Looking for the best way to approach first couple meet. Everyone makes it look so easy. But Mrs is very nervous. best way to go about. Best to chat and take it slowly or just jump straight in and hope for the best. |
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"Looking for the best way to approach first couple meet. Everyone makes it look so easy. But Mrs is very nervous. best way to go about. Best to chat and take it slowly or just jump straight in and hope for the best."
It depends on your wife.
How does she feel would be the best way to approach things?
Personally (I'm the female half) I find being expected to jump straight in puts too much pressure on me so I insist on taking it slowly. That's just me, your wife might find jumping straight in helps. |
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"Looking for the best way to approach first couple meet. Everyone makes it look so easy. But Mrs is very nervous. best way to go about. Best to chat and take it slowly or just jump straight in and hope for the best.
It depends on your wife.
How does she feel would be the best way to approach things?
Personally (I'm the female half) I find being expected to jump straight in puts too much pressure on me so I insist on taking it slowly. That's just me, your wife might find jumping straight in helps."
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"Looking for the best way to approach first couple meet. Everyone makes it look so easy. But Mrs is very nervous. best way to go about. Best to chat and take it slowly or just jump straight in and hope for the best."
As relative new to this we found going to a club, chatting to people to get the nerves gone then into the couples room and played ourself and joined other couples there after a short time and all the usual is it OK pleasantries worked for us both, as said before you will find your own pace, as long as you both agree you can't go wrong |
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Well for me my focus at the minute is gaining my first experience with a couple however I'm finding it quite difficult as most just want straight sex and I'm more into having a connection with who ever I meet ! I'm fairly new to all of this and a quick fuck is not one of my reasons for joining ! I'm looking more soft swing to being with ! It has to be as much about the mind as it is the body for me |
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"Looking for the best way to approach first couple meet. Everyone makes it look so easy. But Mrs is very nervous. best way to go about. Best to chat and take it slowly or just jump straight in and hope for the best.
As relative new to this we found going to a club, chatting to people to get the nerves gone then into the couples room and played ourself and joined other couples there after a short time and all the usual is it OK pleasantries worked for us both, as said before you will find your own pace, as long as you both agree you can't go wrong"
 This.
go to a club, relax and enjoy the environment. You can go as many times as you want to see if it feels right. Don't go expecting to do anything.
Just watch, or play alongside others when you are ready. You might want to do more, even just gentle caressing or more at some stage.
Just relax and do not put any pressure on yourselves.
Have fun. |
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