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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi. I hope someone can help. I am getting lots and lots of views and winks from gay men and TV/TS. Nothing wrong with that in itself other than it's not what I'm looking for.
To the extent that I wonder if my profile is corrupt. It reads as intended when I click through to view it but that may not be what others see.
Came to a head, so to speak, when I had a message from a MF couple saying, "...interesting profile..."
Of course I may just be paranoid but any help welcome. |
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"Hi. I hope someone can help. I am getting lots and lots of views and winks from gay men and TV/TS. Nothing wrong with that in itself other than it's not what I'm looking for.
To the extent that I wonder if my profile is corrupt. It reads as intended when I click through to view it but that may not be what others see.
Came to a head, so to speak, when I had a message from a MF couple saying, "...interesting profile..."
Of course I may just be paranoid but any help welcome. "
Are you looking for a profile critique? |
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OP most ladies view profiles in stealth mode so you will never know how many have actually looked at you. I looked and i can guarantee i'm not on your list.
The guys check you out to find out if you are interested in men or not, there is no other way to do it. You can set your filters to stop them from messaging you but you can't stop them looking.
I don't look at who has been checking out my profile, no point because i dont get anything from it. Even if someone hot has looked i don't bother contacting them, if they were interested they would have contacted me when they checked me out.
Winks are pretty pointless too. A lot of people on here never check them. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks Markyd. I hadn't thought of looking at that and will see what the options are. While it's nice to have views and the thrill of looking to see who from, it's then a shame if they're wide of the mark. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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No thanks unless you think I'm wide of the mark - it is honestly me after all. I think markyd has hit the nail on the head so will look at the privacy settings. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi yorkie
Thanks for taking the time to give a full response and an interesting insight into the way the site works.
I know there is a huge imbalance between the response men and women get through the site but I hadn't twigged the issue of females choosing not to show up on the list.
Love the boxing photos and implied no messing! |
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