for a name that wasn't taken ??

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By *edangel_2013Woman  over a year ago

southend

I think you need to take a close look at your expectations.

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By *alandNitaCouple  over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Joined site a few days ago, had virtually so replies, I wouldn't class myself as unnatractive.. is it my age? Or is my profile not set up to satisfaction? Any feedback appreciated"

I suspect that you're username would put off loads of people. Certainly for us, if your first thought when choosing a username was advertising that you like to smoke ... we'd not look any further.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Not enough dick pics,

Profiles too long,

Your messages may not be up to standard, a quick 'FAF?' works wonders,

Etc,

Etc.

Sarcasm helps, too.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Joined site a few days ago, had virtually so replies, I wouldn't class myself as unnatractive.. is it my age? Or is my profile not set up to satisfaction? Any feedback appreciated"

Dude, most will ignore you without verification let alone message you. It's a struggle. Be patient. Maybe go to a club or social to get noticed.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Your username - immediate 'No' from me regardless of profile and pics

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By *op gooserMan  over a year ago

chester


"Literally spent 20 minutes looking for a name that wasn't taken ??"
Well you should of spent more time, that name is so alienating when you wanna reach a broad demographic.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman  over a year ago

evesham


"Joined site a few days ago, had virtually so replies, I wouldn't class myself as unnatractive.. is it my age? Or is my profile not set up to satisfaction? Any feedback appreciated Name isn't good for a start, let everybody know you smoke . "

I'd rather know he did up front so I can make an informed decision on whether I want to meet him or not.

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By *opsy RogersWoman  over a year ago

London

Your profile is perfect and tells me everything I need to know.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Absolutely would not look any further than the username. Totally off putting.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Where's Shag? Need his words of wisdom lol "

'Patience is the key lol'

Copyright@Shag-2017

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Joined site a few days ago, had virtually so replies, I wouldn't class myself as unnatractive.. is it my age? Or is my profile not set up to satisfaction? Any feedback appreciated Name isn't good for a start, let everybody know you smoke . "

This

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By *op gooserMan  over a year ago

chester


"Joined site a few days ago, had virtually so replies, I wouldn't class myself as unnatractive.. is it my age? Or is my profile not set up to satisfaction? Any feedback appreciated Name isn't good for a start, let everybody know you smoke .

I'd rather know he did up front so I can make an informed decision on whether I want to meet him or not. "

Usually people will write it on their profile but as his username wasn't already taken it shows they aren't stupid enough to name themselves it

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By *emini ManMan  over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Joined site a few days ago, had virtually so replies, I wouldn't class myself as unnatractive.. is it my age? Or is my profile not set up to satisfaction? Any feedback appreciated"

Not sure if you've changed your username or if I'm just not hip with the latest terms for being a grass smoker - but your current username isn't great.

You joined the site a week ago, which is no time at all in Fab terms, it takes some people months, even years to get a meet.

People will look at your profile first before reading a message, let alone replying to it, and if they don't like what they see will invariably delete the message unread. So take a look at your profile and ask how well it sells you, do you have a variety of pics that show off your body and aren't just your cock? Does your profile blurb tell the reader who you are, what you're looking for and what you can offer?

If the answer to those is "no" then that's where you need to focus first.

Good luck

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By *andm_69Couple  over a year ago

Stevenage


"Joined site a few days ago, had virtually so replies, I wouldn't class myself as unnatractive.. is it my age? Or is my profile not set up to satisfaction? Any feedback appreciated"

Another Instashag person.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Your "meet me" you have posted asking girls if they want to get drilled out might not be very attractive to alot of women

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By *inkySlinkyCouple  over a year ago

Leeds


"Your "meet me" you have posted asking girls if they want to get drilled out might not be very attractive to alot of women "

I agree.

Sally

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By *opsy RogersWoman  over a year ago

London

Alpha Wolf? Really?

Good luck with the drilling.

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By *emini ManMan  over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Alpha Wolf? Really?

Good luck with the drilling."

Ahhhh it all makes sense now...Alpha Wolf is the name of the North Sea platform you're working on OP?!

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By *ucy. AlCouple  over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Reads fine to us. Long enough to show you've put some thought into it and says who you are. I'd advise being patient. Don't know what your pms are like but make it personal to the woman or couple your messaging. Username wouldn't necessarily put us off either btw

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By *inky-MinxWoman  over a year ago

Grantham

Another guy with a cock and pics to prove it.

And all the negative stuff about gay/bi men. Just block them.

And a few days is nothing on here, even with a good profile

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By *opsy RogersWoman  over a year ago

London


"Reads fine to us. Long enough to show you've put some thought into it and says who you are. I'd advise being patient. Don't know what your pms are like but make it personal to the woman or couple your messaging. Username wouldn't necessarily put us off either btw"

His profile is now not reflecting who he is due to the input here. His reference to being 420 friendly was his username.

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By *inkySlinkyCouple  over a year ago

Leeds

Your profile says "I describe myself as a dominant bedroom bully. I'm into choking". How many women would dare to submit to this with a stranger?

Sally

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Your profile says "I describe myself as a dominant bedroom bully. I'm into choking". How many women would dare to submit to this with a stranger?

Sally"

Crikey

I love all of these things with my husband but even I'm totally put off by that and definitely wouldn't meet a stranger to do those things with

Ruby

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I think you need to take a close look at your expectations."

Indeed. You're complaining about a lack of results after only a few days!?!?!

As single guys MASSIVELY outnumber single ladies and couples on fab, most don't get their first meet until they have been here several months, and even after getting that first meet under their belt, it can be very hard work to get further meets.

Some fair better than others, but effort is required

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Plenary of fish

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